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Posted by Guest - 04-26-2010 11:20 AM
Just keep on hanging in there, I've seen cases in which they go through divorce to then turn around and remarry. I've experienced some of what you are going through. God also did a miracle in my marriage after years of praying for my husband to come back to me. Everyone used to tell me he will never come back to forget him, yet God answered me and he has turned his life to God. Now we are happier than ever before, that's without us having any children from our marriage, how much more a man that has children with you. Don't believe the lies of the enemy, just live by faith and do not look at what the devil puts in front of you. Try not to fight, nor ague with him, nor push too hard. Let God be the one to touch his heart and do the work in him that we are praying for. Keep on clinging to God with all your might and the enemy will have to flee from everything that concerns you.
Lord continue to be with this woman, give her strength, comfort and wisdom, in Jesus name I pray.
Posted by Guest - 04-26-2010 06:30 AM
The count down unfortunately has started. In 47 hours i will be in the Probate Court to start this divorce that my Husband has asked for. The state in which we live only needs one person to sign the papers and the judge can not request counseling. I have read a few couples on here over the weekend have been able to reconcile their differences with their spouse, but it seems that my husbands heart has to proven to be very hard for God to soften. I haven't given up on God because I know that he is able to do everything he just needs time, but it seems like time is running out. I ask that you pray harder now with me the next 47 hours to have my husband change his heart and mind and drop this divorce and just come home and be the husband and father that God wants him to be. Bless
Posted by Guest - 04-22-2010 01:38 PM
Stay focused on God. He is in control. My husband had left me and wanted a divorce. My husband is back home with us now. The main thing is to trust God's word. He does not lie. His word is truth. We have a new apartment, our son is doing better emotionally. I know God will deliver my son from whatever he is going through and he will serve God. Don't ever stop praying for your husband. Ask God to take out those things that are in you that are unlike God. Keep your focus on God. I know its hard when everything around you is going crazy. A year ago, I was living with my parents with a 15 yr old son, who was talking about killing himself, a husband who was living with an exgirlfriend, and also my husband had started drinking again, my car had died and I had to hospitalize my son for 3 weeks in a locked down ward. I felt as though my life was ending. A year later, my husband is back home and putting God first,we have a new apartment, we still have my husbands car, my son just got out of DYS and is talking better. I am still believing God for his salvation. I am grateful to God for all he has done and is doing in my life. He is the only one who is responsible for my life getting better. Don't ever give up. Hang on strong, God is faithful. Love your sister in Christ.
Posted by Guest - 04-22-2010 01:26 PM
I want to thank you all for the prayers. It seems like it is just getting worse. My husband has not called or emailed to see if he can see our son. I am now at the point of begging. I know deep in my heart that God wants us together, but we need to "grow up" more. I read about other spouses standing for their marriages and it takes them years to get their spouse back. I am willing to wait but i pray that he will come back sooner than that. Our 2 year anniversary is June 7, and i pray that i get to spend that day with him. I ask that you still pray for my husband and i and ask that you add our names Danielle and Dmitriy to your prays so GOD knows that i need him the most right now. Thank You and God bless everyone of you, and i too will pray for you.
Posted by bcshelvsme - 04-21-2010 10:10 AM
Lord continue to be by this woman's side giving her comfort strength and help her to accept whatever your will is for her and her children. Provide for all her their needs, and protect them at all times as you did in that car pile up, we thank you Lord for protecting her. Give her the peace that surpasses all understanding so she can be calm for the baby in her womb, and to care for the other one Lord. Touch Dmitriy's heart by having him change his mind about this divorce, and come back home to his wife to be a good husband and father to his children. May he accept you as his Lord and Savoir and make you the cornerstone of their life and marriage. Have your perfect will be done in this situation here on earth as it is in heaven. I pray and thank you in advance in Jesus Christ Precious Name, as I give you all the Honor and the Glory Heavenly Father to whom all power belongs, Amen! Warrior
"Again I say unto you, That if two of you shall agree on earth as touching any thing that they shall ask, it shall be done for them of my Father which is in heaven." Matthew 18:19
Posted by Guest - 04-21-2010 09:43 AM
Well its the beginning of the end for our marriage. I was informed that our court date of May 5 has now been changed to next wednesday April 28, thats right a week from today. Cry I am so not ready for this. Its only for temporary orders but its what starts everything. I know that God is with me because yesterday i was the only car that was on the highway that was not involved in the 6 car pile up, i should tell you that i was smack dab in the middle of all the cars. All i am doing is crying, i guess being pregnant isn't really helping. I was hoping to receive a letter from my lawyer saying it was canceled because he withdrew, but that wasn't the case. I still pray that God will change Dmitiry's heart and mind and he will drop the divorce that he has filed. God has shown me that i needed to change and become a better mother/wife and i have accepted the changes that he wants, but i still need him to do the same for my husband. I want the chance to show my husband that i have changed and God has shown me what I did wrong and that I am ready to work on our marriage and make it what it should have been. Please pray for us to become that family that God wants us to be, that all of this is just one of life's lessons that God wanted us to learn the hard way. I also pray to show my lawyer and everyone else that told me that no one can change the out come of this divorce, because this is what Dmitriy wants. I told everyone that this isn't what God wants and he wants us to be a family and he will restore our marriage and family. Please pray for this to come true. Amen
Posted by stevendanielsen - 04-20-2010 08:44 AM
Dear Havenly Father Please grant this person prayer request and Bless them greatly, and bless them with Good health for many more year's to come and thank you for you son who died on the cross for are sins. IN JESUS NAME I PRAY AMEN.
Posted by bcshelvsme - 04-20-2010 07:17 AM
Oh Heavenly Father don't let this man have any peace of mind until he comes to repentance for abandoning his wife who is expecting his second child, and his son. Open his eyes so he can see that what he is doing is not right in your eyes, and not the way real men acts. May he come back home to be the husband and father you intended him to be. Give his wife the assurance that no matter what her husband decides to do, you are always by her side giving her strength and comfort. May she cling to you for dear life during these hard times in her life and allow you to guide her steps. May she concentrate right now on her children and her relationship with you. Provide for all their needs Lord, also keep your guardian angels around them at all times, as you have your perfect will done in their life. I pray and thank you in advance in Jesus Christ Precious Name, as I give you all the Honor and the Glory Heavenly Father to whom all power belongs, Amen! Warrior
"Again I say unto you, That if two of you shall agree on earth as touching any thing that they shall ask, it shall be done for them of my Father which is in heaven." Matthew 18:19
11- For I know the plans I have for you," declares the LORD, "plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future. 12- Then you will call upon me and come and pray to me, and I will listen to you. 13- You will seek me and find me when you seek me with all your heart. 14- I will be found by you," declares the LORD.
Jeremiah 29:11-14
Posted by Guest - 04-20-2010 06:12 AM
Thank you for all your prayers. Please continue to pray. My marriage/family needs a miracle from God. I pray that it happens soon. I still pray everyday that my husband (Dmitriy) will just walk back into our live and that he will ask for forgiveness, and he will just drop the divorce that he has filed. I have faith in God that he will bring us back to the family that we need to be, it just going to take a little longer. Amen
Posted by chimeribe - 04-17-2010 02:24 PM
Dear lord I read this lady’s prayer request and my heart makes me cry out to you Lord. Please Lord answer her prayer and restore her family in the name of Jesus . I believe that this prayer will be answered quickly and your family will be restored. I stand in complete faith and agreement with you and wish your family all the health and happiness for the future. God bless you.



Its been three weeks since my husband has filed for a divorce. He has had my summons for two weeks and hasn't served me yet. When i went to drop off our son to see him yesterday i asked if he still wants the divorce and he said yes. I was praying that GOD was changing his mind and was going to end the divorce. I am currently 3 months pregnant with our second child and i don't want to go through this alone, it took the two of us to create this child and it will take the two of us to raise it together. I have been praying non stop now for three weeks and i feel that nothing has changed and i am ready to give up hope. I feel that GOD is punishing me, but i am not sure why. Please pray that my husband changes his mind and that his heart softens and he comes back to me and our children, that Satan will leave my husbands heart alone. Please pray that GOD will stop punishing me.
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