I am Jessica.My husband told me last week that the marriage and the love for me were all lies. His first girlfriend is now going to be separated from her husband and hence my husband now wants to go back to her and file for separation with me.We are all christians.As i began to pray for my husband these few days,his heart has been more hardened against God and it is indeed very worrying.I really need all of you to rally in prayers for him so that he will be able to see that it the lord God almight who really is the love of his life and that the love of a wife is secondary to that of the love of christ.We are going to see our pastor on this Saturday and really need your prayers for God to touch him in his own special ways and for him to send people of Godly counsel to talk to him and for God to touch him so that his heart of stone will be changed to heart of flesh and heart of obedience.
I’m crushed and almost feel like giving life up.
May the lord bless you richly in all that you do.

Dear Lord let this woman realize that giving up on life because of this man is not worth it. If this man has done this to her he is not a real Christian at all but a farce. A real Christian doesn't go around playing with people's emotions and taking advantage of them like he has done to her. Lord you know I'm one that knows you heal marriages, but this one was built on false promises and lies. So I just ask you Lord that you will be done in their marriage for you know what's best for us. Bring this man and his first love to repentance for the way they have played with innocent people's emotions. Bring healing to this woman and to the husband of the other woman too, for we know he must be hurting also. Lord work it all out for the welfare of the victims and for your Glory Heavenly Father, I ask and thank you in Jesus Precious Name, Amen!

Lord, i pray that Jessica's husband will be turned back to You, and to his wife and the vows he made. Lord, its tough seeing the enemy destroy families, but we know that greater is He in us, than he in the world. Lord, please bring healing to this whole situation, let it be covered with grace and wisdom, by YOur Spirit Lord. Change hearts Lord God, and i ask for You to give more strength and healing and peace to jessica. in Jesus Name, amen

I delight greatly in the LORD; my soul rejoices in my God. For he has clothed me with garments of salvation and arrayed me in a robe of righteousness, as a bridegroom adorns his head like a priest, and as a bride adorns herself with her jewels. For as the soil makes the sprout come up and a garden causes seeds to grow, so the Sovereign LORD will make righteousness and praise spring up before all nations. Isaiah 61:10-62 Father Jesus, I lift Your daughter Jessica in prayer. I pray that You provide her with your peace, love, faith, trust, joy, strength, wisdom and understanding while she's going through this tough time. I pray that You surround her with family and friends. I pray that You minister to her husband so that he may know the wrong he's doing, Lord, touch his heart with Your Love so that he may see the hurt he’s causing. I pray that You soften his heart and that You remove the scales from his eyes so that he may see Your righteousness. I pray for the restoration of this marriage my Lord. I pray that Your love is strong in both of them and they continue to serve Your kingdom. May Your will be done in their lives in Jesus Christ name, amen.

may the lord be with u at times just remember one thing jessica never give up and the lord will always be there for u and no matter what he will always come back to u for a reason just keep on praying and ur husband will always be urs in the lords name amen

May God bless each of you, be welcomed into your lives, hearts, and minds and help guide you through these difficult times. If you truly turn it over to God, he will respond.

Dear brothers and sisters in christ,

I am indeed more encouraged that so many people do care and are willing to pray for me even though we are all strangers.All of your prayers mean a lot to me.Through it all,God has given me more strength to face this trying situation.In all,God had reminded me that whatever that is impossible in man,it is possible with God.

Just an update about the situation.My husband finally smsed me on my handphone that he agreed to let me pray for him to open his heart that he had been controlling to the lord.I prayed for him.Do continue to pray for us because your prayers has caused some of the hardness to be gone.He is starting to trust God.As for the other woman,please continue to pray for me because i am tempted to look into his Handphone which i didn't.Whenever i wanted to see his handphone,i would ask,What would Jesus Do?I think Jesus would entrust the conviction into the lord's hands because the lord is in control of the situation.But do help me to continue to pray for God to take back control of his life and breathe life back into this marriage,to pray for his heart to grow cold towards the other woman and for his heart to be aflame with love for God for for his wife,me.

Just a urgent update.We went to the pastor today and my husband alan has really hardened his heart towards the lord.
The first sentence he said was:I want a separation because i want to go back to that girl.The pastors wanted to dissuade him but he kept saying he wants to go back to that girl.
The pastors could sense that the girl Daphne has given him pressure to conform to a certain timeline to leave me to go back to her as she finalises her divorce with her husband.
After 1.5 hours of talking,the session finally concluded with the pastor asking him to go with me this family counselling session with the church and kept reminding that there is no hurry to make such a rash and rushed decision.He kept quiet and then the pastors said:Well silence means consent right?Hence he will be arranging for session for us.
Do pray that
-He will be obedient to go for these session
-He may be facing stress from Daphne(The girl who left the husband and asked him to go back to her)He will have a yielding heart to the lord.
-His heart will not be hardened towards God and for this marriage
Thanks!

I can do all things through him who strengthens me. Philippians 4:13 Father Jesus, I continue to lift Jessica and her husband in prayer Lord. Please touch and soften her husband's heart, restore this marriage and make it strong, may Your Holy will be done because You hate divorce. I continue to pray that You touch her husband's heart with Your peace, love, faith, trust, joy, strength, knowledge, wisdom and understanding. I pray that You Holy Father remove the scales that are blinding him and that his marriage is restored. I pray that You continue to give Jessica Your faith, trust, strength, courage, peace, love, joy and healing, in Jesus Holy name I pray amen.

latest update:My husband alan has said over lunch that he will choose that girl,Daphne over God over his family and over me and has no quelms about living in guilt for the rest of his life.He kept saying hes willing to face dire consequences and is not afraid of being condemned to hell.
Please continue to pray,for God to open his heart and mind and to be sane.
Thanks brothers and sisters in christ