Again, I am not offended and I hope you are not either...but understand this...all people have some good qualities, however the ones that are disrespectful should not be tolerated because they have others. Men are by design people who chase after those that they have not won over...when we allow them to treat us as though we do not matter...we do little to command their respect. I do not judge this young man as a good or a bad person...I simply look at the behavior that you describe and consider what that means...and because I am not involved in the circumstance, I think I can be objective. I pray that whatever you do...you remember who you are in Christ Jesus and command from all you interact with the level of respect that this is due and give it to others also...as you clearly do. Be blessed. In Jesus name...Amen!