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[quote='kimberly R.M.' pid='141217' dateline='1404442436']
I am a mid 20's female and have been in a complicated relationship with a man for the last 2.5 years. I've always had a lot of faith and hope amiss any circumstance God placed me in (my father passed away young, my mom re-married a "not so kind" guy, i raised 4 of my siblings and still somehow finished school early and earned a job within the DOJ). I never cared much about dating until after college and i always felt i'd know when the right man would come along. Well this man did (I'll call him Yanni) and i just knew I was supposed to marry this man. The reason its complicated is b/c he is very indecisive and goes back and forth with me, one day saying he thinks we should get married and then the following week saying he needs someone else. He told me he's scared to be happy with me b/c im not the woman he pictured himself with (he's of arabic decent but is fully American) and everytime he says he will try he ends up backing away and trying to find a dif. woman. During this time period I have been there for Yanni through thick and thin and don't know what else to do now but pray.

I never knew I could request help through prayers before and just feel i need more prayers then just my own and that this relationship in fact needs a miracle. My request is that Jesus open's Yanni's heart to me, to appreciate me, our situation and accepts who I am without jumping off the boat before he gets on. I ask that Yanni stops questioning me, no longer doubts what he feels towards me and that he is more then willing to treat me the right way. I ask that he comes to a realization about us and that God provide him with a sense of calmness about us and love when he sees me. I ask that he realizes this during this week/month and that God places me as a constant thought in his mind. I ask for God's strength and courage for myself, and that he relieves my stress with this. -Thank you all so much for your prayers, i hope you know how much i truly appreciate it.
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Posted by beth_hager1 - 07-04-2014 01:06 PM

Dear Lord I hold Kimberly up to you and I ask that the desires of her heart and your will for her life to be as one in the same. I hold up Yanni and Lord I ask that he become saved and spirit filled. I don't really know where either one of them are at as it relates to their salvation so I ask this for both of them. I pray that they will both be fully committed to you and that they will become part of a congregation with brothers and sisters walking along side of them and disciplining them. I ask that this will happen before the relationship progresses any further. Lord I pray that they will both realize how much you love them both. I ask this in Jesus name amen.

Posted by kimberly R.M. - 07-03-2014 07:53 PM

I am a mid 20's female and have been in a complicated relationship with a man for the last 2.5 years. I've always had a lot of faith and hope amiss any circumstance God placed me in (my father passed away young, my mom re-married a "not so kind" guy, i raised 4 of my siblings and still somehow finished school early and earned a job within the DOJ). I never cared much about dating until after college and i always felt i'd know when the right man would come along. Well this man did (I'll call him Yanni) and i just knew I was supposed to marry this man. The reason its complicated is b/c he is very indecisive and goes back and forth with me, one day saying he thinks we should get married and then the following week saying he needs someone else. He told me he's scared to be happy with me b/c im not the woman he pictured himself with (he's of arabic decent but is fully American) and everytime he says he will try he ends up backing away and trying to find a dif. woman. During this time period I have been there for Yanni through thick and thin and don't know what else to do now but pray.

I never knew I could request help through prayers before and just feel i need more prayers then just my own and that this relationship in fact needs a miracle. My request is that Jesus open's Yanni's heart to me, to appreciate me, our situation and accepts who I am without jumping off the boat before he gets on. I ask that Yanni stops questioning me, no longer doubts what he feels towards me and that he is more then willing to treat me the right way. I ask that he comes to a realization about us and that God provide him with a sense of calmness about us and love when he sees me. I ask that he realizes this during this week/month and that God places me as a constant thought in his mind. I ask for God's strength and courage for myself, and that he relieves my stress with this. -Thank you all so much for your prayers, i hope you know how much i truly appreciate it.