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| Posted by Guest - 06-26-2011 06:49 PM |
Paula don't let yourself be fooled by your x anymore, pray for his salvation, but don't trust him with your life. God can send someone new your way , but first you have to get healed from your past and learn to respect yourself. Put Tim out of your life, since the kids are not with you, he doesn't even have to come near you, as long as he does you won't be able to heal and forget him. I tell you this as a friend and sister in Christ, and because I know how you are feeling, but remember grater is God than the enemy or Tim. You know it doesn't matter how old your house is. Some of those houses are so beautiful and better made than the newer houses, and can look better with a little inexpensive cosmetic and uncluttered. I've seen some that are gorgeous, plus you have a roof over your head that you can make beautiful with all the time you have on your hands, by doing so you are showing God you are a grateful child. Do some decorations like making some curtains, paint some rooms, clean the windows, and clean up what you call junk by throwing out what you don't need. Have Tim get his stuff out so you won't be seeing it and getting more depress. Now that's summer airout the house and enjoy what you have there. You know there are so many people that don't even have where to lay their head at night. These are some of the blessings you can start counting and enjoying Paula.  Lord please take that depression away from Paula and continue to help and protect her. Send some good believer her way to befriend her and lift her in prayers as we are doing here, but she needs good people in her life Lord, also supply for all her needs. Let her see she can busy herself on the weekends doing these things and listening to some good uplifting music instead of letting herself get depressed. I pray in Jesus name, amen. 
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| Posted by paula0331 - 06-26-2011 11:13 AM |
| just want my family back. bored again today. noone calls or cares. what happened is tim was cheating on me beat me up and then the kids were taken from house because of him. said if kids are 13 (they are now 16). then why did he not have a job to support kids. that was wrong and more. but he has been changing but now might have g/f please help me find somone new in my life and be happy again. looking at the house that is 1880 and messy and full of his junk makes me feel like he is coming home. thank you jesus amen |
| Posted by Guest - 06-26-2011 09:06 AM |
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Psalm 143 1 LORD, hear my prayer, listen to my cry for mercy; in your faithfulness and righteousness come to my relief. 2 Do not bring your servant into judgment, for no one living is righteous before you. 3 The enemy pursues me, he crushes me to the ground; he makes me dwell in the darkness like those long dead. 4 So my spirit grows faint within me; my heart within me is dismayed. 5 I remember the days of long ago; I meditate on all your works and consider what your hands have done. 6 I spread out my hands to you; I thirst for you like a parched land. 7 Answer me quickly, LORD; my spirit fails. Do not hide your face from me or I will be like those who go down to the pit. 8 Let the morning bring me word of your unfailing love, for I have put my trust in you. Show me the way I should go, for to you I entrust my life. 9 Rescue me from my enemies, LORD, for I hide myself in you. 10 Teach me to do your will, for you are my God; may your good Spirit lead me on level ground. 11 For your name’s sake, LORD, preserve my life; in your righteousness, bring me out of trouble. 12 In your unfailing love, silence my enemies; destroy all my foes, for I am your servant. Lord show Paul your ways, help her to avoid evil people that will draw her away from you. May she not fall into any addictions with her x-husband, if she has already please deliver her clean from it. Give her strength to resist all temptations when it comes to him and drugs, for both will finish destroying her life for good. Stop him short in doing this to her, let him know that you see it all Lord. That he will have to answer to you someday for everything he has already done to her life and their children, and what he may be trying to now. Have your perfect will be done in their life, and their situation. In Jesus name I pray, amen.
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| Posted by paula0331 - 06-26-2011 05:06 AM |
| crying now i just called tim to hang with him and he may have a g/f dont understand we went out on friday for pizza yesterday went out for a ball game etc. now he is getting ready to hang with new g/f does still want to be friends. i told him u are using me to keep your things in house etc. i told him bring them to new g/f house and leave me alone. i am allowing it as i think he and the kids are coming home kids dont talk to me he uses me etc. i allow it friday he paid for pizza and more miss beinng with him all the fairs and festaviles and car shows and more are coming up i will be alone next week have monday off for fourth of july nothing to do hate being alone help feel l ike i am in hell now |
| Posted by CELENA - 06-26-2011 04:41 AM |
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Paula, because we love God we love you and we will continue praying for your spirit to lift, but you too must do your part. I know isolation, sadness, depression even and all their relatives can feel very lonely, hurtful, seemingly rejectful and things alike. I KNOW IT. But through all that pain, we MUST encourage ourselves as David had to in 1 Samuel 30. We must. We have to find that God-highlit way to encourage our own selves in God; for that is where we find strength, a will and determination to go on. Begin to dwell on the positive things in life and confess those things, abilities, faculties before your God. Begin to praise your Creator God for the manifested things that you DO have in operation in your life right now. Again, we will water you, and offer you SONlight, but the breaking the dirt is something you have to do. I share with you an excerpt from an email devotional I received this morning. "Around the world, many people feel alone—isolated in some way, not because of anything they have done but rather as a consequence of events taking place around them. Our Lord also experienced these feelings and knew the pain of related misunderstanding. But Jesus also knew the Father in such depth and trusted Him with such conviction, those painful circumstances paled in comparison. He was faithful in consistent stewardship of each day, knowing “I am not alone because the Father is with me.” John 16:31-33 Dignity derives from being faithful and faithfulness comes with conviction that the Lord is also faithful; he conveys peace to “out-shout” trials of loneliness and isolation. Wavering in confidence toward the Lord—that He will never leave or forsake us, is precisely the temptation resulting when pressures mount and contradictions come. When I waver, I stop short of the highest mark of what I claim to have heard from the Lord – faith comes by hearing, and hearing is also the way fear comes—by hearing. So don’t panic... You are not alone! Do not fear for your future; fear—not the future, and not your situation—is the troubler of those now facing life-altering possibilities as the whole world shifts geopolitically. In the shift, everything will be shaken; and in the shaking, wrong things tolerated will become more emboldened so your choosing must be truth—no matter what, or you will experience the dominance of something God never intended. No matter what, commit to maintain your dignity in God. Head up, shoulders straight, think clearly – one day at a time! Consider that the Lord has you where you are for His purpose or He has allowed your circumstance to change your purpose. Either way, patiently allow Him to marry the two, His and yours; and be thankful—there is always a fourth man in the furnace! Hebrews 12:26-27 Daniel 3:24-28 Love you girl, now come on - let US get it together. You are not alone!  Amen. |
| Posted by paula0331 - 06-26-2011 03:05 AM |
| still not doing well realize on weekends no friends or family noone calls to ask me to hang with them no life. gym work, and home. sad today |
| Posted by CELENA - 06-25-2011 10:13 AM |
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Father, i agree, in the name of Jesus. Manifest Your most perfect will for her Father, in Jesus name. We speak life to her destiny Father, that she would not faint, nor give up as she waits for the harvest You've promised her all throughout Your Word. We really appreciate You Lord. In Jesus name. Amen. |
| Posted by Guest - 06-25-2011 09:55 AM |
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Heavenly Father help Paula to have her car fixed so she can get to work and the gym, also to do her errands. You know that in her area a car is not a luxury but a must. Help her also through this weekend, you know how lonely she is, but with you at her side you can help her to meet people that can bring joy and companionship into her life, also guide her closer to you. Help her to see beyond her present situation and see how much better you can make her life if she allows you to. We pray this in Jesus name, amen.
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| Posted by LordINeedYouNow - 06-24-2011 07:34 AM |
| Paula, a Pastor once told me to look to Heaven and not at what is happening here on earth because if we focus on what is happening here we will become discouraged and believe what the enemy wants us to, that there is no way things will get better. This is a hard thing to do and Lord knows even with the Pastor telling me this I still get caught up with what is happening here on Earth rather then looking to Heaven but just try it. It does help. Just look to God. None of this is too big for HIM. He's in charge and is blessing you with your prayers being answered. In Jesus Name. Amen. |
| Posted by Guest - 06-23-2011 08:05 PM |
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Paula, Paula the more you tell us about Tim, I can tell you he is a loser and you will become just like him if you keep seeking after him. Please Dear Sister in Christ open up your eyes and see that the best thing that has happened to you is him walking out on you. Lord enlighten Paula and show her the way to you as you give her peace and strength to start anew. Fix her relationship with her twins and help her financially, but not for her to give it to Tim. I pray this in Jesus name, amen. 
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