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advice needed - Guest - 12-07-2011 05:40 PM
my spouse puts their family before me what should i do? honest answers please thanks Cheryl
RE: advice needed - Guest - 12-07-2011 11:18 PM
Lord this girl just met one of your children, yes my husband puts his family first, he lives with them not myself. After alot of arguments and my fits I decided Lord what is your will here, I really don't want him hanging out all the time so some is okay I need a little space and freedom, see can we really go to the store and just look at things or be alone with God like we should if we had to answer alot no. The thing I am not Jealous person (its not of God) just want my time but I was second awhole lot, so after enough tantrums, I said well Lord show me direction, I asked him to go places with me and he acted like he didn't hear because his family had something to do, so I quit asking and started giving it to God to search his heart. When I asked about my sons birthday dinner to never answered so when time to go I didn't ask again, later he said you went and did ask me I said no I asked and you didn't answer so I went alone and had a good time. I asked for another dinner he didn't answer, the next day I was upset alittle but I gave him to the Lord and prayed I never seen my phone text until later, The message said he wanted to know if he could go with me. and he made his wife very happy and I give God the glory I gave it to him and he gave it back to me my hearts desire. The thing is we can't make someone do things are way but God can change their hearts to see are hearts desire. When you step back God will answer you it takes alot of small steps I know my husband loves me sometimes I need to change alittle, beside his family did have him first I have to work into all of them. Its hard Cheryl esp if your young, if you really want peace ask your husband what he wants, what he needs and let him know that sometimes you are hurt and he needs to become your rock
let him be your man sometimes the little boy needs to become your knight. God I pray that this husband becomes the husband you've called him to be that he becomes cheryl's helpmate, he becomes the head of his household not his mothers his, I pray peace in very area of this marriage I pray this young womes can find the peace she needs with an overflowing joy in her heart towards her husband I pray that every thing in this union you have created that if it is not of you it is placed under the feet of Jesus and love and joy grows into a full relationship with you Jesus so you become the head of this househld for this family. I ask you give her peace right now in Jesus name Amen. Cheryl be still, stand you will be amazed at what God will do.
RE: advice needed - Guest - 12-08-2011 01:48 PM
(12-07-2011 05:40 PM)Guest Wrote: my spouse puts their family before me what should i do? honest answers please thanks Cheryl
Yes I am cheryl husband. God knows I love my wife with all my heart but its like everytime we go she gets mad for no reason like for example we was at subway and it was one woman working, she gets mad at da woman saying she slow n she always change our daughter dr appt. So I told god dat I was goin to tell my wife to stay home and talk to god cuz she have a bad attitude and hatred probelm. And she always thinks dat she s perfect n knows everything. She said god gona bless her, but I told her how god gona bless her n she dont love everybody n she even sent me a picture of a gun. I told her that if one of my guy friends ask me to go to da mall with him she gets mad cuz she thinks ima drink r smoke r partying n I told her I dont do those things. I told her marriage means trust n love respect n caring for each other but I think she has a hatred demon n her.