If he is not saved, you are unequally yoked with this man.
I pray you will be strong & find peace remembering that God is our Spouse, we are never alone.

Guest Wrote:The man you speak of, if he is truely a Christian may not be spiritually mature. I believe that a man that is ready to marry is not dishonest, but walks steadily & upright. Read proverbs if you are concerned of his treatment. A true Christian has walked in the desert of life & matures. Someone not mature in Christ will often side step difficulty, seeking only that which is pleasing to themselves.
Remain strong in Christ & you will not have to worry, live by HIS WORD & listen to HIS VOICE.

Guest Wrote:I fell in love with a man, who is not saved and who eventually did not return feelings for me. In the beginning, we had mutual feelings for one another and it seemed as though we were headed towards a relationship. He went to church with me twice throughout our time together and we have been good friends through all of this. However, at one point, his feelings for me changed and he no longer wanted to become my boyfriend. He says he wants to remain friends, but that at times has been one-sided, although I believe he still cares for me (that could be due to the fact that he doesn't want to lead me on). My prayer is that God would open the door to his life for salvation and that his heart would be softened to receive Christ as his personal savior. I also pray for myself to fall in love with the man God would have me to be with, whether it is the man I am currently in love with or not. Without God, I know that it is impossible to be with him and I am trying to let go, although it is the most difficult thing I think I have ever had to do. I want to be his friend, but I have to back off to keep from continuing on in constant pain. I pray that God would intervene, give him direction in his life, and give him a wake-up call so that he does not end up losing his soul or the quality of life that God has planned for him. I especially pray for peace to continue to abound in my heart, as the Lord has been with me in my prayers thus far. I just pray to heal, to find what God wants for me, and that He can take care of the rest--that He can make something good from what has been a bad situation. Thank you for your prayers and support.