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protection from hurtful in laws
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protection from hurtful in laws
I need prayer at the moment especially. I have always been treated very nastily by my mother and father in law. This in turn causes a strained relationship with the rest of their children my sister in laws. My husband being their son also would allow them to be hurtful and tell me not to worry so he keeps on their good side. It is a very difficult situation as I have no problem with my husband he is great but hurtful that his loyalty is not with me, and I am desiring peace and a relationship that is good for my in laws but also myself too. I am pregnant at the moment so it is especially upsetting. I have from the beginning always approached them to seek peace, apologise if there is anything I have done and ask what is wrong. I have expressed their actions and how it made me feel. I have never called them names or been accusing but this is how they recieve my efforts because when I tell them I felt hurt when they eg- said I couldn't get any wider when pregnant. This hurts them and tell me I am accusing them of terrible things and then they are all annoyed at me. It seems I have to just cop it and say people aren't perfect. They will not say hello or good bye, they will not talk to me. I ask if there is any reason and they deny it. Then giggle and say don;t look at her and she can't talk to us. The most hurtful part is they are christians in ministry and will pray for people who need healing and then be so nasty to someone who wants absolutely no trouble. I pray but really need your prayers at present for them to see there actions are wrong and for my husband to not tolerate this anymore and to see I want a relationship that is respectful and loving
both ways.
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| 05-26-2010 07:50 PM |
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