Lord you first
Spouse Second
Family third
Lord,
No where in this line did you say that other were to come in between, you said it that is it, we claim it, in your precious name we pray.

Guest Wrote:I am Jessica.My husband told me last week that the marriage and the love for me were all lies. His first girlfriend is now going to be separated from her husband and hence my husband now wants to go back to her and file for separation with me.We are all christians.As i began to pray for my husband these few days,his heart has been more hardened against God and it is indeed very worrying.I really need all of you to rally in prayers for him so that he will be able to see that it the lord God almight who really is the love of his life and that the love of a wife is secondary to that of the love of christ.We are going to see our pastor on this Saturday and really need your prayers for God to touch him in his own special ways and for him to send people of Godly counsel to talk to him and for God to touch him so that his heart of stone will be changed to heart of flesh and heart of obedience.
I’m crushed and almost feel like giving life up.
May the lord bless you richly in all that you do.

My friends and i prayed for my husband and they had the vision of him going to the temple and seeking divine divination about which girl he should be with.
He is still extremely cold towards me but most of then asked me to keep praying for him and let my love for him touch him and God will do his part also when we pray.
So brothers and sisters in christ,he is going to file for divorce in end of april this year and hence we are really hoping for a breakthrough in God's power to bring him back to christ and back to this marriage.
Do keep praying for us.I will be updating all of you.
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-My husband kept saying it's because of the disputes we had and he cannot stand my character and that's why the divorce and it has nothing to do with Daphne even though he has told people that he will be going back to her after he signs the paper.

Also,he said he wants us to go for a second opinion to a professional marriage counsellor and see if she is able to talk him out of his decision.

If all else fails,he will be moving out and signing the papers end of april.

So brothers and sisters in christ,do pray for healing of the hurt and the bitterness in his heart that we may have inflicted on him during quarreles and also for him not to be blinded by satan's deceptive hold using Daphne.

Thanks

updates as of last night:

Alan said he is the devil and hell is his place.He also committed blasphemy by saying that there is no God in this world and a miracle is impossible.
He also tried to force me to sign the separation leters by end of April.He said if i don't sign,he will go missing to another country for 2 years and after that the marriage will be void.
I'm totally lost!

If i look at the situation when both my husband and Daphne are supposdely madly in love,the i think the situation is truly hopeless
My husband even asked me to go for abortion.He would rather have Daphne's 5 year old son and kill his own.
Well i know not what to do.I think i should just sign the paperse and do what he wants.

Do not have an abortion. With or without your husband, you should NOT have an abortion.
I believe that if God wants you and your husband to live as husband and wife he will let it happen, if you pray and then Trust him completely to take care of the situation. Yes the Devil is a liar, and a cheat, etc. BUT God is much stronger than the devil, and all he wants is for us to love and trust him completely.
Dear Lord, please take care of this situation. The turmoil has gone on and on for this poor woman, help her to be strong no matter what, and to trust you completely. Keep both of the children in this situation safe, the unborn, and the 5 year old. For they are your innocent children. Bind Satan in this case Lord, and completely remove him so these people can get back to loving and trusting in you. For it says in your word, that if God be for us who dare be against us.
I love and trust you Lord to help these children of yours
In Jesus Name
Amen

its very tough
Even my parents in law didn't say anything.sometimes i wonder why the lord has to put me through all these and where is he?
*Tears*

Never give up on Jesus, he wants only whats best for you, and this unborn child, may just be Gods way of letting you start brand new.
Dear Lord comfort your hurting child, help her to make the decisions that are right for her, and Glorify you.
In your loving name
Amen

I'm beginning to think its a joke when i saw the ornaments given to me during wedding that what God hath put together,let no man separate.There were so many signs and signals from God that led to the marriage.I'm not sure whether now God wants me to proceed with the divorce or is this a true test of "for better for worse.."This is the worst case scenario already.I'm really lost....

I know what it's like to be in your situation. I've been faithful to God and to my wife for 8 years now despite her wanting out. She moved out (again) last year, but God has blessed me and I know that He will restore things in His time and has shown me that again and again.

If you need encouragement, look up Rejoice Marriage Ministries from Bob and Cheryl Steinkamp and read some of their stuff.