Paula, I pray that The Lord heals your heart, takes your pain away, I pray for your Uncle to be swimming with The Angels, for your Family and Loved ones as you all mourn, for the healing of your relationship with your children, for you and Tim, for you to be blessed 10 fold and for you to be happy, at peace, filled with joy and have every need met. In Jesus Name Lord please also take away Paula's lonliness. Amen. It is done. We are all here for you, Sweet Sister.

What relationship Paula? You have none with Tim anymore, it has come to the point that you yourself is destroying your life by letting him trample you all over, how? By clinging to a man that is not worth your tears or love. If you want God to hear your prayers and answer them stop hanging on to Tim, for he is a sinner and he is holding your blessings back and bringing you down with him at the same time. Please open your eyes to the reality of what he has done already to you and the kids, and will continue doing if you allow him to. If he does repent and come back to you it will be when he decides to open his heart to Jesus, but God himself doesn't force anyone nor twist their arm to accept him. So think this carefully for if he comes back, do you want to be constantly afraid that Tim may start again beating you up, or his porno and drug addictions, his womanizing, partying, and belittling you? I hope not! Because that's what awaits you now after all he has done to you. Even if he becomes a Christian he may fall back again to his old habits. Do you want to live the rest of your life with that fear? Keep cleaning the house and get rid of his stuff, that's the best decision you have made so far, with God's help I know you can do it Paula.
Lord continue to comfort Paula and give her the strength and wisdom she needs at this time. Heal her broken heart and mind. Take away her loneliness and fix her relationship with her children. Also bring comfort her and her family in the loss of her uncle. Have your perfect will be done in her life, and her situation. In Jesus name I pray, amen.