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| Posted by adoring1 - 09-08-2010 01:57 PM |
| You are more than welcome sweet girl...we all have those moments. I will keep you in my prayers...Trust in the Lord! |
| Posted by NEWLIFE - 09-08-2010 01:31 PM |
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Thank you Adoring1 - you see I renewed my relationshipi with the LOrd this past Sunday at a new church and I was told that the Devil would come in full force. Now that I pray more, it seems that my heart, mind and faith is being tested. I must admit this morning I also gave in. I thank you for your honesty and for keeping me focus on the LOrd. I was at peace before but now it is seems everything is coming at once. I will continue to pray and have a faith that the Lord is in control and ask him for peace and to pull my husband towards him. Thank you again. Please continue to pray for my family.  No more tear.
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| Posted by adoring1 - 09-08-2010 10:14 AM |
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Newlife, you are driving yourself over the edge with your anger and upset. Let me ask you this...what good does it do for you to play these things over and over in your mind? Who does it hurt...what good does hate do? Who is miserable because of it? Your hope Newlife is in the Lord...and ONLY in the Lord. You cannot change this man's behavior...you cannot give this woman morals...the only thing you can do is to pray that God will return your husband to Himself so that he can work with him. I know you are hurting...and I know that you feel angry because of your husband's behavior...but after you have felt all of those feelings...then what? Surrender to God...leave this at His feet. Focus on your nursing courses...that you might be able to provide a better life for yourself and your children no matter what else happens. Go to court and get child support arranged...whether you and your husband reconcile or not...he is their Father and should contribute to their support. One has nothing to do with the other. This man cannot be reached now with your desires...he is too busy selfishly meeting his own. Let go of the EROs love for now and pray that he is drawn back to the Father...that the Agape love of God breaks through his sinful state...that the demonic influences that are oppressing him are broken because he will not, cannot be reached in any other way right now...Pray FOR him and not for what you want FROM him and empower God to work. Father God, comfort Newlife in this difficult time and help her to keep her eyes on you! Let her understand that wishing and hoping and crying and being angry will not change anything...only surrendering to your will and you way will sustain her. Let her believe in YOU Father, in your power and in you ability to direct her. Let her not look to this man or any man for what only you can provide. Your word teaches do not trust in mortal men that cannot save...but to put our entire trust in you. Please Father in your mercy...let Newlife come to accept this...to trust you, to have faith in you is the only way to please you! Let her do so that you may calm her spirit and heal her heart. In Jesus name...Amen! |
| Posted by NEWLIFE - 09-08-2010 09:57 AM |
| I really need prayer as I have decided not to call my husband for anything and see if he would initiate a conversation regarding the children or anything. Well, today I need his opinion regarding our 5 year old daugther. I text him to call me which he did, I explained the situation and he told me hold on I will call you back. What annoyed me was that my mind started thinking that he would be asking advise from the other woman and then call me back. Thus, I looked at his cellular usage and saw that she has been calling him everyday, they talk everyday. It is killing me. Then, my husband just text me and gave me his answer instead of talking to me on the phone. I just feel so miserable, how can he leave everything including his children. He does not pay one cent, only stays with them when it is convenient to him. I have been holding off on the child support because, I was thought I wanted my marriage to be resolved. I guess I do, I do not know anymore. I finally found a church that I like, have been praying for his return but I do not know anymore. They did tell at church that now the Devil will be coming full force and I think he is. Please pray for me as I need focus to study for my 1st nursing exam this Monday, I need peace in my heart, need patience and need guidance... I need some kind of hope!!! I need to know that he still cares... THe devil is holding back...I am beginning the hate the other woman that I want to call her and curse her out but that would be lowering myself. What should I do? Show my husband that he will lose everything? He is having his cake and eating it too? PLease pray for me and the children. |
| Posted by stevendanielsen - 08-31-2010 12:53 AM |
| Dear Havenly Father Please answer this person prayer acord to your will and bless there life Lord and we give you all the priase honor and glory in all of this. IN JESUS NAME I PRAY AMEN |
| Posted by adoring1 - 08-30-2010 05:49 PM |
| Father, help Newlife to understand that the attacks on her thoughts are from the enemy...his mission is to kill and destroy and it would be to his liking if you did not focus on your studies...that you just fell apart. When the thoughts come...cover them with scripture...for example...what is my husband going to do...respond with "Get thee behind me Satan" for that is in God's hands. When you think I can never do all of this alone. "I will never leave you or abandon you" so you are not alone...and "I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me." Say them out loud and the enemy will leave you alone for a time...he has to because he cannot stand against God's word. It is important to say them because unlike the Father...the enemy cannot read our thoughts. This may sound a little nutts to you but, it really comes from the word and scientific research has backed it up. If you can, get a copy of the book Who Turned Off My Brain by Dr. Carolyn Leaf...she is a neuroscientist and internationally respected teacher of the word that has done research on this and uses scripture to heal our thought lives...which by the way causes 87% of the diseases of our bodies...which is also proven. Rest in the assurance that God will see you through...stay close to him and focus on him for now...and keep praying that your husband will hear God's voice and return to him. In Jesus name...Amen! |
| Posted by heal_through_prayer - 08-30-2010 04:03 PM |
| Father, give this woman and her children peace. Show her how to put her full trust in You as You continue to work in this marriage. Convict this man's heart, so that he may return to his family and his children that need him. Help newlife concentrate on her schooling and rid her of her worries. Comfort and strengthen her at all times. AMEN. |
| Posted by NEWLIFE - 08-30-2010 01:45 PM |
| Lord, help focus on nursing school as I am so close to the end and I keep thinking about my husband. Please give me patience, calmness and understanding. Please give me the strength to relinquish all my fears and questions to you Lord. I am weak and my mind just keep wondering. I ask for patience especially with my children as they are young and cry for their father's return. Last night, my oldest (5 years old) as she was crying for her father, told me not to tell him to leave the house anymore (which I already did 2 months ago, after I discovered his transgression) and she told me to tell her father that I was sorry that she needed him to come home. PLease pray for me that GOD do speak to my husband heart and make him see that I do love, I ask that GOD work in us and help us see better his love and our blessed we are. PLease calm and reassure my children's heart. AMEN |
| Posted by heal_through_prayer - 08-29-2010 04:49 PM |
| Father, continue to bless this family. Give Newlife the strength she needs to stand for the restoration of her marriage. Help her trust in You, Lord, in everything she does. AMEN |
| Posted by Guest - 08-28-2010 11:07 AM |
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Father in Heaven, Please heal this marriage and bind up all the wounds. Surround this family with you blessings. I ask this in Jesus' name. Amen. |
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