RE: 15 year marriage ending
Prayer For A Healed Marriage
I have put Husband or Him in the prayer. Replace it with Wife or her if need be.
Lord, deliver my wife from the power of darkness, and cause her to put on the armor of light. Help her in her daily walk to put on the Lord Jesus Christ, and Cause her to turn her eyes away from worthless things...to come to her senses, and escape the snare of the devil. Deliver her from immorality, strife, and envy, and draw her close to You, Father, with a true and contrite heart. Create in her a hunger and thirst for You and Your righteousness, and revive her in Your ways. I ask that You and fill her with the knowledge of Your will in all wisdom and spiritual understanding; that she might have a walk worthy of You, Lord, fully pleasing You, being fruitful in every good work, and increasing in the knowledge of You, strengthened with all might, according to Your glorious power.
Bring her into the calling that You have predestined for her; help her to serve You with a loyal heart and with a willing mind, and instruct her in the way she should go. Let her a be doer of the Word and not a hearer only, meditating in Your Word day and night. Establish her heart, so she will never be shaken, and show her a way of escape with every temptation. Let her owe no man anything except her love. A love that is in deed and truth, not just in word and speech. Let her be a volunteer serving You in the time of Your power. Seeking first Your kingdom so that he will reap abundant blessings.
I pray that she will honor You with her possessions and with the first fruits of her increase; Praising the Lord with her whole heart in the assembly of the upright and in the congregation, walking humbly with You Lord, being determined to act justly, loving mercy and righteousness, being gracious and full of compassion.
"I cast down Father, my wife's unholy and unprofitable imaginations of distrust. I have captured those rebellious thoughts and give them to You, so you can teach her to obey." By praying this, those evil reasonings are destroyed. These imaginations of the natural mind exalt themselves against the true word of God. Destroy the stronghold. Bring your spouse’s entire being into subjection to the will of God.
Always remember this: Satan is afraid of God, he knows his time is drawing near. He knows where he is going and he wants to take you with. Don't let him deceive you. If you want your marriage restored, then you will have to pray for your husband or wife, the same way you would pray for your own needs. It's as simple as that, and you must trust that God knows what He is doing.
Praise God, Glorify His name continually, giving thanks for restoring your marriage and bring it back more exceeding and abundantly above and beyond all that you have asked, thought or imagined. Where there seems to be no way, God will make a way. That is the shield of faith you will need so that your marriage is not destroyed and given over to the enemy.
TRUST ME
Do you believe that I am the Son of God?
And do you believe that I died for all men
and women and that I rose from the dead?
Then why do you continue to be distracted
and anxious about your loved one?
Do they not also belong to me?
Would I refuse to work in their life,
just as I work in yours?
I have not put you in charge of saving them.
I have already done that.
Nor have I charged you to change them.
Your task is to love, to forgive,
to pray for them and to turn them over to me.
Come closer to me yourself
and I will do the rest. TRUST ME!
You can cry all day long and pray, but that's not going to move God to work on your situation. He does hear your cry and undertand your needs, but that's not faith and faith is what it takes for God to move that mountain out of your life. The need we have in our time of grief is to get the person we love back into our lives. We love him and miss him (or her) and it hurts, Oh God does it hurt. But God wants us to love and miss Him more than we miss our mate. He wants us to lean on Him, give Him our grief and let Him take care of it for us. He wants your love, your plea's and to get out of His way.
You see, God wants a relationship with you, an intimate relationship. He wants to be number 1# in your life. "Love God with all your heart, with all your soul, with all your might." God first, your spouse second. When were weeping and crying praying to get our mate back, we're putting our needs before God. You'll know who you love most by who you think about most. When you're praying for God to restore your marriage in your dire need, are you thinking about God, or yourself?
Once you establish a strong relationship with God, pray then be patient. QUIT WORRYING. Life has dealt you a blow, but you cannot sit around and worry all the time. God will take all your burdens and carry them for you.
You need healing, so ask the Holy Spirit to rid of your anger, your fear, your anxieties. Ask God to remove everything that is keeping you from restoring your marriage. Give God all your burdens and let Him take care of them for you. Once you've given Him your burdens, quit trying to take them back. Trust in Him. Have faith that He will take care of all your needs, your problems, your trials, your emotional roller coaster ride. He wants to help you...All you have to do is ask. Ask, then.
But God says, "I can do exceedingly and abundantly above and beyond all that you can ask, think or imagine. Greater is He who is in you than he who is in the world, for I am in you. You can do all things through Christ because I will give you strength to overcome. Trust in Me, do not lean on your own understanding. I am smiling down on you right now. I CAN heal your marriage and will bring about a wonderful reconcilliation because I work all things together for the good. Be confident and patient and you will receive My favor in amazing ways. I am a BIG God, there is nothing to difficult for Me. You are blessed, you are victorious. I will open up doors that no man can shut. My blessings are running down on you now and they are overtaking you. I love you, I will take care of this situation for you. Stand strong in faith and trust Me, and get out of my way because I'm comming through, and I'm coming through in the Name of Jesus."
Just trust God to heal your marriage because marriage healing is in the bible, the promises of God, that are crystal clear. He does not want you divorced, He wants you and your mate married for a lifetime, one man married to one woman for life, until death. He hates divorce (Malichi), so much that He says the one who would do such a cruel thing to their spouse is cut off from Him. He will not listen to their pleas for help. However, when you ask God to restore your marriage, you can trust that He sent help for the restoration the moment you asked. His word says so and He is not a man that He could lie.
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