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today has been a very hard day but i knew this day would come but i dont ever think that you can be prepared for your marriage ending but mine has my husband has asked for a divorce and its due to my problems i have caused by lying to him i came into this relationship as a promiscuous girl i had alot of issues growing up where my father was on drugs and my mother would turn her anger she had for my father towards me i was told i wouldnt be anything and that i was like my father and that caused me to turn to sex and it carried over into my marriage cause something i had not delt with in my childhood and because i was always bottleing up my feelings it is something i do now but my lies of sleeping with people while married has come back where i had to tell the things i have done not once but many times it had been brought up but i chose to lie about it and i cant blame my husband for questioning why he ever married me and feeling like im a whore but i have to accept the consequences of my lies and accept the fact its over but i ask for prayer in this hard time of my life and i ask that you pray for marvin to and my kids i called for counseling for myself cause i nolonger want to be that person i keep reverting back too and i pray for total deliverance pls pray for us be blessed

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09-02-2009 04:13 PM
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Hi mrs1midgette,

I will be praying for you and I hope you know God loves you and cares for you and He wouldn't have sacrificed His own son had he not. You are going to be okay!

Blessings to you and your family,
Cheryl
09-02-2009 06:08 PM
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Dear Jesus,

Heal your daughters pain. Comfort her and bring healing to her husbands heart Lord.

Lord, give them both the words to say and before any permanent decision is made Lord, help them both look to you to be their Father, Teacher and the one who will guide both of their hearts into your everlasting ways.

In your precious name, I pray Lord Jesus.

Amen.

" No matter what happens in life, God already told us the ending ! "
09-02-2009 07:03 PM
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Dear Hurting,I pray for your strength, and comfort. Also I pray for all of those touched by this situation. First thing is that you recognize that prayer works. God is pleased that you are calling on him. Be encouraged and forgive yourself, your mother and father. Ask your husband for forgiveness and let God work out the rest. Continue to call on the lord. I too am married for 3 years, and it has been one hurting pain. Bless you.
09-02-2009 09:09 PM
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LORD BE HER STRENGHT..CARRY HER FATHER AND I PLEAD THE PRECIOUS BLOOD OF JESUS OVER HER AND HER FAMILY..LORD LET YOUR LOVING STRONG ARMS BE HER HAVEN AND LORD THAT YOU WOULD KEEP ALL AWAY FROM HER THAT WOULD HURT HER OR DISTURB HER IN ANY WAY AS YOU BRING HER THROUGH THE FIRE..BURN SHE WILL NOT...WATER SHE WILL NOT DROWN...WIND SHE WILL NOT BE MOVED FROM YOUR MIGHTY STRONGS ARMS..PSALM 23
BRING HER FATHER TO THAT DAUGHTER YOU WANT HER TO BE...
LET HER KNOW HOW MUCH YOU LOVE HER .
TURN ALL THIS AROUND LORD TO YOUR GLORY AND PRAISE..NOTHING IS IMPOSSIBLE FOR YOU. HELP HER TO TAKE ONE STEP AT A TIME FOR INDEED IN YOUR TIME SHE WILL BE A SPOTLESS BRIDE SHINNING AS A DIAMOND..IN JESUS NAME LORD I THANK YOU FOR LOVING US SO MUCH, IT IS BEYOND OUR UNDERSTANDING BUT LOVE US YOU DO THANK YOU JESUS..THANK YOU..Heart...Heart..Heart
09-02-2009 09:35 PM
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Cheryl Wrote:Hi mrs1midgette,

I will be praying for you and I hope you know God loves you and cares for you and He wouldn't have sacrificed His own son had he not. You are going to be okay!

Blessings to you and your family,
Cheryl

thank you for praying for me pls continue to keep me in prayer these issues i carry sometimes get so heavy and it hurts my heart that i sometimes want to die but i try to keep going for my children but i pray that god will deliver me from these issues and burdens and remove the people that are in my life that constantly put me down and keep reminding me of my past mistakes and continue to tell me that i am nothing more then a whore that has no education and that im just a waste and to hear that constantly repeated over and over in my head makes a person want to end it all cause you start to believe it and just talking about it now makes me want to cry i know i have done alot of things in my life time but to literally make someone feel like nothing i never have done that i like to help more than hurt and even then i had been taking advantage of but it didnt change the fact that that is what i do help but ifeel that all these people that surround me that only bring me down i just wish they would go away cause its doing something to me where i dont know who i am cause im believing that the things they say are me and it hurts but again thank you for praying for me sorry for venting again but pls keep me in prayer cause its so bad that i never know when that day will be that i do end it cause the hurt is too much to live life with

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09-03-2009 09:19 AM
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byhisgrace7 Wrote:Dear Jesus,

Heal your daughters pain. Comfort her and bring healing to her husbands heart Lord.

Lord, give them both the words to say and before any permanent decision is made Lord, help them both look to you to be their Father, Teacher and the one who will guide both of their hearts into your everlasting ways.

In your precious name, I pray Lord Jesus.

Amen.

the attitude that you have while in the wilderness determines how long you stay there
09-03-2009 09:21 AM
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mrs1midgette Wrote:
byhisgrace7 Wrote:Dear Jesus,

Heal your daughters pain. Comfort her and bring healing to her husbands heart Lord.

Lord, give them both the words to say and before any permanent decision is made Lord, help them both look to you to be their Father, Teacher and the one who will guide both of their hearts into your everlasting ways.

In your precious name, I pray Lord Jesus.

Amen.
thank you for praying for me pls continue to keep me in prayer these issues i carry sometimes get so heavy and it hurts my heart that i sometimes want to die but i try to keep going for my children but i pray that god will deliver me from these issues and burdens and remove the people that are in my life that constantly put me down and keep reminding me of my past mistakes and continue to tell me that i am nothing more then a whore that has no education and that im just a waste and to hear that constantly repeated over and over in my head makes a person want to end it all cause you start to believe it and just talking about it now makes me want to cry i know i have done alot of things in my life time but to literally make someone feel like nothing i never have done that i like to help more than hurt and even then i had been taking advantage of but it didnt change the fact that that is what i do help but ifeel that all these people that surround me that only bring me down i just wish they would go away cause its doing something to me where i dont know who i am cause im believing that the things they say are me and it hurts but again thank you for praying for me sorry for venting again but pls keep me in prayer cause its so bad that i never know when that day will be that i do end it cause the hurt is too much to live life with

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09-03-2009 09:22 AM
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abbie Wrote:LORD BE HER STRENGHT..CARRY HER FATHER AND I PLEAD THE PRECIOUS BLOOD OF JESUS OVER HER AND HER FAMILY..LORD LET YOUR LOVING STRONG ARMS BE HER HAVEN AND LORD THAT YOU WOULD KEEP ALL AWAY FROM HER THAT WOULD HURT HER OR DISTURB HER IN ANY WAY AS YOU BRING HER THROUGH THE FIRE..BURN SHE WILL NOT...WATER SHE WILL NOT DROWN...WIND SHE WILL NOT BE MOVED FROM YOUR MIGHTY STRONGS ARMS..PSALM 23
BRING HER FATHER TO THAT DAUGHTER YOU WANT HER TO BE...
LET HER KNOW HOW MUCH YOU LOVE HER .
TURN ALL THIS AROUND LORD TO YOUR GLORY AND PRAISE..NOTHING IS IMPOSSIBLE FOR YOU. HELP HER TO TAKE ONE STEP AT A TIME FOR INDEED IN YOUR TIME SHE WILL BE A SPOTLESS BRIDE SHINNING AS A DIAMOND..IN JESUS NAME LORD I THANK YOU FOR LOVING US SO MUCH, IT IS BEYOND OUR UNDERSTANDING BUT LOVE US YOU DO THANK YOU JESUS..THANK YOU..Heart...Heart..Heart

thank you for praying for me pls continue to keep me in prayer these issues i carry sometimes get so heavy and it hurts my heart that i sometimes want to die but i try to keep going for my children but i pray that god will deliver me from these issues and burdens and remove the people that are in my life that constantly put me down and keep reminding me of my past mistakes and continue to tell me that i am nothing more then a whore that has no education and that im just a waste and to hear that constantly repeated over and over in my head makes a person want to end it all cause you start to believe it and just talking about it now makes me want to cry i know i have done alot of things in my life time but to literally make someone feel like nothing i never have done that i like to help more than hurt and even then i had been taking advantage of but it didnt change the fact that that is what i do help but ifeel that all these people that surround me that only bring me down i just wish they would go away cause its doing something to me where i dont know who i am cause im believing that the things they say are me and it hurts but again thank you for praying for me sorry for venting again but pls keep me in prayer cause its so bad that i never know when that day will be that i do end it cause the hurt is too much to live life with

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09-03-2009 09:22 AM
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abbie Wrote:LORD BE HER STRENGHT..CARRY HER FATHER AND I PLEAD THE PRECIOUS BLOOD OF JESUS OVER HER AND HER FAMILY..LORD LET YOUR LOVING STRONG ARMS BE HER HAVEN AND LORD THAT YOU WOULD KEEP ALL AWAY FROM HER THAT WOULD HURT HER OR DISTURB HER IN ANY WAY AS YOU BRING HER THROUGH THE FIRE..BURN SHE WILL NOT...WATER SHE WILL NOT DROWN...WIND SHE WILL NOT BE MOVED FROM YOUR MIGHTY STRONGS ARMS..PSALM 23
BRING HER FATHER TO THAT DAUGHTER YOU WANT HER TO BE...
LET HER KNOW HOW MUCH YOU LOVE HER .
TURN ALL THIS AROUND LORD TO YOUR GLORY AND PRAISE..NOTHING IS IMPOSSIBLE FOR YOU. HELP HER TO TAKE ONE STEP AT A TIME FOR INDEED IN YOUR TIME SHE WILL BE A SPOTLESS BRIDE SHINNING AS A DIAMOND..IN JESUS NAME LORD I THANK YOU FOR LOVING US SO MUCH, IT IS BEYOND OUR UNDERSTANDING BUT LOVE US YOU DO THANK YOU JESUS..THANK YOU..Heart...Heart..Heart
thank you for praying for me pls continue to keep me in prayer these issues i carry sometimes get so heavy and it hurts my heart that i sometimes want to die but i try to keep going for my children but i pray that god will deliver me from these issues and burdens and remove the people that are in my life that constantly put me down and keep reminding me of my past mistakes and continue to tell me that i am nothing more then a whore that has no education and that im just a waste and to hear that constantly repeated over and over in my head makes a person want to end it all cause you start to believe it and just talking about it now makes me want to cry i know i have done alot of things in my life time but to literally make someone feel like nothing i never have done that i like to help more than hurt and even then i had been taking advantage of but it didnt change the fact that that is what i do help but ifeel that all these people that surround me that only bring me down i just wish they would go away cause its doing something to me where i dont know who i am cause im believing that the things they say are me and it hurts but again thank you for praying for me sorry for venting again but pls keep me in prayer cause its so bad that i never know when that day will be that i do end it cause the hurt is too much to live life with

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09-03-2009 09:23 AM
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