i have been married for 5 years and our marriage has been troubled because my husband places his parents and siblings and their wishes above mine. I am to obey as everyone else says and do as they please. his parents are from the mindset that my place is only as a child bearer and for the rest i need to obey them at all times. when i lost my child last year my husband found solace in his sisters child and in spending most of his time with them on the internet despite them living far away from us. i felt deeply hurt yet i carried on. every small fight we have he threatens for divorce and in a recent fight he asked me to leave 'his' house and said that since i cant listen to his parents i cannot stay in his house any more. i have been living with my parents for the past two months. i had stopped believing in God when my last hope, my to be born was taken away. yet i regained my faith after this separation and have since then been praying to the Lord to help put things back in order. I want to live with my husband but I want him to show me love and respect. i want him to have me as his world. he wants me to come back under his conditions that i will appologize to his parents and continue to listen to things and do as they say. I know i cannot go back in those conditions else i will make myself go through the same pain i have been through for the past 5 years. yet i love him so much i'm hoping miraculously God will make him see things clearly, that our separation is caused by his allowing his parents interference. I am praying that God will send him to take me back promising his love in his heart. I am new to Christianity but have found solace in the teachings of Christ. Please pray that whatever happens i have the courage to face it - if he no longer loves me then i should have the courage to move on - but if he does love me even a tiny bit then please pray that God give him guidance and bring him back into my life so that I may have the opportunity to live a life of abundance and love.