My husband had an affair. I told him I knew and he asked me if I wanted a divorce I told him no. He asked if I wanted him to leave and I told him no. I want my marriage I love my husband. He says he cares alot about me and blames me for his infidelity and the way he feels. He says I pushed him away. We are suppose to be working on things. He is talking to me more. and calls me more then he had been. He isn't as angry that seems to have subsided once I told him I knew. He does things and talks about some things like the yard in the summer like he isn't going anywhere. But Im confused he wont kiss me or hold me; I kiss him on the cheek and I give him hugs. I say I love you but he wont say he loves me. I try to make plans with him to do things together and he makes excuses. I just want my marriage back and my husband to love me. I believe he does or he would have gone but I can't seem to reach him with my love. I told him I loved him with all my heart and he asked me why? Please Lord God,, I need my husband I love my husband open his heart to me remove the wall that he has placed between us. If It is guilt that has built this wall if it is that he dont feel worthy of my love please open his heart and mind to see that my love is here and that we can have a stronger and better relationship full of love if he would just be open to it and stop blocking it. Please I no he feels he has to be this womans friend that he owes her that and he cares that she is hurt but I beg you lord to make her go away and remove her from our marriage and my husbands life help her to see that what she is doing is wrong and help her to find someone that is free to love her.. AMEn
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Guest Wrote:My husband had an affair. //// He says he cares alot about me and blames me for his infidelity and the way he feels. He says I pushed him away.

He is an unrepentent adulterer who also refuses to accept responsibility for his actions and blames them on you. I don't see how you could ever trust him again since he is likely to do it again since he says it's all your fault.

I wonder how God is supposed to rebuild a marriage when only one of the two people in it is worthy of marriage..... I pray that God will comfort you and show you the path to a better life. amen

Dear Lord,please have mercy on this woman.
In the Name of the Lord,right now I command to all the power of darkness and the curses to leave this woman! Now!
I pray that Your will to be done in their life.
You are the King of kings and Your Name is Wonderful.
Thank You my Lord

In Jesus' name we pray!