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Posted by Guest - 10-29-2011 06:16 PM
Dear God, there is nothing impossible with you. I place Jessica before you right now. Jesus, the devil is a liar and i ask that you come through for her in this situation. Let your will be done in her life and give her strength that she never knew she had. Help her to prevail and let your name be glorified dear Jesus.

Thanks for answered prayers dear God. You never fail.
Posted by hiswill4me - 04-28-2009 11:06 PM
Satan I rebuke you in the name of Jesus you are behind this and I see you for who you are .flesh you must go self you must die and submit to God. father God i ask YOu to touch this man and women right now in the of Jesus if they are true Christians to see its the devil and he is a deceiver. its just an attack and we bound it back to hell itsself. I thank you in advance for saving these marriages and couples in Jesus name.

Stand on the word and your faith and let me know you when he come home God Bless!
Posted by guest - 04-28-2009 03:00 PM
Lord, feel our pain. I too have a broken marriage. Lord thank You for the oppertunity to bring this problem before You, so you can get the glory for healing this seemingly helpless situation. Lord, they said "Til death do us part" they want to mean it. Help them love You more than eachother, and eachother more than anyone or anything else. Help us bring these two souls into your presence today Lord. Make them one like You are three in one. Help them to hear eachother, support eachother, cheerish eachother, and serve eachother, so they would both love you more and they can bring You glory. Amen
Posted by kyle - 04-16-2009 01:46 AM
One thing that's very helpful is to remember that it's not your husband saying the hurtful things. He's under the influence of the evil one and God is allowing it to happen so that He can do a work in your life. Trust me - I know from experience just how painful the words that your husband is saying are to you. I don't think that anyone who hasn't gone through the same experience really understands just how painful it is to hear your "one flesh" say those things to you. Even though I've known for years that it wasn't really her saying those things, that knowledge has taken years to get from my head to my heart (so to speak). It's only been recently that I've really taken hold of that truth and the words have lost a lot of their sting. If you can grasp that truth faster than I did, you will be at a much better (and less hurtful) place.
Posted by Guest - 04-15-2009 08:44 AM
kyle Wrote:
Guest Wrote:
kyle Wrote:I know what it's like to be in your situation. I've been faithful to God and to my wife for 8 years now despite her wanting out. She moved out (again) last year, but God has blessed me and I know that He will restore things in His time and has shown me that again and again.

If you need encouragement, look up Rejoice Marriage Ministries from Bob and Cheryl Steinkamp and read some of their stuff.

Do u really believe that God's will is not for divorce but for the marriage to work out?Can a miracle really happen?Ive been praying but well,things got worse.

I believe that He is certainly able to. Read the story of Lazarus being raised from the dead and remember that Jesus intentionally delayed His arrival so that Lazarus would die so that He could show His awesome power. He could very well be doing the same thing in your situation. In all honesty, I know to you your situation seems hopeless, but in reality your situation is not much different than the ones I have read about in testimonies of marriage restoration. I suggest you go to the Rejoice Ministries web page I mentioned above and look for the book "Prodigals Do Come Home." It's written by the husband of the couple who run that ministry who was once in the shoes of your husband. He was abusive and an adulterer and was making "wedding" plans with the other woman (I put wedding in quotes because according to Jesus, it's not a marriage), but God touched his heart and sent him home and now he leads a marriage restoration ministry with his wife. While I am encourage by her words, I really get the most out of his books and devotionals because it gives me a bit of a glimpse into what's going through my wife's head. Also there was another website that I was directed to just today that I think could be beneficial to you (and since I don't believe in coincidences, I think you should check it out). http://www.encouragingbookstore.com/BooksForWomen.html - in particular the three (free) ebooks on the top row. I've read through most of the versions of those books for men and I can tell you that they are valuable reads (and I'm assuming the versions for women are just as encouraging). I can't vouch for everything else on the page though but that's mostly because whenever I see books promising "the abundant life" or books about tithing, I'm cautious. They may be great books, but I can't recommend them without reading them ffor myself first though. The top three though, I definitely recommend.

http://www.encouragingwomen.org/index.ph...Itemid=124

And for the record, before I finish this post, I want to say that I do very much believe that God heals hurting marriages, but I know from experience that He does so on HIS timetable, not ours. It is possible that these next few days, weeks, months or even years may be a supreme test of your faith and patience like you've never had before. If you walk with the Lord during that time, you will come out stronger no matter what happens in your marriage. I've been waiting 8 years (and counting) for my miracle, but I know that it's going to happen someday.

OK, one more thing. I also found this site today and absolutely love it. This guy gets it. He completely, 100% just gets it - http://www.i-love-you-kenisha.com/reply.php

I hope that wasn't too long winded. I tend to be a "why say in 5 words what you can say in 100" type of guy.

Bless

Thanks so much for your encouragement and the websites given.I will go into it and continue to pray for this marriage.
Posted by kyle - 04-10-2009 01:20 AM
Guest Wrote:
kyle Wrote:I know what it's like to be in your situation. I've been faithful to God and to my wife for 8 years now despite her wanting out. She moved out (again) last year, but God has blessed me and I know that He will restore things in His time and has shown me that again and again.

If you need encouragement, look up Rejoice Marriage Ministries from Bob and Cheryl Steinkamp and read some of their stuff.

Do u really believe that God's will is not for divorce but for the marriage to work out?Can a miracle really happen?Ive been praying but well,things got worse.

I believe that He is certainly able to. Read the story of Lazarus being raised from the dead and remember that Jesus intentionally delayed His arrival so that Lazarus would die so that He could show His awesome power. He could very well be doing the same thing in your situation. In all honesty, I know to you your situation seems hopeless, but in reality your situation is not much different than the ones I have read about in testimonies of marriage restoration. I suggest you go to the Rejoice Ministries web page I mentioned above and look for the book "Prodigals Do Come Home." It's written by the husband of the couple who run that ministry who was once in the shoes of your husband. He was abusive and an adulterer and was making "wedding" plans with the other woman (I put wedding in quotes because according to Jesus, it's not a marriage), but God touched his heart and sent him home and now he leads a marriage restoration ministry with his wife. While I am encourage by her words, I really get the most out of his books and devotionals because it gives me a bit of a glimpse into what's going through my wife's head. Also there was another website that I was directed to just today that I think could be beneficial to you (and since I don't believe in coincidences, I think you should check it out). http://www.encouragingbookstore.com/BooksForWomen.html - in particular the three (free) ebooks on the top row. I've read through most of the versions of those books for men and I can tell you that they are valuable reads (and I'm assuming the versions for women are just as encouraging). I can't vouch for everything else on the page though but that's mostly because whenever I see books promising "the abundant life" or books about tithing, I'm cautious. They may be great books, but I can't recommend them without reading them ffor myself first though. The top three though, I definitely recommend.

http://www.encouragingwomen.org/index.ph...Itemid=124

And for the record, before I finish this post, I want to say that I do very much believe that God heals hurting marriages, but I know from experience that He does so on HIS timetable, not ours. It is possible that these next few days, weeks, months or even years may be a supreme test of your faith and patience like you've never had before. If you walk with the Lord during that time, you will come out stronger no matter what happens in your marriage. I've been waiting 8 years (and counting) for my miracle, but I know that it's going to happen someday.

OK, one more thing. I also found this site today and absolutely love it. This guy gets it. He completely, 100% just gets it - http://www.i-love-you-kenisha.com/reply.php

I hope that wasn't too long winded. I tend to be a "why say in 5 words what you can say in 100" type of guy.

Bless
Posted by Guest - 04-10-2009 12:50 AM
kyle Wrote:I know what it's like to be in your situation. I've been faithful to God and to my wife for 8 years now despite her wanting out. She moved out (again) last year, but God has blessed me and I know that He will restore things in His time and has shown me that again and again.

If you need encouragement, look up Rejoice Marriage Ministries from Bob and Cheryl Steinkamp and read some of their stuff.

Do u really believe that God's will is not for divorce but for the marriage to work out?Can a miracle really happen?Ive been praying but well,things got worse.
Posted by kyle - 04-09-2009 07:38 PM
I know what it's like to be in your situation. I've been faithful to God and to my wife for 8 years now despite her wanting out. She moved out (again) last year, but God has blessed me and I know that He will restore things in His time and has shown me that again and again.

If you need encouragement, look up Rejoice Marriage Ministries from Bob and Cheryl Steinkamp and read some of their stuff.
Posted by Guest - 04-09-2009 07:05 PM
I'm beginning to think its a joke when i saw the ornaments given to me during wedding that what God hath put together,let no man separate.There were so many signs and signals from God that led to the marriage.I'm not sure whether now God wants me to proceed with the divorce or is this a true test of "for better for worse.."This is the worst case scenario already.I'm really lost....
Posted by mariarae - 04-09-2009 05:20 AM
Never give up on Jesus, he wants only whats best for you, and this unborn child, may just be Gods way of letting you start brand new.
Dear Lord comfort your hurting child, help her to make the decisions that are right for her, and Glorify you.
In your loving name
Amen
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