Hello;

My mom is very difficult. she is extremely passive aggressive and manipulative. her comments and attitude has made it very difficult to have a relationship.

many of her family members have died in the last few years and they always "rescued her" from her problems, bailed her out financially, etc. now she thinks I should play that role.

she's 67 and very bitter and depressed her parents both died in the last couple of years. while i understand grief, it's taken over her life and grief for the dead is going to cause a loss of relationship with the living.

there's a new testament verse that says "parents don't burden your children lest they lose heart...."

well i certainly have. My parents were married 9 times and divorced 9 times between them (my dad 6x, mom 3x).

I've suffered greatly because of their "actions" that they never want to seem to take responsibility for. my mother has been very abusive verbally for many years. she had to take care of her parents the last couple years of their lives and wasn't really able to do it mentally or physically and it has caused her to take it out on other, ME specifically.

I'm planning on moving 3,000 miles away where I have a vacation place to get away from this, however, I would like to have a good relationship with my mother. However her idea of a good relationship is her dumping all her problems on me and calling me everytime something goes wrong.

she left me a manipulative email last week that she lost her phone and would have to choose between replacing it or paying her electric bill..

I have lost heart and am giving up unless there is a miracle in the way she treats me. I do have faith that can occur, so i hope you will pray for me

Thanks

SB

Dear Heavenly Father look upon this relationship between a mother and her daughter. Have them seek some council together to see if they can start communicating better, and the mother learn to depend on her own. It can be so hard when parents try to put the guilt trip on their kids for their own mistakes in life and not wanting to learn to be responsible themselves. Bring peace, love, understanding, respect and kindness between this mother and her daughter. Have her mother come to know you as her personal Saviour if she doesn't yet, and allow the Holy Spirit to guide her. Let her daughter be able to enjoy being with her mother without being manipulated by her nor making her feel guilty for wanting to have her own life. May all these be done for Your Glory Heavenly, I ask and thank you in the Name of Jesus Christ, Amen!

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Lord we pray peace between all of us soon and deliverance, that Your perfect will be done in your precious protecting blood and Healing. Amen

In Jesus Name I pray mercy, grace, favor over this family. In Jesus Name I decree and declare Psalms 118:25 and abundantly life over this family. In Jesus Name I decree and declare what is impossible with people is possible with God over this family.
In Jesus Name I decree and declare 1 John 3:8 b) over this family. In Jesus Name I decree and declare "The Son of God came to destroy the works of the devil" over this family. In Jesus Name I decree and declare Zechariah 4:7 agaisnt any mountain which is against this family.

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In Jesus Name I decree and declare Exodus 14:14 and Deuteronomy 28:6-8 and 1 Chronicles 4:10 and Psalms 1:3 and Psalms 5:12 and Psalms 18:29 and Psalms 18:39 and Psalms 23 and Psalms 91 and Psalms 103:3 and Psalms 107:20 and Psalms 118:17 and Psalms 121:2 and 1 Peter 2:24 and Isaiah 54:17 and Ephesians 3:20 and Romans 8:37 and Philippians 4:13 and Luke 18:27 and Jeremiah 29:11 and 2 Samuel 22:33 and John 16:24 and according with Lord's will over this family.
Thank You Lord

My father is very aggressive manipulative and never lets me do what I want to do ,he’s very controlling and thinks he’s always right even when. He’s clearly wrong, he’s stubborn and is always criticised me about my life when he is the same please I need heavenly prayer not just for him but for the people he’s affecting around he asap has anger issues which leads to his children shying away from him and making the family dis constructed

I pray for breakthroughs and change
You could drop in here and there but stay away mostly to protect your mind. Maybe set boundaries and if they are crossed step back again to show you will not be messed with. I pray the burden will be lighter. And for a change of heart and salvation for your mother and other members of your family