My wife and I have been struggling in the past in our marriage. I had anger and I was verbally abusive.

We are changing, healing getting better

But I can’t even tell if my wife even has been doing things out of love , or if she has been trying to prevent or avoid me from being angry.

Please pray that God would make sure that her motives for doing everything is pure and loving and not out of fear or anger preventing or trying to mitigate anger .

Pray for help , healing and pure motives on both of our end .

Pray the Lord heals our marriage , heals our hearts , heals our motives , makes our hearts right and that we know it .



Pray also that my wife Rebecca would speak up if something is wrong or on her heart and not remain silent or be secretive about it .

Pray that I would not have anger or rejection fears anymore too. And that God gives us grace and fearlessness .

Pray that Rebecca and I would get affection , love , playfulness and comfortable and adventure that hasn’t been there in our marriage before .

Pray for us and our family delivered from all fear and anger and hurt and pain and false beliefs and wrong thinking.

Pray that Rebecca will open up too and not be scared , not be avoidant of me or avoidant of things needed.

Pray for grace and peace and that our family can find more friends too
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Thank you Lord amen