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| Posted by Chris8 - 10-17-2016 11:09 PM |
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In Jesus Name i command that all powers of darkness and curses to leave this family and their home ! Now ! I pray that Lord's will be done in their lives. Amen |
| Posted by Ald - 10-17-2016 08:46 PM |
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Don't know if husband is desperate to get divorced or afraid of something or feels sorry for me but, in past he said he wanted to pay mortgage, which is now $660, instead of support, but last night he said he would pay mortgage and give me $500 a month in support in addition to help with utilities. He also mentioned keeping me on car insurance if me and mom bought a used car and I can't remember if he said he would keep me on cell phone plan or not. I probably would decline car insurance and pay it ourselves. I told him I wanted to claim child Tax Credit when I get a job or split it, he agreed to half, he said we could each claim one of our children. Does earned income credit, EIC have to do with kids, I can't remember? Can we claim EIC with or without kids, I can't remember? I felt happy, the extra money was his idea. I was scared because I know if I get some minimum wage job it wont pay all utilities, especially gas in winter, and I still don't know if I can go back to school and still don't know what to do for a living that I can get a job at at my age (49) which I think is limiting is this world. I don't know if it's possible to find 9 to 5 job outside office setting, but I really want more of a 9 to 5 job so I can see my kids, have weekends off and have a social life in the future. I m not worried about making tons of money, just enough to live and some extra to have some fun or a hobby once in a while, not be destitute. That extra $500 would really help with utilities. I was so happy last night and I told my stbx to put it in writing so it's legally binding if possible. We went to court today to try to do that. He thought they had legal workshops for divorce with free legal advice but only custody. Lady who works down at courthouse told us since we had a house it wasn't a simple divorce and we would have to get a lawyer. We couldn't just stand in front of judge and have our agreement put in writing and filed. We live in Pittsburgh PA. Alot of his divorce papers except first weren't even sent correctly or filed. And something about my list of things I wanted in divorce which were attached to counter-divorce affidavit that I filed, weren't correct and I have to bring up equitable stuff I think she said. This legal stuff is so confusing. Neither one of us has money for a lawyer. I feel angry. I like what my husband is offering, don't know why he's offering more than mortgage and it's more than I expected. I really need to get a job now to help pay utilities. I pray I can shut off utilities in his name and put in mine and companies dont make me pay balance on bills, the electric balance is over $900 and we don't have that. My husband also said if I could find decent apartment in same neighborhood, he would pay $900 a month in child support since he still has mortgage here. I can't get a pro-bono lawyer because our divorce isn't simple a d court said we need a lawyer, lol. Hate to pay blood sucker lawyer money if we can come to agreement ourselves. Why?!! I thought agreement was a miracle or blessing from God. Want to be divorced and if financially possible go back to maiden name. As far as things husband and/or girlfriend did in past that was morally wrong, I don't care, let God take care of it. I still need a career because I really want to be financially independent and can't depend on ex or support or my mother forever. Prayers for this situation would be appreciated and prayers God would bless us with a good used car and obviously se d us in right direction for it. The repo man at church didn't seem to pan out, he never called back after two calls and we're thinking now it might be better NOT to spend all money, around $10,000, on car itself and insurance, maybe get cheaper car and keep money for maintenance or emergency. How much do you think should be spent on a used car to not overspend or underspend?? People also say we should get mechanic to look at before buying which is another problem, we don't know a mechanic and is it possible for a mechanic to really be able to tell if a car is good to buy or bad not to buy?? How much trouble is that and how much do they charge to check out car? We really need a car to get out and about. Scary. |