(10-24-2011 08:11 PM)InChristJesus Wrote:  

(10-22-2011 05:25 AM)paula0331 Wrote:  thank u and praise god for all the good people on here. especially those that went through what i am going through. my kids dont talk to me i cannot talk to them they talk to tim. tim told me he does not remember cheating on me only remembers me yelling. does not remember doing porn bad bab porn or not working. he told me i rmember the bad things. no that is y i still love him i remember the good times our wedding and giving it to god the day he got saved and baptized in "God and started going to church with me. the day the twins were concieved and born. more. my heart is breaking to know he is with g/f now. i miss him and told him how i feel deeply i told him sometimes i think i miss him more than the kids. sad but true. my heart back and mind is breaking. the meeting went well but still making stup0id mistakes at work. i went to a job interview and was told i am not qualified for job. what next my life is amess pray for me. tim's bdya is coming up and i want to spend it with him bdaly the day he leaves his g/f to come home to me and the kid come home to me will be a party big party in my life pray to God it can happen

Stop complaining. Say that God is good, and good all the time. Say that no matter what you are going through, you are still blessed because you still have a chance to please God on Earth and to enter Heaven. Know that no matter how awful, catastrophic, or unfair things may seem, that all things work for the good of those who love God according to the will of God. Know that these events that seem awful, catastrophic, and unfair are going to happen no matter what you do (or how much you complain) and that it is not going to change in this world, so the only thing that you can do is to get on the correct team so that these bad events will somehow some way at some point work to your good. If you do not, rather than suffering bad that will work to your good, you will simply suffer bad and that is it! And furthermore, know that what you are going through is just for a time. Your Promised Land is coming. Your Heaven is coming. All you have to do is endure until the end.

Beyond that, pray. Instead of complaining about something, go to God about it. The reason why most will not go to God about their complaints is because they A) know that their complaining is sinful and B) know that the root cause of their complaining is sinful desires. These people forget that God knows their heart. Even if you do not outwardly complain and no one hears you, you are still murmuring against God’s will and plan in your heart and God hears it, and it is still counted as sin! So you might as well go ahead and admit your complaints against God to God so that God can deal with you. Realize that either way God IS going to deal with your complaining self. The difference is that if you take those complaints to God you can be forgiven, delivered, and saved, but if you do not then you are in for a world of hurt!

Beyond that, what good has complaining ever done? Complaining is the mark of a person who lacks love, knowledge, faith, and submission. Even if you have some legitimate need that needs to be met, instead of offending God by complaining about it, please God by praying about it! Will your prayers offend God? At times. But that is actually ALMOST OK, because if you offend God when you pray, he will let you know, and you will be able to immediately repent and petition God as to what will please him because you will already be praying. It is still FAR PREFERABLE to the only other alternative, which is not praying about the matter at all, which is exactly what Satan AND the demon that is gnawing at you want … for you not to pray so that the issue in your life is never resolved by God. There simply is no excuse for not praying, and the reason is that praying is simply the only thing that we can do. Nothing else is going to work anyway – least of all complaining – so why not pray? And certainly do not refuse to pray because you want to sin, but you are afraid to sin so complaining about not being able to sin is the next best thing. Just get on your knees and tell God that you want to sin! If you are afraid of offending God, do not be in this context. Why? Because God already knows your heart. He already knows your desire to sin. Therefore, he is already offended! So just tell God about it and take your medicine. Had the children of Israel done the same and confessed to God or at least to Moses the sin that was in their hearts, they would have been spared! Do not replicate their mistake! The incident is recorded in the Bible for the specific purpose of warning you not to walk in their paths!

Realize that the key to ending complaining is not to SUPPRESS the complaints with willpower, mind tricks, lies, and re – directions. The Israelites tried that. It did not work. Rather, the key to ending complaints is prayer to God, confession and repentance of sin and sinful tendencies to God, and deliverance from any evil spirits that control this area. That is what they should have done and what you must do. It may not be easy, but it is definitely attainable and well worth the effort. The consequences of not doing so are grave, for consider not that the Israelites died, but the fate of their eternal spirits (oft referred to as souls) because they died in their lusts. Do not let it happen to you!

(10-24-2011 09:37 AM)Guest Wrote:  You don't even know what I did for Paula. Judge and examine yourself first and stop the pitty party. Stop the hypocrisy. Be careful what you say to me you will be eating those words. I am the most compassionate person you will ever meet but I refuse to go down to hell with anyone who enjoys pitty party instead we should keep praising God the Father throught Jesus Christ and stop complaining. Did Jesus Christ complained what he went through to the cross. When judgment time comes, do you really think all what we have here on earth i.e. materials, emotions, etc. matter. Have you emailed her, or talked to her. Have you prayed for her without posting your so called prayer online. The God of this world you mentioned is satan. Why did you get upset when I sent the prayer to Paula to repeat the prayer. Your comprehension is limited in the Spirit Holy that is. I am not blaming Paula for what is happening but a lot of saints stated that she must look up above not below in hell as you said. Complaining about everything will send you straight there. God will hold you accountable for correcting another saints who is sinning. I will return your prayer for me back to you because it is a prayer of witchcraft. I have a true fellowship and relationship with our one only God the Father in Heaven creator of all things, His son our Lord Jesus Christ who died for us and the Holy Spirit who is with us. By complaining all the time, you are grieving the Holy Spirit. [You have a religious spirit.]

Whoever believes that Jesus is the Christ is born of God. Whoever loves the Father also loves the child who is born of him. By this we know that we love the children of God, when we love God and keep his commandments. For this is the love of God, that we keep his commandments. His commandments are not grievous. For whatever is born of God overcomes the world. This is the victory that has overcome the world: your faith. Who is he who overcomes the world, but he who believes that Jesus is the Son of God? This is he who came by water and blood, Jesus Christ; not with the water only, but with the water and the blood. It is the Spirit who testifies, because the Spirit is the truth. For there are three who testify in heaven: the Father, the Word, and the Holy Spirit; and these three are one. And there are three that testify on earth: the Spirit, the water, and the blood; and the three agree as one. If we receive the witness of men, the witness of God is greater; for this is God's testimony which he has testified concerning his Son. He who believes in the Son of God has the testimony in himself. He who doesn't believe God has made him a liar, because he has not believed in the testimony that God has given concerning his Son. The testimony is this, that God gave to us eternal life, and this life is in his Son. He who has the Son has the life. He who doesn't have God's Son doesn't have the life... We know that the Son of God has come, and has given us an understanding, that we know him who is true, and we are in him who is true, in his Son Jesus Christ. This is the true God, and eternal life.
I John 5:1-12, 20 & marg.

God Bless!

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God will hold you accountable for "NOT" correcting another saints who is sinning.

(10-25-2011 07:17 AM)Guest Wrote:  You are right Paula is not complaining but asking us to pray for her and her family, and for the x-husband to come back to her. That is not complaining but being specific just the way the bible tells us to be, and
praying for them without ceasing. That is not a sin, for God wants us to pray for one another and to ask him for his help. I think there are some people coming here to make trouble, or just plain jealous to see we pray for others. We are called to uplift each other, not squash them further down than what they already are. Leave the judging and condemning to God for only he and he alone can see into our hearts.
Lord help us to be kind to one another, and to hurt for those that are hurting like Paula is at this time in her life. Hear her cries and bring her out of the dark whole she in, for we know that nothing is impossible for you and you love us just as we are. Help her Lord to get closer to you, and in her job, with her car, and her home. Give her peace of mind, comfort, strength, and take away her loneliness. Help her to concentrate in her job and to learn it very well so she won't lose it until you help her to find a better paying one closer to home. Give her the desires of her heart according to your perfect will. I pray in Jesus name, amen.

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(10-24-2011 09:37 AM)Guest Wrote:  You don't even know what I did for Paula. Judge and examine yourself first and stop the pitty party. Stop the hypocrisy. Be careful what you say to me you will be eating those words. I am the most compassionate person you will ever meet but I refuse to go down to hell with anyone who enjoys pitty party instead we should keep praising God the Father throught Jesus Christ and stop complaining. Did Jesus Christ complained what he went through to the cross. When judgment time comes, do you really think all what we have here on earth i.e. materials, emotions, etc. matter. Have you emailed her, or talked to her. Have you prayed for her without posting your so called prayer online. The God of this world you mentioned is satan. Why did you get upset when I sent the prayer to Paula to repeat the prayer. Your comprehension is limited in the Spirit Holy that is. I am not blaming Paula for what is happening but a lot of saints stated that she must look up above not below in hell as you said. Complaining about everything will send you straight there. God will hold you accountable for correcting another saints who is sinning. I will return your prayer for me back to you because it is a prayer of witchcraft. I have a true fellowship and relationship with our one only God the Father in Heaven creator of all things, His son our Lord Jesus Christ who died for us and the Holy Spirit who is with us. By complaining all the time, you are grieving the Holy Spirit. [You have a religious spirit.]

Whoever believes that Jesus is the Christ is born of God. Whoever loves the Father also loves the child who is born of him. By this we know that we love the children of God, when we love God and keep his commandments. For this is the love of God, that we keep his commandments. His commandments are not grievous. For whatever is born of God overcomes the world. This is the victory that has overcome the world: your faith. Who is he who overcomes the world, but he who believes that Jesus is the Son of God? This is he who came by water and blood, Jesus Christ; not with the water only, but with the water and the blood. It is the Spirit who testifies, because the Spirit is the truth. For there are three who testify in heaven: the Father, the Word, and the Holy Spirit; and these three are one. And there are three that testify on earth: the Spirit, the water, and the blood; and the three agree as one. If we receive the witness of men, the witness of God is greater; for this is God's testimony which he has testified concerning his Son. He who believes in the Son of God has the testimony in himself. He who doesn't believe God has made him a liar, because he has not believed in the testimony that God has given concerning his Son. The testimony is this, that God gave to us eternal life, and this life is in his Son. He who has the Son has the life. He who doesn't have God's Son doesn't have the life... We know that the Son of God has come, and has given us an understanding, that we know him who is true, and we are in him who is true, in his Son Jesus Christ. This is the true God, and eternal life.
I John 5:1-12, 20 & marg.

God Bless!

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(CORRECTIONS)
God will hold you accountable for "NOT" correcting another saints who is sinning.

Let the holy spirit do the correction in them, it is not up to us to do it. Look into your own faults for I'm sure you are not perfect yourself. If you know the word of God then you are familiar with Luke 6:42
How can you say to your brother, 'Brother, let me take the speck out of your eye,' when you yourself fail to see the plank in your own eye? You hypocrite, first take the plank out of your eye, and then you will see clearly to remove the speck from your brother's eye.

(10-25-2011 08:21 AM)Guest Wrote:  Dear, who ever you are I'm not angry, nor I'm hiding I feel Puala's hurt, and you don't even know me to say what you just said of me. If I don't go call Paula, or e-mail her, or use a surname here it's not by my choice but because I'm not in any position to do so. So if you did know me you will then know why. I don't feel like posting here my problmes for you, or anyone to see for God knows them and he is the only one that can help me with them as he has done in the past. You see even in my situation I rather pray for others, than to post it here becasue of people like you. You are a distraction to Puala, me, and others that are wanting to pray for others, or those asking for prayers. You just come here to start trouble, I remember you from months ago. If I'm not mistaken you were knocked off this board then. I will pray for your soul.

(10-25-2011 09:02 AM)Guest Wrote:  You are right, there are those that come to these forums & start trouble.
For those that ONLY see Paula as complaining it is probably the exact type as her ex husband that does not care for about others.
Some people enjoy seeing others suffer. Their time will come.

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If your are speaking to me, I was never knocked off this board.
I feel an evil spirit connected to your post.

(10-25-2011 08:21 AM)Guest Wrote:  Dear, who ever you are I'm not angry, nor I'm hiding I feel Puala's hurt, and you don't even know me to say what you just said of me. If I don't go call Paula, or e-mail her, or use a surname here it's not by my choice but because I'm not in any position to do so. So if you did know me you will then know why. I don't feel like posting here my problmes for you, or anyone to see for God knows them and he is the only one that can help me with them as he has done in the past. You see even in my situation I rather pray for others, than to post it here becasue of people like you. You are a distraction to Puala, me, and others that are wanting to pray for others, or those asking for prayers. You just come here to start trouble, I remember you from months ago. If I'm not mistaken you were knocked off this board then. I will pray for your soul.

Matthew 6:6-8
Tell us:
“But you, when you pray, go into your inner room, close your door and pray to your Father who is in secret, and your Father who sees what is done in secret will reward you. “And when you are praying, do not use meaningless repetition as the Gentiles do, for they suppose that they will be heard for their many words. “So do not be like them; for your Father knows what you need before you ask Him.
When I decided to come here as a guest I do it not because of hiding, but not to glorify myself but the father that's in heaven, and to uplift others, not to make them feel worse. I've been on this board for over four years, and you are the only one I've had any problem with. For you like to tear apart and put down other people's prayers. God has seen it and knows who is the wrong here, and will recompense them for their deeds, good or bad. So let him be the judge.

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(10-25-2011 09:02 AM)Guest Wrote:  You are right, there are those that come to these forums & start trouble.
For those that ONLY see Paula as complaining it is probably the exact type as her ex husband that does not care for about others.
Some people enjoy seeing others suffer. Their time will come.

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If your are speaking to me, I was never knocked off this board.
I feel an evil spirit connected to your post.

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Dear, who ever you are I'm not angry, nor I'm hiding I feel Puala's hurt, and you don't even know me to say what you just said of me. If I don't go call Paula, or e-mail her, or use a surname here it's not by my choice but because I'm not in any position to do so. So if you did know me you will then know why. I don't feel like posting here my problmes for you, or anyone to see for God knows them and he is the only one that can help me with them as he has done in the past. You see even in my situation I rather pray for others, than to post it here becasue of people like you. You are a distraction to Puala, me, and others that are wanting to pray for others, or those asking for prayers. You just come here to start trouble, I remember you from months ago. If I'm not mistaken you were knocked off this board then. I will pray for your soul.