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I am deeply depressed and dont know what to do.
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I am deeply depressed and dont know what to do.

I have been dating a guy for 8 almost nine in 11 days. He told me he loved me we were supposed to be involved. He's hot headed and gets mad at me a-lot. He pushed me into a wall a few times out of anger (but it was usually because i would try n stop him from walking out on me) He told me he wanted a future with me. Me and my mother had huge problems and i was depressed and went to go live with my grandmother in a different state, i told him i would come back as much as he needed me to and he became depressed that i left. After that things took a huge turn and he would get mad at me constantly over little things. One day i became very depressed but i was too depressed to pray i cried for days non-stop i know (shame on me). i don't know what to do..we worked our problems out and i told him he needs to be open with his feelings instead of being angry with me, he agreed and that night he left me. He said that he abused me emotionally an physically sometimes and he doesn't know what got into him, he loves me so much but just cant be with me anymore. I broke down, he woke me up at 2am after he made me think we were making it. He said he would be my friend but that was it, and that felt like a knife was going through my chest just a terrible pain..i begged him to try again hat this wasn't fair to me, that i would move back with my mom to make him happy, that if he really loved me he wouldn't reject me this way. He constantly tells me he loves me...But he says he doesnt know if he wants to be with me. Today i told him i am coming back, that i dont want to lose him this way and he cried n said he wants me to. an hour later he changes his mind INSTANTLY, telling me he doesn't know and told me he loved me. But every time i ask him why he is confusing me he is too deep in thought to want to explain it to me...does he know how much hes hurting me? i prayed..But i dont think it was the right prayer, i am so depressed that iam getting sick i sometimes dont even sleep because i cy for hours straight and go to school n fall asleep in class. Please pray for me, i dont know how to pray about this..i dont know if i sound stupid i just dont know what to do anymore.
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10-01-2010 01:07 AM
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Father, help this young woman to understand that while she has developed an attachment for this young man that the way he is treating her is not love. Love is patient, love is kind. Abusive behavior is never loving. Help her to focus on loving herself and loving you right now Father...and allow her to see that this young man is not emotionally stable and will only continue to bring her pain. Father...in your loving kindness and mercy...help her to walk away from this situation and to concentrate on stabilizing her own life...where she will live, what she will study and preparing a life for herself. The right man will present himself in time...let her wait on him and not accept someone who would treat her so poorly. Help her Father and give her peace. In Jesus name...Amen!
10-01-2010 06:16 AM
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Dear Havenly Father The Kingdom come thy will be done on earth as it is in Heaven forgive us are sin as we for give are debtor and lead us not into temptiation but deliver us from evil Please answer this person prayer acord to your will and bless there life Lord and we give you all the priase honor and glory in all of this. IN JESUS NAME I PRAY AMEN

Sincerly: Steven Danielsen
John 14:14 If you ask Me anything in My name, I will do it.
10-01-2010 05:44 PM
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adoring1 Wrote:Father, help this young woman to understand that while she has developed an attachment for this young man that the way he is treating her is not love. Love is patient, love is kind. Abusive behavior is never loving. Help her to focus on loving herself and loving you right now Father...and allow her to see that this young man is not emotionally stable and will only continue to bring her pain. Father...in your loving kindness and mercy...help her to walk away from this situation and to concentrate on stabilizing her own life...where she will live, what she will study and preparing a life for herself. The right man will present himself in time...let her wait on him and not accept someone who would treat her so poorly. Help her Father and give her peace. In Jesus name...Amen!

thank you soo much becaus i do need peace. I am a complete mess right now.
10-02-2010 12:54 AM
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Guest, you are so welcome. The Lord will see you through this. Trust him and be faithful to him. He will be faithful to you!
10-02-2010 01:03 AM
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All things work together for good to those who love God and are called according to his purpose. This relationship is of the Devil, not of God! You have been blessed to have him take flight away from you. Seek repentance of God read 2 Timothy 2:24 "For God hath not given us the spirit of fear; but of power, and of love, and of a sound mind." Your symptoms show you that this relationship is not of God, you risk not only your life, but your soul as well!

Heavenly Father

Break this young woman's addiction to sin, and idolatry, refresh her and lead her to create a life of uprightness and self worth through Jesus Christ. Afterward, when she has been made mature and ready, join her to an appropriate and upright mate to raise a family and provide loving support and a Godly home.

In Jesus most Precious Name, Amen!
10-02-2010 01:40 AM
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Dear Lord,please have mercy on this young lady.
In the Name of the Lord,right now I command to all the power of darkness and the curses to leave this young lady! Now!
I pray that Your will to be done in their life.
You are the King of kings and Your Name is Wonderful.
Thank You my Lord

Warrior Blessed and holy are those who share in the first resurrection.For them the second death holds no power, but they will be priests of God and of Christ and will reign with him a thousand years.
06-02-2012 11:30 PM
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