Father,

Thank you for the realization given this morning about how we pray about our troubled marriages. How I wish I had understood this some years ago when I was praying for my own. Forgive me for praying so selfishly then about what I wanted my ex-husband to do while he was caught up in adultery because of my own broken heart, my EROS love for him and my own pain and desires...that I missed the true mark. Perhaps the growth you have provided over these last 8 years can help others? I pray that it will...and I pray that earnest prayers, from many prayer warriors to reclaim those that have strayed from God will bring movement in many hearts... some of stone and some that are broken... and repair to many homes on the verge of collapse.

Speak life into these marriages. Turn hearts away from fraudulent partners and back to those to whom vows of fidelity were made. Give this husband or wife a rock solid understanding of what he/she is dealing with. This is not a battle with people who influence, other women or other men; it is one against spiritual wickedness among powers and principalities in high places...there is oppression operating against this wife or husband from these powers and principalities to turn their free will against God. They may not recognize it, but as I pray, this is what I am led to say. For the husband or wife of one who has strayed, I pray that he/she understands that there can be no breakthrough until this spouse is right with God. It is not about them loving in an EROS way this spouse they have left behind or the person with whom they are currently involved. It is not about them returning to this marriage or staying in an unholy relationship...rather it is about their returning to a relationship with Christ. Unless and until they recognize that they are in opposition to the Lord...His will and His ways...there will be no change in the current outcome and in fact it may become worse. This fallen spouse believes that their actions are right...okay...in their sight. They believe it as strongly as the one who has been left behind and wants reconciliation believes. He/she has been convinced by this evil oppression that what he/she is doing is somehow justified. As long as this husband/wife who has been left continues the quest, even in prayer for EROS love as their focus...there will be no change in the behavior of the other. By definition EROS love is that which is fueled by selfish desire...we want those we love to love us back, to share intimacy with us and us only...and this is both natural and human and ultimately what God intends in the marriage relationship...but the need within the one that has strayed that will return HIM or HER to righteousness is for AGAPE love to return...loving themselves as God loves them, loving their spouses as God loves them also...continuance of marriage is NOT a condition for AGAPE love...nothing is...it is unconditional. When we pray in this circumstance...we can and should pray for the return of this straying partner to their marriage...but first things first, as our God does things decently and in order. Let us pray for a return of the straying spouse to God...to His principles, to reverence for Him. When we revere God we cannot go against his ways. The heart of stone that currently exists in the breast of the one who is unfaithful is because their conscience has been seared...and continuance of this is exactly what the enemy wants. Let us bombard heaven with prayers to bring the unfaithful ones back to Jesus...let us ask for them to see themselves through the eyes of Jesus...let us ask that they see how HIS spirit is grieved because of their actions, not our own grief...let us ask for them to see that they are throwing His love, His sacrifice out the window due to their own quest for EROs which can and will bring chaos and destruction into their lives and those in their families... as it already has. These unfaithful husbands and wives are beyond the reach of what their spouses want right now...they no longer care about it...they are deeply engaged in her their own selfish quests to have what THEY want. But they are not beyond the reach of God. Let us pray with all our might that those who have broken their vows fall in love with Jesus again! If they do...if they get back into God's order...the order of the decency of God...their free will can be directed again by the Lord of Hosts...and their return to their marriages, where they belong can again become possible. This I believe...and it is this I pray. In Jesus name...Amen!

Hosea Wrote:Thursday 12/3 is my wife's birthday. She is going on a date to a concert even though we're still married. I ask you to stand in agreement for my prayer for a "Hedge of Thorns."

Heavenly Father, I ask you, LORD, to rebuke and bind Satan in the name and through the blood of the Lord Jesus Christ.

I ask you to build a "Hedge of Thorns" around my wife, so that anyone with wrong influence will lose interest in her and leave.

I base this prayer on the command of Your Word which states, "Therefore, don’t let anyone separate what God has joined together."

Father God, Thank you for hearing and answering my prayer, Amen.

My husband has been with another woman. They have been contacting each other via email,phone and the have taken a trip together. He says it all in my mind and I am amking this stuff up and causing this to happen, but the bank statement shows where they were. He gives her money thru paypal and our account is empty

Father, I stand in agreement with you Father and ask that you honor this prayer and bring this man home to his family. Comfort this wife that she may know your presence. In Jesus name...Amen!

Guest Wrote:I am going through a trying time in my marriage with my husband. I am praying the Hedge of Thorns prayer for my husband to come back to me and my kids and the other woman to leave us alone. A dramatic change has happened and I keep praying for a complete resolve.
Please pray for me.

Thank you God for the relief and please keep working in my life and other needy spouses in my position. Amen

Things are a lot better and stable. Thank you Lord for interfering. Please keep the devil away from my family. Please help all the needy pleading for your help.

In Jesus name, Amen

Amen and Amen! God be praised!!!

Prayers needed for my spouse who left our family after 34 years for another woman. He has filed for divorce. A miracle is needed. Please pray for our family that he sees his errors and comes back for a complete reconsiliation with his family and with God. Thank you

God is good all the time. Believe on His promises He will not let Satan to have control in your marriage. He will restore everything that the enemy had destroyed.

I stand in agreement with each and everyone of you who has prayed the Hedge of Thorns prayer around their spouse .Please do the same for me only in my case its my husbands grown daughter who has an unatuural hold over him she is ripping us apart for the second time. Has convinsed him to divorce me please pray it will be stopped quickly.I'm diabled and need him home desperately. Thank you and God Bless

Please stand in agreement with me in prayer for my loved one will not be unfaithful to me anymore. I pray to God In the Power and Authority of Jesus Name, The Power of His Blood and the The Power of the Word in which I stand today concerning my situation to put a Hedge of Thorns around my boyfriend, JAT, and a wall between him and LYING, CHEATING, DECEIPT, INFIDELITY, BETRAYAL, ANY WOMAN FROM HIS PAST, PRESENT AND FUTURE, KO CY CMM THAT MAY HAVE SOME INTEREST OR MEMORIES OF HIM WILL NOW BE SEPARATED FROM HIM FOR ALL ETERNITY AND WILL LOSE INTEREST AND DEPART NEVER TO BE HEARD AGAIN. AMEN.