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Please help me with my situation. I don't know what is the Godly thing to do. My son has newly diagnosed aspergers and my husband is the most grumpy man I've ever known.
My son is nearly 6 but has now decided to model his dad's behavior. He is rude to me and yells at me and doesn't say hello. Just like my very difficult, angry and grumpy husband.
I am a committed Christian, he is not.
Should I stay in this marriage? Is it better for my son to be exposed to this? Or is it better that my son comes from a broken family without a dad's influence? If we separate, I don't know where the money will come from.
I have prayed and prayed for healing in this area. I don't know what to do. Thank you very much! I feel as though my husband is breaking my son and moulding him into something that is very ugly.
12-17-2011 03:31 PM
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Seek God in this situation. Pray for your husband and son and do not stop. Let Jesus shine through you to show them grace. The bible is clear about divorce and I pray that you read all the passages. I also pray that you get into a church and surround yourself with people who can encourage and help you at this time.

Lord Jesus, Holy Father guide this wife to do what is necessary to bring change to her home, to love her husband and keep enduring. I pray for her husband, I pray that you act in a mighty way in his life and bring about a life changing situation. Lord Jesus hear my prayer. AMEN.

If he is abusive - then please get immediate help.
12-18-2011 12:13 AM
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Confused, Your very wise in your view I remained and to this day my sons actions are like his father towards me, if I would have know how much a child takes on their parents actions maybe I could have changed everything. one thing your are praying for a change now at 6 which I did not see, talk with your son keep enforcing and addressing the way he talks to you let him know its not what you like. he will listen you need to remember he has two parents he will take on both habits and yes finances are the main reason to never move on it for along time. The lord does hate divorce it is something you really need to read his word on but he hates abuse too, keep praying for your husband you saw good in him once or you would have never married him. Pray for a door to open for him to except Jesus into his heart, my husband never would do this he said he couldn't in front of my son with a Pastor, please take care how and when to address some things because this effected my son to this day because he really did love his dad.

Lord I lift this child of yours up and that you guide her in her daily walk with you I thank you for the heart she carries for you and the wanting to do the right thing before you, I pray that her husband comes to know you and guides his young son in the way he so go. Father I pray understanding for this woman ans peace in Jesus name.
(This post was last modified: 12-18-2011 01:13 AM by inhislove.)
12-18-2011 01:10 AM
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Precious Jesus, please place a hedge of protection about this mother and her child. Lord, please touch the heart of this husband. Lord, let him see that he needs You in his life. In this I ask in Your name,Jesus.Amen.
12-18-2011 10:00 AM
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To dear JW123, Inhislove and Tishlea,
Thank you so much for taking the time to respond with your wisdom and insights, and most especially your prayers. You have given me a lot of clarity in that I am now thinking that I will resolve to keep on going, praying without ceasing, and believing that God can fix this. And that he wants peace and harmony and goodness. I also feel at peace reading your prayers. I am sure it is the power of your prayers, and the words of those prayers, which I am hanging onto. Please know that I am so grateful! Thank you also, Inhislove, for sharing your insights which I am going to really think about and use.
May God bless each of you and I wish you and your families a wonderful Christmas and a blessed 2012. Praise be to God!
12-18-2011 03:41 PM
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Dear Lord,please have mercy on this woman and her kid.
In the Name of the Lord,right now I command to all the power of darkness and the curses to leave this woman and her kid! Now!
I pray that Your will to be done in their lives.
You are the King of kings and Your Name is Wonderful.
Thank You my LordHeart

Warrior Blessed and holy are those who share in the first resurrection.For them the second death holds no power, but they will be priests of God and of Christ and will reign with him a thousand years.
04-13-2012 02:56 AM
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