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Heartbreak and forgiveness - Guest - 02-13-2011 02:54 PM
I have been single for a year, my ex cheated on me, damaged my belongings and made his family believe that i was crazy.....throughout this year that i have been away from him at times i find myself still angry! And after all the "I swear to god im not messing with this girl" he's seeing her now. I pray and try and clear my head but im having the hardest time forgiving or getting past what he has done to me. I don't want to begin another relationship with someone else with all this anger/hatred. As a christian, i know that i have to forgive him for my Father in Heaven to forgive me, but please pray for me or any scriptures will help me to be encouraged.
Thanks
RE: Heartbreak and forgiveness - mnsonflower - 02-13-2011 03:39 PM
Dear father God, please bring restoration and healing to this guest. Restore 100 fold all that has been taken from her. Help her to find forgiveness in you, herself and any other people that amy have hurt here, so that she can Love You, herself and others around her Just as You love her. Bless her financially, physically, mentally and Spiritually in Jesus name and let the love Christ abound in her forever In Jesus Name
RE: Heartbreak and forgiveness - Guest - 02-13-2011 04:10 PM
I could have written this one myself, give or take a few things..
Anger is part of grieving & a normal human emotion. The bible speaks of anger, but I believe God Speaks of remaining in anger at another as not pleasing to HIM.
My own anger has most recently exacerbated (at the ex) in my loss as I am realizing how much damage my ex did to my life, it is finally sinking in.
Before I could easily let go & think of the present.
Healthy people give themselves time to heal between relationships; my ex & yours do not allow this healing & thus it is not surprising they have done what they did to us. I've had those interested in me & have friends, however you are smart to just give yourself plenty of time to get over & solid before moving on.
Friendship builds over time & on solid ground.
Try to do what you love doing, keep in prayer & know that this too shall pass. I will pray for both of us. In Jesus' Name.
Guest Wrote:I have been single for a year, my ex cheated on me, damaged my belongings and made his family believe that i was crazy.....throughout this year that i have been away from him at times i find myself still angry! And after all the "I swear to god im not messing with this girl" he's seeing her now. I pray and try and clear my head but im having the hardest time forgiving or getting past what he has done to me. I don't want to begin another relationship with someone else with all this anger/hatred. As a christian, i know that i have to forgive him for my Father in Heaven to forgive me, but please pray for me or any scriptures will help me to be encouraged.
Thanks
RE: Heartbreak and forgiveness - Guest - 02-13-2011 05:01 PM
Thank you so much!
RE: Heartbreak and forgiveness - Guest - 02-13-2011 06:18 PM
In my own case, I don't even have feelings left for my ex because of the horrendous way he did me & this is confusing to me because I loved him very much at one time, now all there is left is the anger. I will pray hard for you because I think I can relate to where you are at, and like you I am in need of prayer to get past this.
Lord God Heal us.
Guest Wrote:I have been single for a year, my ex cheated on me, damaged my belongings and made his family believe that i was crazy.....throughout this year that i have been away from him at times i find myself still angry! And after all the "I swear to god im not messing with this girl" he's seeing her now. I pray and try and clear my head but im having the hardest time forgiving or getting past what he has done to me. I don't want to begin another relationship with someone else with all this anger/hatred. As a christian, i know that i have to forgive him for my Father in Heaven to forgive me, but please pray for me or any scriptures will help me to be encouraged.
Thanks