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| Posted by ra_millsap@sbcglobal.net - 12-30-2007 10:48 PM |
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I am requesting prayer for a problem that has been evident off and on all of my childhood and adult life. My sister who is 3 years, younger than I, as long as I can remember, has always had a complex personality, but I always thought, well this is what she does to make sure of her own sense of security in her life. At one time, she had been a VP at one of the major bank's here in Chicago, which caused her to make tough decisions at times, which she held for 10 years in Corporate America. Since then her marriage resolved seven years ago, when her husband announced he had been angry at her for seventeen years and wanted a divorce. My sister had made him and the son they adopted her world. When she called me to inform me of his decision, there were tears shared as we talked for hours. Since that time, my sister has went on to pursue higher education, and received her doctural last week. My family had came from Pennsylvania and Tennessee, to join in the celebration at a banquet hall, since she will not receive her diploma until the Spring of 08. My husband, my self and the rest of my family all met at my sister's home, during the four days of family members from out of town, sharing food, talk and much laughter. During our growing up years, my sister would often comment I was the "pretty one", and she was not, to this I would say well we came from the same mother and father, yet over the years many of the things verbally spoken that took place, I would overlook, until the day family members left Chicago, November 25, I will never forget that day. My husband turned to give my sister a kiss on her cheek, which was a kind of tradition over the years, when he said she had turned her face to meet his which would have meant a kiss. He told me he quickly went around her lips and kissed her on her cheek, as he always did, she pucked her lips and made a kiss gesture twice, when my husband thought this was different. Monday morning at 10:37 a.m., my sister called me and asked me to inform my husband that it is improper to try and kiss her on her mouth. I was so shocked, I immediately informed my husband that my sister claims he conducted hisself inappropriately. He was so shocked, that he called her, at first she did not answer the phone, the second call he asked her why she had accused him wrongly. She was so angry she hung up on him. Usually we share Christmas together, this Christmas there was only a call, no visiting. Also our daughter had attempted to borrow a small loan for a emergency, which my sister talked to her so crudely, my daughter got financial assistance elsewhere. Please pray for this situation, my husband is sad, but being her sister, I am devastated beyond belief. I keep asking myself why. Thank you. |