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We have had many blessing and prayers answered through our struggles. We are getting older now and have always helped others. My husband has a son (38) who still lives with us and now has has both of his sons, 19 and 20 here too. It has been very, very hard for us these last few years with the economy. Work has not been always easy to get. We are both in our 60's and our finances are not very good. But these three, do not work. My husband goes to work, but his son and his son's do not. It is just so flustrating and we simply cannot afford to have them here, if they do not work. Right now, 1 has been in the shower for 40 minutes now and our water here is expensive. They were supposed to live in our old motorhome and live their life better and working. But now at night they come in and raid our kitchen. Please pray for them and us. I pray and my husband wants to help them, but we just can't anymore. Just don't know what to do--- Thank you for your prayers, for them and us.
Thay have been here again for the second long time, 4 years, now and we just don't have the food for them anymore. Praying that they will help themselves, not just depend upon others.Warrior
09-07-2011 09:23 PM
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Father, we pray for all those in need, and who are struggling financially. We pray that you provide them Your hand and walk them through the hard times they are going through. The stress is just getting to be too much for the parents taking care of their grown son and grandsons, and give them Your strength to get them through. Father, you are a pillar for them to lean on in tough times, lighten their financial burdened, give this couple the freedom to live free of financial burdens. Enable them to overcome their financial obligations of taking care of their three grown family member who are currently unemployed. We ask that you reduce the burdens in their life and show them the path to get things done or rid themselves of the things weighing them down. Give them a new life free of stress. Thank you, Lord, for all You do in their life and how You will provide for them, even in these stressful times. We ask these in the presence of our Lord Jesus. Amen.
09-07-2011 10:09 PM
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Precious Jesus, Ipray that You will open the eyes of this son. Let him see the hardship that he is causing on his parents. Lord, lead him to the job that You would have him to have. Lord, help him and his sons to stand on their own. Lord, thank you for sending this son loving parents that help him. Open his to see the love they have for him. Lord, I pray that they all will be found serving You. In this I ask in Your name,Jesus.Amen.
09-08-2011 05:37 AM
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Dear Lord remove this grown up men out of this older couple's home to a place of their own soon. May they start looking for work and support themselves before they all become homeless. Give this couple your peace and wisdom now and always. Bless them for being so giving Lord, but may others stop abusing their kind heart and generosity. Have your perfect will be done in this situation for all involved. I pray in Jesus name, amen. Warrior
09-08-2011 08:02 AM
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PRAISE TO OUR LORD!!!
JUST AMAZING!!

With your prayers our Dear Lord is working and has had an intervention! Thank you Dear Lord, Thank you Dear Jesus for your wonderful blessings. We have been blessed with apologies, financial help, and better yet positive plans for the future, after all this time, the Dear Lord is working on them. Glory to the Lord!!!! Thank you for your prayers!!!
09-09-2011 04:25 PM
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Thank you Lord for touching their heart's, we know you will complete what you have started in Jesus precious name we pray and thank you in advance, amen and To God Be The Glory!!!! Warrior
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2- For his merciful kindness is great toward us: and the truth of the LORD endureth for ever. Praise ye the LORD. Amen
09-09-2011 06:23 PM
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Dear Lord,please have mercy on this family.
In the Name of the Lord,right now I command to all the power of darkness and the curses to leave this family! Now!
I pray that Your will to be done in their lives.
You are the King of kings and Your Name is Wonderful.
Thank You my Lord

Warrior Blessed and holy are those who share in the first resurrection.For them the second death holds no power, but they will be priests of God and of Christ and will reign with him a thousand years.
07-02-2012 11:44 PM
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Heavenly Father, give this precious couple the courage to sit down with these men and tell them that they will HAVE to get jobs and find another place to live that they just cannot continue to help them anymore. Open the hearts of these sons and show them what they are doing to their parents, that they are killing them! I ask this in the Mighty Name of Jesus and for Your Glory. Amen.
07-03-2012 12:01 AM
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RE: I just don't know what to do anymore.
I really know how you are feeling. I have a son who is living with me for several years and is30 years old. He doesn't work either and is a huge financial stress for me. More importantly it seems as though he has backslid-den and doesn't even think there is a problem with his behavior. This is only my opinion which I am working on myself. God wants us to help people but not enable them. Although my profession is counseling and I know I have been enabling it is much harder when it's your own son. I will keep you in my prayers and my heart aches with you. You must set boundaries for your grown son and his sons and tell them they have x amount of time to find a job or they will have to leave. You are not, and I am not helping my son by taking on responsibilities he needs to learn to do no matter how much it hurts if you have to put him out. Our God is a Great and Awesome God and will finish the work he has started in your boys but from what I read and my own situation, we are getting in his way. Sometimes, like an addict, people need to hit rock bottom so that they will look up and learn to depend on God and allow Him to rebuild their lives. We can't do that part for people we love no matter how much we want that for them. I will continue praying and keep me updated. You have a sister in the Lord that truly cares what you are going through. Send me a message anytime you need some support.Bless


Feel free to email me and I will be happy to further chat with you.
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07-03-2012 12:48 AM
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