This has been a very trying day.

I am HAPPILY married to my wonderful husband for just over a year now. He is amazing, loving & wonderful. We have a marriage that others dream about. He LOVES God, and is newer to the Lord. God is changing so many things about him, he just keeps getting better & better.

However, in growing closer to the Lord, things from his past have came back hard. This is so personal, I don't know where to turn........but to God.

About a year ago, he confessed to me that he had a fascination with urination. I didn't understand, and still don't. He told me this is NOT a sexual thing, just a curiosity.

Today, I walked in my bedroom to find the bathroom light on; my husband and 3 year old nephew weren't in here where they were...they were in the bathroom. They were both peeing in the toilet.

I found this extremely inappropriate, and kind of freaked out & said WHAT ARE YOU DOING...and my nephew said very matter-of-factly 'WE'RE JUST PEEING AUNTIE....' I had a long talk with my husband, and he said that they were just peeing, and I honestly believe him....as I know he's struggled with this fascination for a while.

I don't know what to do, where to turn. As you could imagine, I can't possibly TALK to anyone about this....except the Lord. Please pray......I am just very confused............

Lord I come to you in prayer and ask you to help this man with his problem and may it not be anything more serious than what his wife just told the whole world. May she always turn to you in prayers for all her needs but let her see that you already know what we are going to ask you before we do. Give her the peace of mind and wisdom in this situation and any other she may encounter in her life. Bind them together in love and may they make you the cornerstone of their life and marriage. Protect her little nephew from harmful people. I ask and thank you in Jesus Precious Name always giving you all the Honor and the Glory Heavenly Father, Amen!

Dear Lord,

I pray for hidden1's husband and he overcomes this unusual fettish. You are in control of everything and I pray You protect any children this man comes across until You heal him. Bless his lovely wife who is standing by his side and doing her best. Please make this alright! In Jesus name, Amen! Cheryl

Lord, please help this man with the problem he is having. I praise You that he is one of Yours. Lord, let him grow in strength and wisdom of You. Lord, let this wife to have a stronger faith in You and in her husband. Let her have the Faith that You can take care of all things. I pray that they both will always be found doing what You would have them to do. In this I ask in Your name Jesus,Amen. Luke 18:27 (KJV) And he said, The things which are impossible with men are possible with God.

Can I reply with a little honest empathy here? Sexual curiosity has been one of my great thorns in the flesh for a long time. I think it traces back to many things, among them being lack of modesty in the home. I also had a very weak relationship with my father. I wonder if this man is fascinated with the act of seeing someone urinate or just seeing them in an immodest condition. Either way, he is not alone in such struggles. The greatest concern and prayer we need to offer now is that this is not a manifestation of a hidden homosexual problem. I struggled with this sin for many years myself and I am NOT proud of things I did with other males, especially when deep down inside I am sure I knew better.

I purposely use private toilet stalls anywhere I go to the rest room and do not go swimming or any place where there will be "natural" opportunities to look at the nakedness of other boys or men simply because of the guilt I will feel if I should, even innocently, do so.

I pray the Lord will help you deal with this in the right loving and forgiving way and that this fetish will not lead this man into further immorality as it very easily can. If this man is saved, let's trust God to help this man find a way to direct himself away from this. And pray for ME, too, as I know a lot of what this man struggles with as it relates to MY curiosity struggles.

Clarence Wrote:Can I reply with a little honest empathy here? Sexual curiosity has been one of my great thorns in the flesh for a long time. I think it traces back to many things, among them being lack of modesty in the home. I also had a very weak relationship with my father. I wonder if this man is fascinated with the act of seeing someone urinate or just seeing them in an immodest condition. Either way, he is not alone in such struggles. The greatest concern and prayer we need to offer now is that this is not a manifestation of a hidden homosexual problem. I struggled with this sin for many years myself and I am NOT proud of things I did with other males, especially when deep down inside I am sure I knew better.

I purposely use private toilet stalls anywhere I go to the rest room and do not go swimming or any place where there will be "natural" opportunities to look at the nakedness of other boys or men simply because of the guilt I will feel if I should, even innocently, do so.

I pray the Lord will help you deal with this in the right loving and forgiving way and that this fetish will not lead this man into further immorality as it very easily can. If this man is saved, let's trust God to help this man find a way to direct himself away from this. And pray for ME, too, as I know a lot of what this man struggles with as it relates to MY curiosity struggles.

Thanks to all who are praying for my husband. Thank you also, Clarence, for your openness and honesty. It is relieving to hear that he is not the only one who struggles with this. I have no worries about my husband having thoughts towards men, but when I was talking to my husband about this I mentioned what you said, about seeing people in a very private situation-of which he has not had much exposure to. His family was almost OVERLY modest, so he literally hasn't even been around his parents, brother or anyone in any situations that would get him used to private things. We will certainly be praying for you as well..........

Dear Lord,
Please fix this situation as only you know all circumstances. Please heal, correct, rectify, and eliminate any deficiencies in mental health or character regarding this situation. Please eliminate any potential for anything negative to come out of this in the future. Please do this now Dear Lord. In Jesus name I pray, Amen.