Please continue to pray. My husband Mike is being very ugly, and now making threats. I'm not sure if it was alcohol induced, or if his frivolous spending is catching up with him or what. I pray that God will take us under his wing and protect us from all evils that are working to destroy us and our marriage and family. In Jesus' name, Amen.

lynn68 Wrote:Lord, I ask that You would take all thoughts of divorce out of my husband's mind and heart. Please open his eyes to see how far away that is from Your best for his life and our lives together. For times we have discussed divorce or when he has used the word divorce as a way out of our problems, I come before you on his behalf and ask for Your forgiveness. Where the spirit of divorce has found a home in his heart, please break that stronghold by the power of Your Spirit. Destroy that lie of the enemy so that it can never rise up again. Show him a better way, which is Your way for our lives. Let there be no divorce in our future. Please show him to use our current separation to self-examine & work to restore our marriage. In Jesus' name I pray. Amen

I pray that all thoughts of divorce will be destroyed and that only love for his wife and marriage will be all that he wants for ever more in jesus name i pray.

lynn68 Wrote:Please continue to pray. My husband Mike is being very ugly, and now making threats. I'm not sure if it was alcohol induced, or if his frivolous spending is catching up with him or what. I pray that God will take us under his wing and protect us from all evils that are working to destroy us and our marriage and family. In Jesus' name, Amen.

I take God at His Word. I trust Jesus Christ for my salvation. Lord Jesus, I’m a sinner, but You have shown Your love for me by dying to forgive my sins, and You have proven Your power to save me from death by Your resurrection. Lord, change my heart, and save me by Your Grace.

I pray for Lynn and Mike, reveal to them anything in their own heart that is threatening their union. I pray for the restoration of their marriage into the covenant that You intended. I pray that Your Love flows through each of them to the other.

I pray that Mike receives salvation from his demons. I pray that Lynn receives salvation from her tormentors. I pray for Your protection of Lynn, Mike, the family and their marriage. I ask for God’s forgiveness. In Jesus Christ’s name I pray, Amen.

Father God,
Satan has crept in unawares in the heart of this marriage. I rebuke him back into the pits of hell from where he has risen to attack families. Father, You know his mission and You have revealed it to us. As I share this vision with my dear sister, please bless her soul, spirit and mind. Comfort her Holy Spirit as only You can.
My dear sister in Christ. Please be at peace, know that our Father knows just what we have need of before we even ask. He knows your husbands heart as well as yours. There have been things said in this marriage on both sides that were very hurtful. I ask that you first repent of the things that you said to your husband that encouraged his anger and rage. We can only pray for our spouses that they will seek forgiveness for their wrongs, but we must repent of ours.
When his spirit is alined with your spirit in the right direction, then you can go forward and be all that God is calling you to be as husband, wife, mother and father. We must first, "Seek ye first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, then all other things will be added unto us."

My dear sister, we must understand that it doesn't take a "ginsu" knife to kill someone's spirit. We can kill someone with our mouths. In the book of James you can read about the tongue being a deadly poison. When we are angry, we are told to sin not in the bible, but of course the flesh will make us sin if we are not under the subjection to the Holy Spirit at all times.
Now don't think for one minute that this is just for you. This is for all of us. Amen!
I have said things when I was angry that I shouldn't have said, only to have to repent of it later. It was when I allowed the Holy Spirit to come in and control that mouth of mine, that I found out how to not stab my spouse with my mouth.
These are the killers of many marriages. The things that we say, can kill a marriage a lot quicker than the things that we do.
We must first humble ourselves and ask God forgiveness for the hurtful things that we say out of anger. We must then go to the person that we have offended and ask their forgiveness in humility.
Do not expect that person to except the apology right away. You have taken the first two step then. Now, you must prove it with your actions. Ask the Holy Spirit to help you not repeat those actions again.
Now, then it is up to your husband to correct his wrongs. You CANNOT fix your husband. This is up to God to do. You can only take care of yourself in that area. We must answer to God for ourselves. Even though we are married, all we can do is be the example that God has called us to be.
I know that you heard the saying, "you can lead a horse to water, but you can't make him drink it." Well, that is the way it is with our children and spouses. We can only be the salt of the earth, we cannot make anyone like the salt.
Look in the mirror and see what manner of woman that God has created you to be, and be that woman. That is the woman that your husband fell in love with. When you become that woman again, he will see the God-woman he married.
Be blessed my sister in Christ.