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Suffering Marriage - joyfulpraise1 - 09-29-2009 09:01 AM
When I married my husband, he did not have sexual relations with me for about 8 months, I thought it was me, i then found out that his mother had sexually abused him as a child. This has been a huge burden for us both.
We have been to counseling, etc, and the sexual relations has improved a bit, but there is still such a long way to go. He is like a frigid boy, it is awful, he is afraid to touch me much, etc. He has OCD, where everything must be in perfect order, etc. Through our first year of marriage, I gained 50 lbs, from being so depressed from the continual rejection. Please pray for us. For him to be delivered from his painful past, and OCD, and for me to lose this weight, and start feeling more confident. Thank you so much, God Bless you,
RE: Suffering Marriage - writingmomma - 09-29-2009 12:37 PM
Father God, there is a cry for healing in this relationship. But first Father, let them see that you are in the mist of our trials. Touch the heart, mind and soul of both of these dear souls. Bring about a change in their lives. Let them know that you love them Lord. Let her husband know that he is safe with you. He must put his life in Your hand Father. He must learn to trust you to see him through all his hurt and pain. Father, please allow the healing process to begin in his life. Let him know that when he excepts Jesus, he becomes a new creation, old things have passed away and behold all things are new. He is no longer the same person as that little boy that was abused by his mother. He is now a husband with a good thing from You Lord. Your word says that he that finds a wife, findeth a good thing. Lord God, touch this marriage in a very special way today. Give them a shout of victory over their hurt, shame and sorrows. I ask this in Jesus Holy name. Amen!