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Posted by guest872 - 02-20-2026 02:10 PM

About 1-2 years ago, I was very angry and I was abusive towards my wife (verbally basically not physically).

I have done a TON of therapy since, and we have done pretty well over the last year.

However it seems, like my wife Rebecca still has an "abusive" outlook of me...

When is she ever going to not view me as abusive??

When is she going to decide that I am 100% safe and not abusive at all anymore?

When is she going to finally 100% trust?

I haven't liked the disconnection , that these outlooks have caused.

For example, what if I am doing better but because of trauma, and these type of outlooks Rebecca has still kept a distance, been afraid, not been intimate with me much etc.

Please pray that God heals all this 100%. That he somehow convinces Rebecca that I am truly not abusive at all anymore, that I have changed, that I am not dangerous to her, that I am not threatening to her.

Pray that God gives her the breakthroughs she needs and perhaps God can lead her to do her own therapy and take her own healing seriously as well.

Pray that God helps her and gives her all she needs.

Pray that God really leads and guides her and "makes her" lie down in green pastures types of things - in terms of having her be healed, and get healing for herself... therapy whatever is needed.

Pray that God sorts everything out 100%. Please Lord amen. Quickly too all this asap.