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Unfortunate Circumstance
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Unfortunate Circumstance

My girlfriend and I met when she was married. We became attracted to each other. I later found she was not happy in marriage. She didn't want to be married to him. She separated from him after we had been intimate. We went out for 2 years. Yesterday 11/23, her ex spilled the beans to her mom and dad why they were not together. Mom and dad knew she and ex were not living together. Now our relationship appears to be over due to revealed information to her parents. Pia said she disappointed parents and God. I don't want things to end between us. My family, friends, and 8 y/o daughter love Pia very much. She appears to be lost and confused during this turmoil.
Please pray for Pia and me. I know what and how we met was wrong and what we did was wrong. Since then, I had always asked the Lord to please forgive us for our sins. I felt I let God down and have always prayed for forgiveness since then. I ask a request in prayer that Pia to find clarity and inner strength; and that God forgives us and gives her clarity and strength. She is fragile due to parental disappointment and she feels she wasn't completely honest with me and ex.
God Bless all who pray for us and ask for the forgiveness of our sins and may we both realize our sins. We also ask for Jesus to help us be better Christians and serve The Lord in how he wants us to.
11-24-2011 05:10 PM
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Father, the vows of marriage are sacred to you, so sacred that you performed the first marriage yourself in the garden of Eden. But forgiveness is also sacred in that you gave your Son to take all of the sins of the world upon Himself that all who are ever born might be forgiven. And because of that great gift we are. But there are consequences for our actions in that salvation is free, but it is not cheap. Father comfort this woman Pia, and bring healing to her tortured heart. Let her see herself as you do...through the blood of the Lamb...cleansed and whole. Strengthen this man that he might know his role as the leader of a woman. If he is to share himself physically with a woman, help him to understand that he must be prepared to marry her, provide for her, protect her and lead her spiritually FIRST. To take another man's wife is forbidden...and will always end in hurt and shame. Have your way in this situation Father, and bring to it the conclusion that is in your plan for the lives of them both. In Jesus name...Amen!
11-26-2011 09:14 AM
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RE: Unfortunate Circumstance

Father I apprecaite adoring 1's understanding of your truth and as I have been in her shoes yes forgiveness is seams is hard to overcome because of the guilt of letting the Father down, but you see when you develop that loving relationship with the father thru his son you will truly understand his compassion and love for us, he does forgive and let go of any wrong doing, and yes you feel shame from your parents but our they not made from the same Father in Heaven is there love for you any different. Yes this is scarey for you right know, we have been taught we need to be perfect in the world our wholes lives by man but without mistakes would we really need Jesus or his Father, would we ever learn thir undying love for us, how true forgiveness from inside sets us free and the heart becomes on fire for him. one forgive yourself thru Jesus' love, ask Pia's parents for forgiveness and the ex-husband (your need to extend this if they chose not do and hold angre towards you where is there hearts), mistakes are made everyday in life so take it to the Jesus's feet and ask him to take it to his father, God can restore your hearts if you just turn to him ask his perfect will into your life. I want you to know you started in the right direction please don't turn back, only go forward in him in the years to come if your in his word happiness will come and you all will heal from this. Trust in God. I do I've been where your at, healing will begin and may I say I understand what she see's in you, you have a good heart, go forward not backwards looking over your shoulder Jesus is the healer it is written, Trust him. A loving friend. Amen
11-26-2011 10:25 AM
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