Broken Heart, loneliness, depression!!!! I am dealing with all of theses symptoms right now! I have been in a long term relationship and was told by the man I loved that I am too good of a woman for him and that I deserve better. Our relationship ha dno problems but he all of a sudden decided that he no longer wanted to be in a comitted relationship. Because I am a God fearing woman and I live my life as such, I would have never seen this coming especially since I try as hard as I can to live right. I always thought I was strong and I am looked up to by others as being a strong woman but because the love of my life has rejeced me because of what he says my being to good I have begun to question myslef and just how much or if God Loves me. Thoughts of ending my life, and severe depression is settin in on my heart and I know they are not right but I feel as though living right hurts just as much. Please pray my strength in the Lord and that I do not loose my faith. help my heart to heal because of the breakup immediatly and that Gods will be done in my life!

Father, this situation is being used by the enemy against this woman. Father bind him from influencing her feelings and her thoughts. Let her remember who you are and that you can and will do what your word says you will. Give her a peace that surpasses all understanding and let her cast all of her cares and fears upon your Son. Help her to renew her trust in you, that you know what is best for her. Father forgive her her thoughts of self-destruction in your kindness and mercy and let her feel your presence and your love. Heal the broken heart that beats within her and prepare her for the goodness that you will bring in the days to come. In Jesus name...Amen! For joy cometh in the morning! In Jesus name...Amen!

I agree with adoring1's post & will add; hold your head high that you are living a life for God. He Will Bless you! Jesus was & is rejected to this day, the bible speaks of suffering as a Christian.

If this man is not a solid Christian it is not surprising that he has rejected you, he is not able to stand in The Light of Christ with you.
Believe that living your life for CHRIST & by THE WORD will bring you many rewards that are eternal. Believe it.

You say others say you are a strong woman. When we follow Christ, walking in HIS WAYS, we remain strong! I commend you for your faith.

If this man is repelled by your devotion, release him to GOD, & then continue on your journey toward Heaven. God Is Awesome.

The beauty of being a Christian is that we love. There is forgiveness & spiritual understanding that surpasses human ways.
Trust in HIM. Love @ all times.

Sing a new song, along with the angels in Heaven, REJOICE in HIM! He Is our Father. He Is our Spouse.

God Bless you & I pray that The Lord heals your heart.

Galatians 5:22-23 NIV
22 But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, forbearance, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, 23 gentleness and self-control.

adoring1 Wrote:Father, this situation is being used by the enemy against this woman. Father bind him from influencing her feelings and her thoughts. Let her remember who you are and that you can and will do what your word says you will. Give her a peace that surpasses all understanding and let her cast all of her cares and fears upon your Son. Help her to renew her trust in you, that you know what is best for her. Father forgive her her thoughts of self-destruction in your kindness and mercy and let her feel your presence and your love. Heal the broken heart that beats within her and prepare her for the goodness that you will bring in the days to come. In Jesus name...Amen! For joy cometh in the morning! In Jesus name...Amen!

adoring1 Wrote:Father, this situation is being used by the enemy against this woman. Father bind him from influencing her feelings and her thoughts. Let her remember who you are and that you can and will do what your word says you will. Give her a peace that surpasses all understanding and let her cast all of her cares and fears upon your Son. Help her to renew her trust in you, that you know what is best for her. Father forgive her her thoughts of self-destruction in your kindness and mercy and let her feel your presence and your love. Heal the broken heart that beats within her and prepare her for the goodness that you will bring in the days to come. In Jesus name...Amen! For joy cometh in the morning! In Jesus name...Amen!

I Understand...I feel your pain...currently there with someone I love. Have Faith...think on Good things that God provides for you. May God give you the strength you need, the faith required to overcome, and the Hope that one needs to continue on. In Jesus Name I pray these things for you.

Ask The Lord To Show you the reasons that this did not work out.
We each are on a journey of the soul, there can be some surprising answers for you, understanding that comes with time. Believe that The Lord Will continue to grow you in HIM, spiritually! Most important as a Christian is our spiritual development, that we are purified in CHRIST, by HIS LOVE, that we enter Heaven.

One must love, completely totally & purely to enter The Pearly Gates. When we have love, or loose a love, it is rising above (circumstances) in our hearts to see ourselves in CHRIST, our purpose, who we are in HIM. Over & over until we are purified. It is this way with those we love, they must purify as well to enter Heaven, at times they are removed from our lives that they can work on their own purification. As Christians, one sees that each soul must purify in order to enter Heaven. When we release the person (ie your boyfriend breaks up so you let go), trust that in Christ, we continue our journey. God Shows us the reasons.

We never have to be lonely, because we love. God Is Love.
Being alone, is opportunity to reach out to others in Christ. Lonely, is a state where our heart seeks God, that love that we know only in our highest self aligned with HIM.

Continue on your journey & thank God For what you have learned. Ask Him To Show you who you are in HIM. Seek Heavenly Knowledge, & then not trying to make sense of non sense. In other words, let go in love.

Guest Wrote:Broken Heart, loneliness, depression!!!! I am dealing with all of theses symptoms right now! I have been in a long term relationship and was told by the man I loved that I am too good of a woman for him and that I deserve better. Our relationship ha dno problems but he all of a sudden decided that he no longer wanted to be in a comitted relationship. Because I am a God fearing woman and I live my life as such, I would have never seen this coming especially since I try as hard as I can to live right. I always thought I was strong and I am looked up to by others as being a strong woman but because the love of my life has rejeced me because of what he says my being to good I have begun to question myslef and just how much or if God Loves me. Thoughts of ending my life, and severe depression is settin in on my heart and I know they are not right but I feel as though living right hurts just as much. Please pray my strength in the Lord and that I do not loose my faith. help my heart to heal because of the breakup immediatly and that Gods will be done in my life!

Dear Havenly Father The Kingdom come thy will be done on earth as it is in Heaven forgive us are sin as we for give are debtor and lead us not into temptiation but deliver us from evil Please answer this person prayer acord to your will and bless there life Lord and we give you all the honor,glory, and priase to whom all power belong. IN JESUS NAME I PRAY AMEN

Guest Wrote:Broken Heart, loneliness, depression!!!! I am dealing with all of theses symptoms right now! I have been in a long term relationship and was told by the man I loved that I am too good of a woman for him and that I deserve better. Our relationship ha dno problems but he all of a sudden decided that he no longer wanted to be in a comitted relationship. Because I am a God fearing woman and I live my life as such, I would have never seen this coming especially since I try as hard as I can to live right. I always thought I was strong and I am looked up to by others as being a strong woman but because the love of my life has rejeced me because of what he says my being to good I have begun to question myslef and just how much or if God Loves me. Thoughts of ending my life, and severe depression is settin in on my heart and I know they are not right but I feel as though living right hurts just as much. Please pray my strength in the Lord and that I do not loose my faith. help my heart to heal because of the breakup immediatly and that Gods will be done in my life!

Dear Lord,please have mercy on this woman.
In the Name of the Lord,right now I command to all the power of darkness and the curses to leave this woman! Now!
I pray that Your will to be done in her life.
You are the King of kings and Your Name is Wonderful.
Thank You my Lord

(01-02-2011 08:25 PM)Guest Wrote:  Broken Heart, loneliness, depression!!!! I am dealing with all of theses symptoms right now! I have been in a long term relationship and was told by the man I loved that I am too good of a woman for him and that I deserve better. Our relationship ha dno problems but he all of a sudden decided that he no longer wanted to be in a comitted relationship. Because I am a God fearing woman and I live my life as such, I would have never seen this coming especially since I try as hard as I can to live right. I always thought I was strong and I am looked up to by others as being a strong woman but because the love of my life has rejeced me because of what he says my being to good I have begun to question myslef and just how much or if God Loves me. Thoughts of ending my life, and severe depression is settin in on my heart and I know they are not right but I feel as though living right hurts just as much. Please pray my strength in the Lord and that I do not loose my faith. help my heart to heal because of the breakup immediatly and that Gods will be done in my life!

You brag about you are a God fearing woman to almost sound like you are so perfect and then speaking of ending your life? Self pity are we? Stop Blaming God and feeling self pity in Jesus' name. Continually I hear people ask why does God allow crime, sickness, natural disasters, etc. These people are Christians and nonbelievers. I deliberate Christians as ignorant to ask these questions because those answers are in the Bible. I deliberate the nonbelievers as ignorant because it’s ludicrous to accuse a God that you don’t believe in. I wish people would stop looking for a genie to appear and do the research themselves. It’s absurd, God doesn’t exist but he’s the cause of everything ‘that doesn’t go our way.’ Why is it not Budda’s fault, or Muhammad’s fault, or Hindu’s fault, or the statues people worship a fault? Why are we humans the source of everything good yet when a murderer comes in your home and takes a life suddenly it’s God’s fault? As if God is a big powerful spirit looking down on us with hate and wants our lives to be miserable. I do believe God is in control of everything but that doesn’t mean everything is God’s fault. Some things we bring upon ourselves and we do have to recognize there is Satan and his demons who are out to destroy all Gods creations. The biggest question is why does God allow bad things to happen to good people? Why does God allow murders happen to victims who didn’t deserve it? But, have anyone asked God why he allowed them to get away with cheating on that test to past the class with a grade they didn’t deserve? No. Now, I’m sure you’re asking me am I really comparing murder to a student cheating in a classroom? Yes, I am because no matter how different the circumstances are, it all fall to the same conclusion. We ask why does God allow bad things happen to good people. But, why do we allow ourselves who supposedly be good people to do bad things? Why do we allow ourselves to judge? Why do we allow ourselves to hurt others because we’re hurt? That's what a murderer is, a person who’s hurt and wants someone else to feel pain because no one likes to feel as if no one knows what they feel. Then there are things that happen that we have no control over no matter how we live such as natural disasters. Therefore, if you want to know why God allowed the tornado to come through your neighborhood and destroy your home or take your loved ones then just ask. God is not a being who you have to sacrifice a certain amount of money to talk to. God is not a being who requires a certain social status to talk to him. God is a being who has ears for everyone. If you want to gain some wisdom about God’s plans for earth and our personal lives then read the Bible. People assume the Bible is nothing more than words to encourage us to live a peaceful and happy life. Albeit that is a part of it but the Bible is much more. The Bible explains in many ways why does bad things happen to good people and it explains God’s justice system on wickedness. The book of Job is the most vivid story of bad things happening to good people. If you have a question you want God to answer directly then pray. You don’t always have to get on your knees to pray. All you have to do is call God’s name, ask your question, and he will answer you. People are too stubborn, they think because they don’t claim themselves as Christians that they shouldn’t pick up a Bible yet they have all these accusations about God. DO YOUR RESEARCH! Its utter ignorance to question God and seek the world to answer it. To seek science and man to answer your questions about God. What knowledge comes from accusing a God you know nothing about? You’re merely being evil as the evil you blame God is allowing! I’m not saying I understand everything that happens under the sun. There are things that happen in this world that I don’t know why such as human trafficking of teen girls, how little kids get beaten because their guardians are bitter of their own lives, why do police abuse their power, why black men fight over petty things, why are some white people secretly racist as if we don’t notice? Probably all these questions will never get answered, and the crimes probably will never change. I believe they will have a different degree if we do something about it but other than that I know it will continue until the end of time. So why dwell on it? I’m not saying because it will never end that we shouldn’t try everyday to stop it. But, are we going to do something about it or just sit back and blame God for it? Natural disasters are not our fault, and yes we can blame God for them because God is in control of all natural disasters. But, should we blame God as to condemn him for our lost? Instead, we should pray to God to help us see through our lost. God brought the calamity to us so don’t you think he can bring us out? Therefore, I don’t think it’ll be a good idea to be mad at God because it will merely make a bad situation worse. Have I ever had a reason to be mad at God? Yes. Where did that anger get me? Nowhere. Every minute we spend being bitter at God is another minute we waste gaining understanding of our circumstances. Humans make promises, and merely half of us keep our promises. God makes promises and has nor never will break his promises. His word is true, and his word is just. Whether his words speak of joy or sadness, his words are righteous. If God says a disaster is coming then should we worry? If God says, he will protect us then should there be a reason for us to doubt? If God says, we will die shouldn’t we have peace that we will have eternal life and confidence that God is taking us because our will on earth is finished. If God says he will restore sevenfold what the tornado, earthquake, or hurricane takes away from us then shouldn’t we have confidence to not hold on to our belongings because we know what is to come is greater than what we already have. Albeit, God never promised that our life will be perfect. He never promised that we will understand everything that happens under the sun. As a person may never understand why God took their child away but what will we prosper by being bitter to God? Maybe some circumstances are not meant to be understood, but we can have peace in all our circumstances. We can pray to God to heal our pain and to open our hearts for forgiveness.