Today I realized how sick family is. My wife says she is suffering from neglection being pushed away, which is effecting her behavior now for some time. She said now she is just "working with what she has" and is sad. This was said after I asked what we can do to make it better. This is all making her bitter, hopeless, and also has been lashing out with anger and continous critism. We have 2 girls, 2 and 4 and I love them to death. These 3 girls are my WORLD!!!

I forgave my wife for all the hurt, critism, and emotional trama she has put me though and ask god regularly to help her do the same for me. I shared this with her one day after church and asked her if she could do the same and she said it wasn't so easy... So, I ask myself "did I do this? What role did I play that has created this situation that we are in now? Has it been my behavior that has been the cause?

God says we must help those who are hurting and those in need. I am here for the long haul and I ask for some prayers for my wife. My girls and I need her, we need her love and her to be present in the moment. Most of all Love herself again. Whatever I can do to restore hope, love, and drive away that feeling of neglection. We moved from WI to IA about 3 yrs ago and she has felt alone and has had a hard time finding friends. I feel I am a simple man, a leader in the retail world, and a proud husband and father. I need help helping my wife under this stress.

Lord show me the way to make our live better. I have learned to live better each day and hope for an even better tommorow!

Dear Havenly Father The Kingdom come thy will be done on earth as it is in Heaven forgive us are sin as we for give are debtor and lead us not into temptiation but deliver us from evil Please answer this person prayer acord to your will and bless there life Lord and we give you all the priase honor and glory in all of this. IN JESUS NAME I PRAY AMEN.

Father, thank you for the commitment this man has to his wife, children and marriage. Teach him to pray for her by allowing him to see the need. When a woman becomes bitter, it is possible that her husband may have contributed to the condition, but I feel in my spirit that there is something missing from this woman's life that only God can heal. Lord, draw this woman close to you. Let her hear your voice. Encourage her to spend time with you in your word and in prayer daily. Let her fall in love with you again Jesus that her spirit might be filled and quieted. In your mercy Father...let her see that her contentment comes from you and that being hyper-critical and angry comes from dissatisfaction within herself. Let her open her heart to receive your instructions for her life. I plead the blood of Jesus over her soul that it might kill the root of bitterness within. Please Father let whatever her feelings of neglect are be aired before you and her husband that she might know your healing and tender mercies and that her joy might be restored. In Jesus name...Amen!