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RE: husband divorcing me for 1st girlfriend.I feel like giving life up.help... - Guest - 03-15-2009 02:45 AM
DEar brothers and sisters in christ,
Thanks for your much needed prayers.It really helps.Now im in a dilemna and really need for help.
Should i go ahead and sign the separation letters or should i continue to pray for him to come back to God and this marriage?
I'm broken and confused....
It seems that the more people gather and pray,the more spiritual resistance faced.I'm sad....really sad....
RE: husband divorcing me for 1st girlfriend.I feel like giving life up.help... - Guest - 03-16-2009 05:14 AM
the devil is a liar and is defeated through Jesus Christ. Do not look at the circumstances. Hold on to God. This is spiritual warfare. I pray that your husband has no peace with this other woman. I pray God continually convict both of their hearts until they turn to him and ask for forgiveness and be obedient to his word. What God has joined together let no man put asunder. The devil works harder because he knows he is defeated... Stay in the word and be obedient to God he will never fail you... Don't let Satan shake your faith in God no matter what happens. He is trying to destroy lives. We all have free will so you hold on to God tightly and don't let him destroy you and continually pray for your husbands salvation... God bless you.
RE: husband divorcing me for 1st girlfriend.I feel like giving life up.help... - Guest - 03-16-2009 06:35 AM
Do not under any circumstance sign any papers for him. If you are asking God to bring you two together again, then don't give in to the devil's desires. When you see or talk to your husband talk to him very kindly without any pressure. For it is God who will do the work in him not you or anyone else, remember that. Let the love of Christ show through you toward your husband, that will be more effecting than the pressure the other woman is putting on him.
Dear Lord I pray you take that other woman out of this man's heart and mind. May he return to you and his wife repented of his sins and ready to be the husband you want him to be. Have them become an example to others of the wonders you can do for us. Bind them together with your unconditional love and may they be joined this time with a real commitment to you and to each other full of love, forgiveness, understanding, kindness, respect and fidelity. Give Jessica the strength and wisdom she needs to wait on you. Heal all the pain and fill her with your peace and strength. Let her husband see she is a better woman, the kind any man can desire to have for a wife. Have him see the other woman as a nagger, controlling and selfish person ready to do anything to destroy marriages and take away what belongs to someone else. May he soon start to be disgusted with that other woman and find his wife a refreshing woman to be loved, admire and respected. In Jesus Name I ask you amen!
RE: husband divorcing me for 1st girlfriend.I feel like giving life up.help... - Guest - 03-18-2009 07:42 AM
My husband is really really cold and for the first time,he did not tell me that he's not coming back for dinner.
The first marriage counselling session starts this saturday at 3pm in church.I don't know what the outcome will be but really needs all of your prayers.
Thanks a lot!
RE: husband divorcing me for 1st girlfriend.I feel like giving life up.help... - Guest - 03-18-2009 07:49 AM
"They that wait upon the Lord shall renew their faith, they shall mount up with wings as eagles, they shall run and not be weary they shall walk and not faint, teach me lord to wait
RE: husband divorcing me for 1st girlfriend.I feel like giving life up.help... - Guest - 03-23-2009 01:38 PM
Dear brothers and sisters in christ,
I just want to give a short update on the counselling ons saturday.The first sentence Alan gave was that his decision is already firmed up and he wants to end the marriage soon so that he can start dating Daphne.He said the same things,that he doesn't love me a single bit,he married me out of pity.
After the session,i asked him to go church he said no.I asked him if he still believes in God,he said three times that he only believes in himself.
The whole day,he displayed wierd behaviour.He just stood there to watch the pet cat get stung by a bee and at night,he watched the cat bite the wire and happily said that she would get electroculated soon.This is really not the usual him because he loves animals.
I don't know what i should do.The love and sincerity he gave all along is so real.I really don't know what is the truth.
Dear brothers and sisters in christ,please hear my cry in this....
RE: husband divorcing me for 1st girlfriend.I feel like giving life up.help... - anguerrero - 03-24-2009 05:53 AM
i sure do but listen remeber that the only one that can help u is god dont losse faith he will always be there for u yes he will and dont force him to do anything he doesnt want to do he will soon find out that what he is doing is wrong and he is going to regret doing this to u but just keep on going to church and everything will be alright and thank u for ur update ur friend anguerrero from san antonio tx may the lord be with u at all times amen and amen
RE: husband divorcing me for 1st girlfriend.I feel like giving life up.help... - bcshelvsme - 03-24-2009 06:11 AM
Lord please give Jessica the peace that surpasses all understanding and to trust in you. Make her see she has to stand back and not pressure her husband anymore. For the more we pressure them the more they will resist, even if it's a minister or a family member. Let them see that if they are asking you to work in him they have to turn this man over to you Lord and stop interfering, for by doing that they can destroy the work you may have already started in that man. Give Jessica strength to stand back and let you have control of the situation. May she learn to lean on you Lord and remember that it is in your timing and not ours, help her to understand that. May you touch her husband's heart and may his eyes be opened to the reality of what terrible sin he is committing. May he open his heart to you and make you Lord of his life and also return back this wife. Bind them together with your love, forgiveness, trust, understanding, fidelity, kindness, peace and joy in their marriage. Have them make you the cornerstone of their lives and their marriage, so they can be an example of your mercy and what you can do for us. I ask and thank you in Jesus Precious Name so that you may be Glorified Heavenly Father, Amen!
RE: husband divorcing me for 1st girlfriend.I feel like giving life up.help... - writingmomma - 03-24-2009 08:19 AM
Father God, I lift this situation up to you. You are the answer to all that trouble each of us this day. Father, please let this child of your know that, "she must also love you more than anything else". Let her know that no matter what the circumstance, that she is in Your care. Father allow her to keep her focus on You. Place a sweet peace in her heart about the entire situation. Be the light in her life today Lord. You give a peace that passes all understanding. Allow her to know that "Your" grace is sufficient for her. Allow her to know that "Your" will must be done. Allow her to know that she must, "seek ye first the kingdom of righteousness and "all other things will be added unto her".
God will be all the comfort and reassurance that you need. Place this situation in his hand. Do not fret because of evil doers. I pray for them both to turn from their wicked ways. I pray that your husband will realize that the God we serve is still a God of forgiveness and mercy. You must keep your spirit at peace no matter what! God does not force His will or His way on anyone. But, He wants us all to know that he is available to those that diligently seek Him. I pray for the Holy Spirit to bring you comfort. Remember, God is a strong tower. Lean on Him!
RE: husband divorcing me for 1st girlfriend.I feel like giving life up.help... - rick brinker - 03-24-2009 09:14 AM
I pray that you will let God heal your pain that he is the one who can help you get through this...I am going through a simular situation myself for the past year I did try to kill myself I'm very lucky to be here today, it looks bad right now but let God have it you can pray for your husband, I'll pray for him to, but you need to take care of you... I know God has a plan for all of us and sometimes it not what we want so I pray that you will walk with GOD and let him heal your heart...