My husband is out of his mind. I no longer know him anymore. He is so entrenched in his sin, that he went with his adulteress and ate steaks last night, after my son told him "I am done, goodbye,dad". I am at the end of my rope! (I saw the charge on our bank statement). Our son is 12 and was in great distress last night, crying and broken and my husband is out on a date!? I am so lost! Why is God allowing this? How long is the Christian man going to be allowed to continue in his sin at our expense! I am begging for intercessory prayer! May GOD PLEASE BREAK THIS STRONGHOLD once and for all! I can't take much more.

My sister, a betrayal of one's spouse is one of the most difficult injuries that we can receive. But we must stand and stand on the power of God's word. I pray that the prayer below will provide some insight to you of what you are really contending with. We war not against flesh and blood but against powers principalities and spiritual wickedness in high places. I ask that the Father comfort you and your son and bring peace to your emotions that you may hear his instructions...and I pray that you will pray for the Father to bind the seducing spirit that has a stronghold in his life...God bless.

Father,

Thank you for the realization given this morning about how we pray about our troubled marriages. How I wish I had understood this some years ago when I was praying for my own. Forgive me for praying so selfishly then about what I wanted my ex-husband to do while he was caught up in adultery because of my own broken heart, my EROS love for him and my own pain and desires...that I missed the true mark. Perhaps the growth you have provided over these last 8 years can help others? I pray that it will...and I pray that earnest prayers, from many prayer warriors to reclaim those that have strayed from God will bring movement in many hearts... some of stone and some that are broken... and repair to many homes on the verge of collapse.

Speak life into these marriages. Turn hearts away from fraudulent partners and back to those to whom vows of fidelity were made. Give this husband or wife a rock solid understanding of what he/she is dealing with. This is not a battle with people who influence, other women or other men; it is one against spiritual wickedness among powers and principalities in high places...there is oppression operating against this wife or husband from these powers and principalities to turn their free will against God. They may not recognize it, but as I pray, this is what I am led to say. For the husband or wife of one who has strayed, I pray that he/she understands that there can be no breakthrough until this spouse is right with God. It is not about them loving in an EROS way this spouse they have left behind or the person with whom they are currently involved. It is not about them returning to this marriage or staying in an unholy relationship...rather it is about their returning to a relationship with Christ. Unless and until they recognize that they are in opposition to the Lord...His will and His ways...there will be no change in the current outcome and in fact it may become worse. This fallen spouse believes that their actions are right...okay...in their sight. They believe it as strongly as the one who has been left behind and wants reconciliation believes. He/she has been convinced by this evil oppression that what he/she is doing is somehow justified. As long as this husband/wife who has been left continues the quest, even in prayer for EROS love as their focus...there will be no change in the behavior of the other. By definition EROS love is that which is fueled by selfish desire...we want those we love to love us back, to share intimacy with us and us only...and this is both natural and human and ultimately what God intends in the marriage relationship...but the need within the one that has strayed that will return HIM or HER to righteousness is for AGAPE love to return...loving themselves as God loves them, loving their spouses as God loves them also...continuance of marriage is NOT a condition for AGAPE love...nothing is...it is unconditional. When we pray in this circumstance...we can and should pray for the return of this straying partner to their marriage...but first things first, as our God does things decently and in order. Let us pray for a return of the straying spouse to God...to His principles, to reverence for Him. When we revere God we cannot go against his ways. The heart of stone that currently exists in the breast of the one who is unfaithful is because their conscience has been seared...and continuance of this is exactly what the enemy wants. Let us bombard heaven with prayers to bring the unfaithful ones back to Jesus...let us ask for them to see themselves through the eyes of Jesus...let us ask that they see how HIS spirit is grieved because of their actions, not our own grief...let us ask for them to see that they are throwing His love, His sacrifice out the window due to their own quest for EROs which can and will bring chaos and destruction into their lives and those in their families... as it already has. These unfaithful husbands and wives are beyond the reach of what their spouses want right now...they no longer care about it...they are deeply engaged in her their own selfish quests to have what THEY want. But they are not beyond the reach of God. Let us pray with all our might that those who have broken their vows fall in love with Jesus again! If they do...if they get back into God's order...the order of the decency of God...their free will can be directed again by the Lord of Hosts...and their return to their marriages, where they belong can again become possible. This I believe...and it is this I pray. In Jesus name...Amen!

Lord, please have mercy on this woman, her husband, son and the other woman. Please restore this marriage and apart all attacks. Please help her know You are with her in this time of need. Please grant her the peace which surpasses all understanding, the peace You give and not as the world gives. Please restore her husband's mind, and help him find his way back to you and his family. Please help the other woman realize the harm she is causing to this family and repent. Please help her husband repent as well. Lord, I pray you stop the attacks toward this marriage and all marriages. I pray and continue to pray steadfastly that you place an end to all these attacks towards marriages/families in these end days.

I just want to share with you what I have gone through. It may help you to stay strong knowing that things do workout for those who trust in God. I know just what you are feeling. My husband is back now almost a yr. He was in an adulterous relationship with his oldest son's mother. They were never married but did have a son 24 yrs ago.
All I can say is God is faithful. I experienced so much pain because my husband is my best friend. One day he was gone, he had moved all his stuff when I was at work. We didn't have an argument or anything. I came home to a note that said he loved me but had to leave. Satan is very busy trying to destroy marriages. He knows that 2 in the Lord is stronger than 1. My husband is a christian and a recovering alcoholic/addict. He was sober for almost 17 yrs and had picked up drinking when all this started. I can't tell you how hopeless I felt but I just held on to God by strings. I contacted every prayer site I could find and asked people to pray for my marriage. God is not a liar. I also went through problems with my teenager.We are still going through with him. He wanted to kill himself etc. I had to hospitalize him while all this was happening and also I had to move back with my parents who didn;t want me to stay there. I paid them while I was there for 6 months. My automobile died and I felt so alone. I am telling you this because God is faithful. Pray for the holy spirit to convict your husband of his adultery. Pray for him and for the other person involved. I am still praying for God to remove those ill feelings towards the other woman because they are still there and I know God does not want me to hold any unforgiveness in my heart. This woman was always in the wings for 16 years planting seeds of discord. She says she is a christian. She told my husband God brought him to her. We have to stand on God's word. God doesn;t change his word for our convenience. That;s all I could do was cry out to him. The devil doesn’t stop but I know what God has put together nothing can tear it apart. The devil is still attacking my family through my son. I bind that spirit of hopelessness and suicide in the mighty name of Jesus. Please keep our family in prayer also. It seems like when I share about how God has put my family back together, then all you know what breaks loose. I know the devil is a liar and God will keep my family together and we will serve him and be happy and love each other. We war not against flesh and blood but against powers principalities and spiritual wickedness in high places. I started quoting scripture at the devil and also telling God what he said in his word. It helped to get it in my spirit. I will pray for you because I know too well what you are going through. God bless you and hold on to GOd's word because his word is truth and his grace is sufficient.

Father, I pray for this lady and her family. I ask you Lord to first give this lady your peace, that she may feel your presence and know that you are right there in this situation with her. I also ask you Father that you will bless this couples young son and help him and comfort him at this time. I pray Father that you will help this lady to hold back from her emotion and see that you have ultimate control of this situation. I pray you will ease her pain and maybe somehow help her to look at things from a calmer and different perspective. Please help her keep her faith stron and I ask that you will help her to give this situation entirely over to you my Lord. I pray that you will help her husband in this situation, that maybe you can show him that he has a good wife who is trying her best to stand by him and loves him, as she obviously does. Please Lord, I pray that you will move your spirit within this family and thei situation and make your presence known and bring this whole situation to the best outcome for all involved.

In Jesus name, Amen.

Father in Heaven I pray that you will touch this mans heart and have him to have mercy for his family and to stop his actions. I pray you will restore this family. Please bless this woman and her son and ease their burdens. In Jesus Holy Name I Pray, Amen.

Dear Havenly Father Thy Kingdom come thy will be done on earth as it is in Heaven forgive us are sin as we for give are debtor and lead us not into temptiation but deliver us from evil Please answer this person prayer acord to your will and bless there life Lord and we give you all the priase honor and glory in all of this. IN JESUS NAME I PRAY AMEN

Dear Father in Heaven, please forgive everyone here of there sin. Please reach her husband's heart and let him know that it is not good that he continue in sin but repentace means TURN AWAY from it. Please help this family to sortin this out. Honor goes to you. In Jesus' name, Amen

Dear Havenly Father The Kingdom come thy will be done on earth as it is in Heaven forgive us are sin as we for give are debtor and lead us not into temptiation but deliver us from evil Please answer this person prayer acord to your will and bless there life Lord and we give you all the priase honor and glory in all of this. IN JESUS NAME I PRAY AMEN

Lord touch this man's heart and conscience, may he be convicted and repent of his sinful doings. Help this wife and give her comfort in you, your peace, strength, and wisdom on how to pray for her husband. Have your perfect will be done in their life, spiritual and mental health, plus this situation with their marriage. May she find your peace within the the middle of the storm. In Jesus Christ Precious Name I pray, and I thank you in advance Heavenly Father to whom all the Honor, the Glory, and the Power belongs, Amen!
Mathew 18:19 - 20
"Again, I tell you that if two of you on earth agree about anything you ask for, it will be done for you by my Father in heaven. For where two or three come together in my name, there am I with them.
Please pray the prayer below for your husband and lean on God through this, He never fails us.
The Power of a Praying Wife
Lord, I pray for my Husband ________, and ask that You calm his spirit, soothe his soul, and give him peace today. Drown out the voice of the enemy, who seeks to entrap him with lies. Help him to take every thought captive so he is not lead astray. Where there is error in his thinking, I pray that You will reveal it to him and set him back on course. Help him to hear Your voice only. Fill him afresh with Your Holy Spirit and wash away anything in him that is not of You.
Balance his body perfectly so that he is not carried up and down like a roller coaster. Give him inner tranquility that prevails no matter what is going on around him. Enable him to see things from Your perceptive so that he can fully appreciate all the good that is in his life. Keep him from being blinded by fears and doubts. Show him the bigger picture, and teach him to distinguish the valuable from the unimportant. Help him to recognize the answers to his own prayers. Show me how to convince him that I love him, and help me to be able to demonstrate it in ways he can perceive.
Lord, I know that You have "called us to peace and to love one another". Help us both to hear that call and live in the peace that surpasses all understanding, and in your unconditional love for each other. I say to my husband ________, "Let the peace and love of God rule" in your heart, and "be thankful" In Jesus name I pray, amen.