I'm asking for healing from all the damage my ex husband did to me & in my life. It is huge. I typed it out but cannot bring myself to put it all here. I loved this man with all my heart & soul. He caused such enormous damage to me, & in my life. I don't want to hurt him by putting all the details but it was so huge & left such devastation. He went along like it was nothing, to begin his life again with someone else. I was always faithful to him. My heart bleeds for those who have been married & their spouse up & leaves & just goes about their merry way. Do they not see God? I do not want him back anymore.
I finally realized that my prayers were not to ask him back (I used to pray this for so long but in the end it didn't help change a thing).
He wanted the divorce so many times & for so long & in his continued absence, I gave it to him.
I pray to heal. I pray that those that are married or are contemplating marriage do so according to HIS WORD.
My ex h claimed he was free to marry biblically but I later learned this was not so (after married/ he says his wife had cheated on him, which turned out to be a lie from what I learned). It was my 1st marriage.
I claim God's Salvation & I pray that my ex goes to Heaven. But I pray for God's Justice, that those who seek to destroy marriage, the vows they made, till death do us part, that there Is A Righteous God, that will see that all is as it should be.
I never cheated on him, I was happy. I will stop because I do not want to hurt him or further damage him by placing details here.
But I ask that God Wrap His Arms Around me.
I learned that the pain caused by divorce is serious & lingering.
I am glad that God Has Made me strong on the inside. That I will live my life according to HIS WORD. I ask for healing of my heart & my life, from this most difficult & quite traumatic experience.
I am very empathetic to those who have been cheated on & left behind. God Bless you all.

& all the claims of what he & I were to do for God, all the huge big dreams & plans that were supposedly, "of God," well..
apparently they are now for his next wife & him.

I say, test the spirits!

God I ask that YOU REMOVE all evil, from those we love, those we have loved, as the destruction of the evil one is great.

I am @ peace with my life & God Continues To Show me much, post all of this trauma/drama, but be forewarned that unless one is able to stand on their own two feet & live in HIS WORD, there are other spirits not of God that can be @ work.
I am healed & whole, divorced. I am happy, with things to do & a new life. But I continue to live by HIS WORD.
God Has Shown me much & I believe that my life has grown because I was able to stand still, to hear & listen to HIM.
I was married, I was happy, but my now ex, is off into other women's arms, his claims, "till death do us part," are not so.
God Is My Spouse.
I no longer desire him back.
God Has Shown me that he does not belong to me anylonger, that now He Is God's, that the two of them have unfinished business.
But biblically my ex is not free to date or remarry. I know this is true. The powers of GOD ARE. There is nothing I can do or change.
But I seek salvation of those I love.
I do not sit & cry (I used to some time ago, but the tears dried up. How can I cry for someone that does not desire me? .. I quit crying over him. It was of no use. )
God Showed me to stand tall. To stand in THE FIRE.
Live according to HIS WORD.
Divorce is horrendous. It's not of HIM.
But God IS.
So I am ok, but I do ask prayers that my life mend, because there is much damage left behind & it was & is all on my plate to deal with.
ALL OF IT. I weary some days taking care of the details.
I know there is a GOD & there is GOD'S JUSTICE.
I await the day that I see all those I love in Heaven. I can wait.
& I pray. There is much work to do for all of us, as Christians, for the broken hearted for those that are not. Our hearts are healed in HIM, by HIS LOVE & HIS TRUTH.
Each person stands before God. I choose to stand firm in THE FIRE.
& I await that glorious day of JESUS' RETURN!
IN HIS PRECIOUS NAME. AMEN.

Guest Wrote:I'm asking for healing from all the damage my ex husband did to me & in my life. It is huge. I typed it out but cannot bring myself to put it all here. I loved this man with all my heart & soul. He caused such enormous damage to me, & in my life. I don't want to hurt him by putting all the details but it was so huge & left such devastation. He went along like it was nothing, to begin his life again with someone else. I was always faithful to him. My heart bleeds for those who have been married & their spouse up & leaves & just goes about their merry way. Do they not see God? I do not want him back anymore.
I finally realized that my prayers were not to ask him back (I used to pray this for so long but in the end it didn't help change a thing).
He wanted the divorce so many times & for so long & in his continued absence, I gave it to him.
I pray to heal. I pray that those that are married or are contemplating marriage do so according to HIS WORD.
My ex h claimed he was free to marry biblically but I later learned this was not so (after married/ he says his wife had cheated on him, which turned out to be a lie from what I learned). It was my 1st marriage.
I claim God's Salvation & I pray that my ex goes to Heaven. But I pray for God's Justice, that those who seek to destroy marriage, the vows they made, till death do us part, that there Is A Righteous God, that will see that all is as it should be.
I never cheated on him, I was happy. I will stop because I do not want to hurt him or further damage him by placing details here.
But I ask that God Wrap His Arms Around me.
I learned that the pain caused by divorce is serious & lingering.
I am glad that God Has Made me strong on the inside. That I will live my life according to HIS WORD. I ask for healing of my heart & my life, from this most difficult & quite traumatic experience.
I am very empathetic to those who have been cheated on & left behind. God Bless you all.

FAther...bring healing to this wounded soul...but bring wisdom too. Replaying what this man did in his cruelty will simply keep the wound open...rather focus on the word of God and leave the past in the past. By His stripes we are healed. I will never leave you or abandon you...I the Lord of Hosts will be your husband. Father lead her to those scriptures that will bring her healing and peace. Whenever she feels the need to replay the hurt...if it be in your will...lead her to a scripture that she can memorize and repeat to banish the thoughts of the enemy. Help her to fall totally in love you with Jesus to the point that she can love her ex-husband in an Agape way without conditions as you do! And then...let him go from her thoughts and leave him to you! Father that this man behaved horribly is clear...but so has mankind...and your example is that you looked beyond our faults and saw our needs. Let it be so with us. Let us forgive that we may know your peace, love, and restoration. In Jesus mighty name...Amen!

Thank you adoring1.

I rarely ever post a prayer request here. Today I felt led to.
I am not sure why.. This forum is awesome.
My spirit commands me to pray for.. by the wisdom I have gained, & most days I am @ peace. Today however I feel very heavy, my spirit & heart, & I am not sure why.
Not since day before divorce, did I feel this heaviness.
No, I have since let him go in that I have no desire for his return.
Many signs in this for me that it is over.
& yes, that I love, my love is as you say/ the unconditional, as I did see the man's heart & I know GOD. But to be hurt to the extent & the mess left on my plate/ today, I just felt I needed to ask for prayers.
My intent is to not hurt him... just as God, God Forgives our sins.
& I am @ peace in my life, there is renewed order, things to do, people that have taken the place, friendships, where I have adjusted.
Today my spirit feels very heavy.. maybe it was the ridiculous posts on here by the anti of Christ's.. I am not sure...
I love God & have grown SO much over the years & no pain, NONE, of this world can remove that from me. When one heals spiritually & there is growth in HIM, it only builds.
I appologize for my length, that it focused on me.. I prefer to speak from a place of healing & etc. Most days I am filled to the brim with happiness, & in GOD. I know I am VERY Blessed.
I am saddened that he walked in & back out of my life with such ease & etc etc.. & as you say, YES, I can & do love.. if I did not love him I would never have married him!!! BUT, now he is God's.
LOL I just feel so intense today..
thank you for your prayers, they mean a lot to me.
At my age, I want so badly to give, from a place of wisdom & inner strength built on HIM & HIS TRUTH!
I really do not have regrets in life/ I think that is part of our growing in CHRIST, that we walk forward. I know in HEAVEN we are healed.
I wouldn't kick the dog if I had one/ but I do feel the anger that is normal in grief, today.. & heavier than I usually do.. mostly it comes only for a brief moment anymore then leaves me.. it's all part of the stages. God Is Love, that I know.
In HIM we have immense power, because God IS LOVE!!!
This is what I know. Love IS.
I think I need a big ice cream float & yes, the bible for some of HIS WORDS. Thank you.
Thank YOU LORD, PRECIOUS JESUS!
Amen.

adoring1 Wrote:FAther...bring healing to this wounded soul...but bring wisdom too. Replaying what this man did in his cruelty will simply keep the wound open...rather focus on the word of God and leave the past in the past. By His stripes we are healed. I will never leave you or abandon you...I the Lord of Hosts will be your husband. Father lead her to those scriptures that will bring her healing and peace. Whenever she feels the need to replay the hurt...if it be in your will...lead her to a scripture that she can memorize and repeat to banish the thoughts of the enemy. Help her to fall totally in love you with Jesus to the point that she can love her ex-husband in an Agape way without conditions as you do! And then...let him go from her thoughts and leave him to you! Father that this man behaved horribly is clear...but so has mankind...and your example is that you looked beyond our faults and saw our needs. Let it be so with us. Let us forgive that we may know your peace, love, and restoration. In Jesus mighty name...Amen!

My sister...the length of your prayers is between you and God...we MUST pray as led so please pray up a storm! :-) God loves you, we love you and we know that God will see you through every detail to the point that all is perfected in and through Him. Please come often to this site and pray for others and share your wisdom. We heal by serving others...I too have walked through the fire and am still dealing with some of the burning coals...and praying for others here and elsewhere and serving others has helped me immensely. God bless you completely and always!! In Jesus name...Amen!

I come here often & pray for others. I love doing this.
I believe that my ex also loves praying for people & there was never any doubt we crossed paths for a reason.
What most devastates me in all of it/ is the day to day burdens that have been left for me to deal with, which are many. The coals, as you put it...
I never ever wanted him to stay, if wanted to go, I would beg of course at times, do not go.. etc etc..
but always, it is free choice, why would Anyone want someone that did not want them? I didn't get this, but it took me some years into adulthood to grasp this fully... I waited to marry too..
it wasn't easy, but oh if one does not believe that when we wait & pray, that God bring us the one, that is meant for us, well God Does Answer our prayers, but the funny thing is, it is all in HIS TIMING, if the two not be at the same place, as to spiritual development & I will say without a doubt, that most marriages, the ex will say, this & the other will say that about the former spouse.. but as wisdom tells it, does it really matter?????????????????????
Isn't all for HIS GLORY anyways?
That is why it is VERY hard for me to say bad things & esp on a public place, & my dander does raise at times/some days in my dealing with, "divorce," HOWEVER, if I had not gone into it with the intent for commitment & the vows I took, that I did mean, well....
this divorce (divide force).. is work/ it is exhausting, quite litterally, all there is to do. That is why I guess I do not understand quite frankly the desire of people to end something such as this..
but whatever. It's all about looking at the bigger pic, if said, X is happier with Y & Z, then ok so be it.
I am a logical person & this is where my head is at.. I know what is, & God's Truth so I am most always at complete peace & in HIM.
This is part of maturing/ growing in him (as I reach for my ice cream float & calm my previous brief intense emotions ).
Really though. this life is so short, so VERY short.
Life, the years, loving & loss, all of these are lessons, for God's Glory in the end..
I love posting prayers, praying for others.. it is my desire, what I so much pray that I share from my heart & I do believe in my ex that he knows God, but I will not share the negs here/ but that I do believe I know quite litterally who he is/ but I do not understand why he does what he does.. again, whatever.. so much of this hodgepodge razimataz, will make sense IN HEAVEN, not here, some days nothing makes a lot of sense in that there are happenings beyond our control/ on occassion. or this or that.. but I choose to think of HEAVEN, & this is who I was prior to now X, so to go back to this place is fine. God Is My Spouse.
I was given, & am given much. I clearly see the defining features in my life, those that have stuck by my side.. the loves that are still here, those that want to be around me & are faithful friends.
It is not as we know in our hearts/minds & souls/ when we know that someone loves us, we just know they do.. but as to whether they will be around us/ or stick by our side, or how it all plays out?
Only God Knows this.
SO, as I rant on & on/ I can say that I am particularly, hugely blessed in this life, on a rare occassion/ like today/ I may need a large ice cream & yes, a larger bible to fill my head/ & perhaps reminder that, God Is In Control, let go of the control panel!!!!!!!!!!!
I choose to believe, in, those that I love...
I believed in my now X. I am not exactly sure why he chose to go on another path, but I know who he is/ & it's like most things/ life/ in the big pic, whatever. We know one thing for sure. God Is With us!
We can Always rely on HIM!
God Bless & thanks for letting me post a reply also to my own request & ( to adoring 1's reply ).. I think the older we get the more we realize too how brief life really is/ that it is about our lessons, & in God it is ultimately for HIS GLORY.
whew.. I now feel peaceful.
God Please do not allow my emotions to catch up to me. As it is YOU I Love & YOUR HEART that we cling to.

adoring1 Wrote:My sister...the length of your prayers is between you and God...we MUST pray as led so please pray up a storm! :-) God loves you, we love you and we know that God will see you through every detail to the point that all is perfected in and through Him. Please come often to this site and pray for others and share your wisdom. We heal by serving others...I too have walked through the fire and am still dealing with some of the burning coals...and praying for others here and elsewhere and serving others has helped me immensely. God bless you completely and always!! In Jesus name...Amen!

& adoring1, I do always appreciate your prayer posts on here, & along with the others, I am always uplifted when I see posts to prayers.
Your wisdom shows.
We all have our wisdom from our experiences in life/ so all of the prayers here are precious/ it is a blessing to pray for others, & be able to ask for prayers.

I know you are not too far off from my age & you have also been through a lot in life & with God As our Witness, we have survived & thrived! It is all for HIS GLORY!
I really like this forum/ it is a GODSEND to be able to read prayers others post, to reply, I can think of no greater joy quite frankly, than to lift others up in prayer..
God Bless!

adoring1 Wrote:My sister...the length of your prayers is between you and God...we MUST pray as led so please pray up a storm! :-) God loves you, we love you and we know that God will see you through every detail to the point that all is perfected in and through Him. Please come often to this site and pray for others and share your wisdom. We heal by serving others...I too have walked through the fire and am still dealing with some of the burning coals...and praying for others here and elsewhere and serving others has helped me immensely. God bless you completely and always!! In Jesus name...Amen!

Dear Lord,please have mercy on this woman.
In the Name of the Lord,right now I command to all the power of darkness and the curses to leave this woman! Now!
I pray that Your will to be done in their life.
Please open the gates of financial blessings in our lives.
You are the King of kings and Your Name is Wonderful.
Thank You my Lord