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Prayer for my children

Please pray for my children....to try to summarize a long detailed problem is hard..but the short of long is that I was married for 10 years to who I thought was a great husband and father...last year I learned that he was not only unfaithful (had profiles on websites) but also had a cocaine habit. I took our two beautiful children and left our home and tried to get him to go to christian counseling and rehab (we were both very active in our church) and he refused.
A year later, I am over $15,000 dollars in debt trying to keep my children safe and away from him (he got a DUI while my kids were in the car with him, and has been charged with beating up his new girlfriend) My life has spun out of control, but I know God has a plan...we are going to court this month to finalize a divorce he filed for, and to settle custody and child support. He had his lawyer put in papers to give up his parental rights if I agree to no back child support, present or future financial obligations to our children. I am blown away! I keep thinking he will hit rock bottom and look up and realize the devil is deceiving him and repent, but he slips further and further away, my priority now is trying to save my children. Please pray that Gods will be done...that I can help keep them safe both physically and emotionally, and that I can provide for them finanically. I am just heartbroken! Their dad use to be involved in their sports, school and in our church...
09-02-2010 12:27 PM
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Lord, build a hedge around this mother and her 2 children and keep them safe from harm. Thank you Lord for you give your mighty angels special charge over them to keep them in all your ways. No evil will behalf them, no accident will overtake them, no plague or calamity will come near them. Lord, you are the God of more than enough, please provide for and restore the finances of this mother, who needs to provide for her 2 precious little ones in this time of crisis. Lord, we, who are believers of Christ, are already the righteousness of You in Christ! Your Word says, that if we walk and be established in Jesus' righteousness, oppression be far from us! So I pray that oppression be far, far away from this mother, in Jesus' name! You Lord, are all mighty and powerful! Your Word says that You leave your Shalom (well-being, health and prosperity) to be bequeathed to us, not as the world gives, so I bind this spirit of fear, worry, anxiety in her and I pray that she let not her heart be troubled or afraid.

Everything is possible, with You! If it is your will, turn this father around, wake him up and open his heart to love and rebuild again. I also pray that the spirit of forgiveness will work its way in the hearts of all of them. In Jesus' name, I pray, amen!
09-02-2010 01:16 PM
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Dear Havenly Father The Kingdom come thy will be done on earth as it is in Heaven forgive us are sin's as we for give thow's who sin aginst and forgive debt as we forgive are debtor and lead us not into temptiation but deliver us from evil Please answer this person prayer acord to your will and bless there life Lord and we give you all the priase honor and glory in all of this. IN JESUS NAME I PRAY AMEN.

Sincerly: Steven Danielsen
John 14:14 If you ask Me anything in My name, I will do it.
09-02-2010 01:20 PM
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Father, please help this woman to understand what she is dealing with. This is evil incarnate that has taken over her husband. This is a man who is being influenced by spiritual wickedness and powers and principalities in high places. While the marriage may well be over please teach her how to pray to get this man out from under bondage. There may be some references in the material below that might help. Let her forgive this man...that she might be FREE and love his in an Agape manner despite his failings. Father draw her close to you and comfort her...assist her with this debt...and protect from the enemy always.

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Thank you for the realization given this morning about how we pray about our troubled marriages. How I wish I had understood this some years ago when I was praying for my own. Forgive me for praying so selfishly then about what I wanted my ex-husband to do while he was caught up in adultery because of my own broken heart, my EROS love for him and my own pain and desires...that I missed the true mark. Perhaps the growth you have provided over these last 8 years can help others? I pray that it will...and I pray that earnest prayers, from many prayer warriors to reclaim those that have strayed from God will bring movement in many hearts... some of stone and some that are broken... and repair to many homes on the verge of collapse.

Speak life into these marriages. Turn hearts away from fraudulent partners and back to those to whom vows of fidelity were made. Give this husband or wife a rock solid understanding of what he/she is dealing with. This is not a battle with people who influence, other women or other men; it is one against spiritual wickedness among powers and principalities in high places...there is oppression operating against this wife or husband from these powers and principalities to turn their free will against God. They may not recognize it, but as I pray, this is what I am led to say. For the husband or wife of one who has strayed, I pray that he/she understands that there can be no breakthrough until this spouse is right with God. It is not about them loving in an EROS way this spouse they have left behind or the person with whom they are currently involved. It is not about them returning to this marriage or staying in an unholy relationship...rather it is about their returning to a relationship with Christ. Unless and until they recognize that they are in opposition to the Lord...His will and His ways...there will be no change in the current outcome and in fact it may become worse. This fallen spouse believes that their actions are right...okay...in their sight. They believe it as strongly as the one who has been left behind and wants reconciliation believes. He/she has been convinced by this evil oppression that what he/she is doing is somehow justified. As long as this husband/wife who has been left continues the quest, even in prayer for EROS love as their focus...there will be no change in the behavior of the other. By definition EROS love is that which is fueled by selfish desire...we want those we love to love us back, to share intimacy with us and us only...and this is both natural and human and ultimately what God intends in the marriage relationship...but the need within the one that has strayed that will return HIM or HER to righteousness is for AGAPE love to return...loving themselves as God loves them, loving their spouses as God loves them also...continuance of marriage is NOT a condition for AGAPE love...nothing is...it is unconditional. When we pray in this circumstance...we can and should pray for the return of this straying partner to their marriage...but first things first, as our God does things decently and in order. Let us pray for a return of the straying spouse to God...to His principles, to reverence for Him. When we revere God we cannot go against his ways. The heart of stone that currently exists in the breast of the one who is unfaithful is because their conscience has been seared...and continuance of this is exactly what the enemy wants. Let us bombard heaven with prayers to bring the unfaithful ones back to Jesus...let us ask for them to see themselves through the eyes of Jesus...let us ask that they see how HIS spirit is grieved because of their actions, not our own grief...let us ask for them to see that they are throwing His love, His sacrifice out the window due to their own quest for EROs which can and will bring chaos and destruction into their lives and those in their families... as it already has. These unfaithful husbands and wives are beyond the reach of what their spouses want right now...they no longer care about it...they are deeply engaged in her their own selfish quests to have what THEY want. But they are not beyond the reach of God. Let us pray with all our might that those who have broken their vows fall in love with Jesus again! If they do...if they get back into God's order...the order of the decency of God...their free will can be directed again by the Lord of Hosts...and their return to their marriages, where they belong can again become possible. This I believe...and it is this I pray. In Jesus name...Amen!
09-02-2010 01:28 PM
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Dear Lord,please have mercy on this mom and her children.
In the Name of the Lord,right now I command to all the power of darkness and the curses to leave this mom and her children! Now!
I pray that Your will to be done in their lives.
You are the King of kings and Your Name is Wonderful.
Thank You my Lord

Warrior Blessed and holy are those who share in the first resurrection.For them the second death holds no power, but they will be priests of God and of Christ and will reign with him a thousand years.
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