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Posted by Guest - 11-03-2012 06:29 PM
thank you for your message i have been struggling with this for weeks now everytime i masturbate and immediately after climax i would have this dirty, empty yucky kinda feeling.... and even sometimes i masturbate without any sexual/illicit thoughts or pics.
what kind of prayers would you recommend me to pray to be delivered from sexual immorality....and if i masturbate without any illicit thoughts is this wrong?
Posted by Guest - 01-11-2011 07:03 AM
I thought this was a prayer board not a place for arguments on theology or any of this kind. We supposed to uplift each other not preach nor argue. If you think you are not right with God go to him for guidance and repent of whatever sin you think you have committed then don't do it again.
Posted by Guest - 01-10-2011 08:34 PM
I personally believe this is a very personal topic, for obvious reasons, the subject itself being #1.

The Danger of Shaming this M, as the word is not in the bible, there are groups that God asks not to remarry, those that are divorced that are not free to remarry according to scripture, those that are single & have not yet found a spouse, those that are not of age to marry. We all have CHOICES to make in life. That is why God Gives Free Will.. YES.
We CHOOSE. I would say that fornication IS sin because the bible says it is a sin. Lust IS a sin. Adultrey IS a sin.
M, is not in the bible.
One can turn on the tv & commit, "lust," or walk down the street & lust. It is retraining the self to not lust.
Fornication is a CHOICE. One chooses to fornicate. That's a sin.
Adultrey is obviously sin. It's wrong, Not of God.

I believe this topic is Very personal & as is life in general one must use discretion in their actions & work to please GOD.
Posted by Guest - 01-10-2011 07:56 PM
Better add food & water to your list then because it is making about as much sense. Oh & smoking cigarettes is not a sin (duh).
It's not good for ya but not a sin (difference there!).
People want to shame others when God Gives us the ability to interpret scripture.
Many people head toward sin when they are shamed from making choices that they find fit with their circumstances that are not sins biblically. Those that are strong know the difference but woe to those that lead another to sin by their mis information.
I have to chuckle at those that seem to have their own interpretation of scripture but INSIST EVERYONE have the same.

God Doesn't Work like that. I go to HIM For Answers & I find them.






Guest Wrote:Anything that you allow to take control of your mind and over your body is a sin. Not having control of yourself is not good for your soul, mind, and spirit. The bible does not say anything about smoking cigarettes, pot, and using drug that alters our mind, so do also you think that is not a sin? Come on man stop looking for excuses. Anything that we become addicted to and can't control is not from God, for the only one that wants to control our mind is the evil one. God has given us a free will, but with that free will there is lots of responsibilities and self control that comes along. Someday we will have to answer God why we let the enemy take our free will away from us. Read-bible Jesus-sign
Posted by Guest - 01-10-2011 07:02 PM
Anything that you allow to take control of your mind and over your body is a sin. Not having control of yourself is not good for your soul, mind, and spirit. The bible does not say anything about smoking cigarettes, pot, and using drug that alters our mind, so do also you think that is not a sin? Come on man stop looking for excuses. Anything that we become addicted to and can't control is not from God, for the only one that wants to control our mind is the evil one. God has given us a free will, but with that free will there is lots of responsibilities and self control that comes along. Someday we will have to answer God why we let the enemy take our free will away from us. Read-bible Jesus-sign
Posted by Guest - 01-10-2011 03:51 PM
The word masturbation is not in the bible.

It is not a sin.

Train the mind to love, not lust, it is possible, it takes discipline. Devotion to GOD.





Guest Wrote:Lord help this I'm posting here be of help for those struggling with sexual immorality, and masturbation addiciton to understnad what your word has to say about it. I pray this in Jesus name, amen. Jesus-sign
Matt 5:28-29 (NIV) [Jesus:] "But I tell you that anyone who looks at a woman lustfully has already committed adultery with her in his heart. If your right eye causes you to sin, gouge it out and throw it away. It is better for you to lose one part of your body than for your whole body to be thrown into hell."
But what if no illicit fantasies are included in masturbation? Is the act then sinful? By scripture, there is nothing to indicate that it is. Specifically, if the act is done merely as a hedge against temptation and as the body requires then there is no need for the above sinful "crutches". This is hardly exciting, and a rote act of keeping the body in submission. It cannot be done often, as the body is not that demanding if left alone by a perverted imagination. On the other hand, if we attempt a pent-up self-sex life, then we find that the body needs help from the soul through illicit fantasies, and then sin is clearly being committed.
I hope this is clear. Were it not for our perverted imaginations and lustful sense of expectation, our bodies would not cause us much trouble. It is our minds and hearts that need "treatment". It is like rev-ing an engine near red-line at every traffic signal, and all the time it is running, and then complaining about the eventual engine failure. Sure the thing can rev, but not all the time. It was not made for that.
From Scripture, the line not to be crossed is the line of illicit imagination. And what a line! Minus the sinful fantasies, which are the fuel for most masturbation, all the fun and zest would be taken out of it. Thus, it would no longer be a topic of interest to you or anybody, any more than the act of going to the bathroom. It would be just "doing what was needed" to keep the body from exploding from within.
Ephesians 5:3 But among you there must not be even a hint of sexual immorality, or of any kind of impurity, or of greed, because these are improper for God's holy people.
The important thing is that we live holy before Him, and this is a matter that we should take very seriously. I assume this is why you are interested in this question, because you want to please God by avoiding any kind of sin. And when it comes to sexual sin in the thought-life, in our culture this is an easy temptation to fall into. So care and caution are appropriate as we consider these things and make choices before the Lord.
1 Thessalonians (NIV) For you know what instructions we gave you by the authority of the Lord Jesus. It is God's will that you should be sanctified: that you should avoid sexual immorality; that each of you should learn to control his own body in a way that is holy and honorable, not in passionate lust like the heathen, who do not know God... For God did not call us to be impure, but to live a holy life. Therefore, he who rejects this instruction does not reject man but God, who gives you his Holy Spirit.
Matt 5:28-29 (NIV) [Jesus:] "But I tell you that anyone who looks at a woman lustfully has already committed adultery with her in his heart. If your right eye causes you to sin, gouge it out and throw it away. It is better for you to lose one part of your body than for your whole body to be thrown into hell."
But what if no illicit fantasies are included in masturbation? Is the act then sinful? By scripture, there is nothing to indicate that it is. Specifically, if the act is done merely as a hedge against temptation and as the body requires then there is no need for the above sinful "crutches". This is hardly exciting, and a rote act of keeping the body in submission. It cannot be done often, as the body is not that demanding if left alone by a perverted imagination. On the other hand, if we attempt a pent-up self-sex life, then we find that the body needs help from the soul through illicit fantasies, and then sin is clearly being committed.
I hope this is clear. Were it not for our perverted imaginations and lustful sense of expectation, our bodies would not cause us much trouble. It is our minds and hearts that need "treatment". It is like rev-ing an engine near red-line at every traffic signal, and all the time it is running, and then complaining about the eventual engine failure. Sure the thing can rev, but not all the time. It was not made for that.
From Scripture, the line not to be crossed is the line of illicit imagination. And what a line! Minus the sinful fantasies, which are the fuel for most masturbation, all the fun and zest would be taken out of it. Thus, it would no longer be a topic of interest to you or anybody, any more than the act of going to the bathroom. It would be just "doing what was needed" to keep the body from exploding from within.
Ephesians 5:3 But among you there must not be even a hint of sexual immorality, or of any kind of impurity, or of greed, because these are improper for God's holy people.
The important thing is that we live holy before Him, and this is a matter that we should take very seriously. I assume this is why you are interested in this question, because you want to please God by avoiding any kind of sin. And when it comes to sexual sin in the thought-life, in our culture this is an easy temptation to fall into. So care and caution are appropriate as we consider these things and make choices before the Lord.
1 Thessalonians (NIV) For you know what instructions we gave you by the authority of the Lord Jesus. It is God's will that you should be sanctified: that you should avoid sexual immorality; that each of you should learn to control his own body in a way that is holy and honorable, not in passionate lust like the heathen, who do not know God... For God did not call us to be impure, but to live a holy life. Therefore, he who rejects this instruction does not reject man but God, who gives you his Holy Spirit. Amen
Posted by Guest - 01-10-2011 02:51 PM
Lord help this I'm posting here be of help for those struggling with sexual immorality, and masturbation addiciton to understnad what your word has to say about it. I pray this in Jesus name, amen. Jesus-sign
Matt 5:28-29 (NIV) [Jesus:] "But I tell you that anyone who looks at a woman lustfully has already committed adultery with her in his heart. If your right eye causes you to sin, gouge it out and throw it away. It is better for you to lose one part of your body than for your whole body to be thrown into hell."
But what if no illicit fantasies are included in masturbation? Is the act then sinful? By scripture, there is nothing to indicate that it is. Specifically, if the act is done merely as a hedge against temptation and as the body requires then there is no need for the above sinful "crutches". This is hardly exciting, and a rote act of keeping the body in submission. It cannot be done often, as the body is not that demanding if left alone by a perverted imagination. On the other hand, if we attempt a pent-up self-sex life, then we find that the body needs help from the soul through illicit fantasies, and then sin is clearly being committed.
I hope this is clear. Were it not for our perverted imaginations and lustful sense of expectation, our bodies would not cause us much trouble. It is our minds and hearts that need "treatment". It is like rev-ing an engine near red-line at every traffic signal, and all the time it is running, and then complaining about the eventual engine failure. Sure the thing can rev, but not all the time. It was not made for that.
From Scripture, the line not to be crossed is the line of illicit imagination. And what a line! Minus the sinful fantasies, which are the fuel for most masturbation, all the fun and zest would be taken out of it. Thus, it would no longer be a topic of interest to you or anybody, any more than the act of going to the bathroom. It would be just "doing what was needed" to keep the body from exploding from within.
Ephesians 5:3 But among you there must not be even a hint of sexual immorality, or of any kind of impurity, or of greed, because these are improper for God's holy people.
The important thing is that we live holy before Him, and this is a matter that we should take very seriously. I assume this is why you are interested in this question, because you want to please God by avoiding any kind of sin. And when it comes to sexual sin in the thought-life, in our culture this is an easy temptation to fall into. So care and caution are appropriate as we consider these things and make choices before the Lord.
1 Thessalonians (NIV) For you know what instructions we gave you by the authority of the Lord Jesus. It is God's will that you should be sanctified: that you should avoid sexual immorality; that each of you should learn to control his own body in a way that is holy and honorable, not in passionate lust like the heathen, who do not know God... For God did not call us to be impure, but to live a holy life. Therefore, he who rejects this instruction does not reject man but God, who gives you his Holy Spirit.
Matt 5:28-29 (NIV) [Jesus:] "But I tell you that anyone who looks at a woman lustfully has already committed adultery with her in his heart. If your right eye causes you to sin, gouge it out and throw it away. It is better for you to lose one part of your body than for your whole body to be thrown into hell."
But what if no illicit fantasies are included in masturbation? Is the act then sinful? By scripture, there is nothing to indicate that it is. Specifically, if the act is done merely as a hedge against temptation and as the body requires then there is no need for the above sinful "crutches". This is hardly exciting, and a rote act of keeping the body in submission. It cannot be done often, as the body is not that demanding if left alone by a perverted imagination. On the other hand, if we attempt a pent-up self-sex life, then we find that the body needs help from the soul through illicit fantasies, and then sin is clearly being committed.
I hope this is clear. Were it not for our perverted imaginations and lustful sense of expectation, our bodies would not cause us much trouble. It is our minds and hearts that need "treatment". It is like rev-ing an engine near red-line at every traffic signal, and all the time it is running, and then complaining about the eventual engine failure. Sure the thing can rev, but not all the time. It was not made for that.
From Scripture, the line not to be crossed is the line of illicit imagination. And what a line! Minus the sinful fantasies, which are the fuel for most masturbation, all the fun and zest would be taken out of it. Thus, it would no longer be a topic of interest to you or anybody, any more than the act of going to the bathroom. It would be just "doing what was needed" to keep the body from exploding from within.
Ephesians 5:3 But among you there must not be even a hint of sexual immorality, or of any kind of impurity, or of greed, because these are improper for God's holy people.
The important thing is that we live holy before Him, and this is a matter that we should take very seriously. I assume this is why you are interested in this question, because you want to please God by avoiding any kind of sin. And when it comes to sexual sin in the thought-life, in our culture this is an easy temptation to fall into. So care and caution are appropriate as we consider these things and make choices before the Lord.
1 Thessalonians (NIV) For you know what instructions we gave you by the authority of the Lord Jesus. It is God's will that you should be sanctified: that you should avoid sexual immorality; that each of you should learn to control his own body in a way that is holy and honorable, not in passionate lust like the heathen, who do not know God... For God did not call us to be impure, but to live a holy life. Therefore, he who rejects this instruction does not reject man but God, who gives you his Holy Spirit. Amen