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My marriage is in the verge of separation.  My husband and I have had so many trials since the day we met up until the day we were married.  We've been lived together for almost 7 years, and of those 2 married.  There has been infidelity, abuse, mentally and physically.  I finally gave up and was weak and looked for the attention and love from an old partner of mine.  My husband found out this February and he said he would forgive me, to leave everything in the past and continue our journey.  That did not last very long, his change started when he started working, his doubts about me started arising more and more.  We are now in December and he has told me he wants divorce, because he is plainly tired of my insecurities.  Yes I am insecure first because he has made me aware he is highly favored amongst women.  He is a very compassionate man and friendly, but with me he is a totally different person.  It's an emotional roller coaster that I am so reluctant in leaving because of our years together.  I don't know what to do, do I trust God yes I do.  But how can a man that I am married with be so cruel and cold and uncaring for me.  All I have ever asked of him, is to be attentive to my needs as a woman.  That if I am insecure not to badger me with his kindness to other women and making me think otherwise.  Tonight after such a long time he got physical with me, I feel so hurt and just plain sad.  He has gone so far to say we are not blessed because of me, we both did wrong to each other.  Have I forgave our past yes, have I overlooked and avoided being insecure yes.  You can see the unhappiness and anger in his face and even the way he carries himself around me.  Father I NEED YOU SO MUCH, I NEED THIS VOID AND HURT TO PASS.  HOW MUCH MORE TIME DO I HAVE TO ENDURE THE FIRE. When is enough, ENOUGH....
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Posted by humbleangie - 12-04-2013 10:57 PM

My marriage is in the verge of separation. My husband and I have had so many trials since the day we met up until the day we were married. We've been lived together for almost 7 years, and of those 2 married. There has been infidelity, abuse, mentally and physically. I finally gave up and was weak and looked for the attention and love from an old partner of mine. My husband found out this February and he said he would forgive me, to leave everything in the past and continue our journey. That did not last very long, his change started when he started working, his doubts about me started arising more and more. We are now in December and he has told me he wants divorce, because he is plainly tired of my insecurities. Yes I am insecure first because he has made me aware he is highly favored amongst women. He is a very compassionate man and friendly, but with me he is a totally different person. It's an emotional roller coaster that I am so reluctant in leaving because of our years together. I don't know what to do, do I trust God yes I do. But how can a man that I am married with be so cruel and cold and uncaring for me. All I have ever asked of him, is to be attentive to my needs as a woman. That if I am insecure not to badger me with his kindness to other women and making me think otherwise. Tonight after such a long time he got physical with me, I feel so hurt and just plain sad. He has gone so far to say we are not blessed because of me, we both did wrong to each other. Have I forgave our past yes, have I overlooked and avoided being insecure yes. You can see the unhappiness and anger in his face and even the way he carries himself around me. Father I NEED YOU SO MUCH, I NEED THIS VOID AND HURT TO PASS. HOW MUCH MORE TIME DO I HAVE TO ENDURE THE FIRE. When is enough, ENOUGH....