Are you a Downer Debbie, Negative Nancy, or Positive Patty? No matter what your attitude speaks volume, and if you ever want to know how people really feel about you, you yourself look in the mirror; if you don't like what's looking back at you chances are others won't either. Nobody wants to be around someone who's always complaining about everything....{we all go through} it's one thing to vent and ask for help, it's another to dump your mess on others, especially when you know that their spirit is "joyful". I am always being asked why am I such a loner, I'll tell you why; I want to be so careful that I don't contaminate nobodies spirit with nonsense, not to mention I luv me {smile} I don't mind spending quality time getting to know myself and taking time to really love myself. Maybe that's they key; maybe we need to get to know our self, I mean really get know our self....that way our expectations on others can be realistic....we won't be asking people to do things that we are self can't perform. You never know when you are entertaining one of Gods very own...make sure your good is not evil spoken of. If you can't stand you, why should others? We have to change our thinking process....the word of God says:
Think on these Things {Philippians 4:8} Finally, brethren whatsoever things are true, whatsoever things are honest, whatsoever things are just whatsoever are pure, whatsoever things are lovely, whatsoever things are of good report; if there be any virtue, and if there be any praise think on these things.
Nobody wants to be around someone who's always talking about the negative, never positive, always being a fault finder never complimenting, always talking about themselves never ask how you are....remember you are not the only person who goes through take the time to think less of you and more of others..... Life & death is in the power of the tongue...negative talk is death; positive talk is life....choose to speak life over death....Amen; Amen
