Please pray for my marriage. My husband and I live like brother and sister. There is no and has never been any chemistry between us. when he gives me a kiss it is like a friend and he drools on me. He is impotent and has some hangups that he will not talk about. I thin he could have been molested or verbal berated from his former wife. We have been married for a long time. He used to try but gave up a long time ago. He refuses ****. He does provide me with security, but that is about all. I stay because we are christians. I love him, but am not in love with him. I have withdrawn and given up. He regects me if I ask for initmacy. Even if we were to be intimate he has always been inept. He cannot stay erect of finish the job. There is no romance or joy in him. He is a workaholic. It is like he is emotionally handicaped. There is no hope for me but to live together as siblings until we both die. I can live without sex. I cannot live without intimacy. I am withering away without love.