:-) You have not offended me in any way...and of course my greatest concern is his salvation which I pray the Lord leads him to very soon. I also know that you know your situation better than I do as you are living it everyday. However...I have 3 brothers...two are step brothers but we grew into adulthood together. One of them was very much the way you describe this young man when he was young...and he was unable to break this pattern and lost two wives because of it. Most of those relationships were true friendships...but sadly as time went on some were not and became more than they should have been. He simply felt more comfortable in the company of woman...which when he was young he would not admit...but as he got older and struggled to become saved he realized. He too had few male friends but as he got older after 2 divorces he tried his best to develop them and became successful in doing so. What I am saying is that you know your situation as it appears to you now...time will lead you to understand more, if it is in God's will...but for now, let us pray that his young man be moved to know the Lord...to ask for salvation that he might allow Jesus to grow his life. In Jesus name...Amen!