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Rebuilding relationship
I have been praying for restoration of my relationship. I have been blessed to see how God is working in the areas of communication and appreciation, and thankful that they will continue to increase. I pray for increases in commitment and openness as well. I know that God blesses unity, and I feel like I am getting attacked lately because we are moving closer to unity. I feel like the devil is trying his tactics to try to distract me since he isn't getting through to him right now (please continue to pray for him to come closer to God and not fall prey to the tactics of the devil.) I ran into someone that I used to date the other day, someone was trying to set me up on a date, and someone who had been trying to get me to go out has started contacting me again. I know that things aren't perfect and work is being done to rebuild the relationship. I think that going out with someone else would only tear that down, and I know that God didn't bring me this far with the restoration of this relationship to leave me here or for me to leave now. Please pray that the weapons formed against both of us are rendered useless and fall away.
09-04-2010 08:44 PM
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Dear Havenly Father The Kingdom come thy will be done on earth as it is in Heaven forgive us are sin as we for give are debtor and lead us not into temptiation but deliver us from evil Please answer this person prayer acord to your will and bless there life Lord and we give you all the priase honor and glory in all of this. IN JESUS NAME I PRAY AMEN.

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John 14:14 If you ask Me anything in My name, I will do it.
09-04-2010 09:04 PM
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Father...thank you for this beautiful spirit that resides in Ashley. She is using wisdom and listening for your voice with prayer...to allow her to plan her direction. When one is single they are not bound to the same spiritual laws as exist in marriage...and either partner is free to walk away at any time. HOWEVER, when one is praying to restore a relationship that is outside of marriage God communicates exactly as you have written here. You are seeing progress in the communication between this man and yourself. The lightness of spirit in the way you have communicated your prayer request also says there is little resistance occurring also to the things that are being discussed. This is a sign of both growth and progression...you can see God's hand in the process. I agree with you that because there is progression you should not date others...unless this relationship is only a friendship at this stage and he is doing the same. The enemy will present many suitors to distract you...it is one of his most common tricks for both the single and the married. If going out with other people is not something you would be open to sharing with the one you are wanting to have a relationship with...I would recommend that you not do so. However if he is dating others...and you go out with others ONLY as friends...and are HONEST with this man that you care for about, as he should be with you...because there is no marriage...you are free to do so in the eyes of God...but understand until there is an agreement for exclusivity...he is as well. The choice however should be something that you are both comfortable with. While the outcome is still unknown...and free will must reign in both of your actions according to Spiritual Law...you are approaching this with the right attitude and with sound Godly wisdom. Keep your eyes on the Lord!

Father...draw this man that Ashley cares for closer to your son. Let him come to regard him as his friend, brother and savior... as a true person in his life that he should commune with daily. Draw Ashley to you also Father...for you to do the same in her life. I pray a hedge of protection around them both that they may stand against the wiles of the enemy. I pray that they are led to discuss things of Spirit together and to pray for one another and WITH one another...that your plan for their lives and this relationship may become clear to them. Father...let them use wisdom in their decisions about interacting with others Father...and let no interloper influenced by the enemy enter into their presence. Father...thank you for the progress you have brought to Ashley and this man...lead and guide them in their walk with you and as they explore walking together. In Jesus name...Amen!
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09-04-2010 09:51 PM
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Thank you for all of the prayers. Things have gotten better with the other people coming to me about going out on other dates. Now I keep getting hit with thoughts of his ex's and worrying if they will come back around. I know that God must have a great blessing ahead because of how my mind is being attacked. Progress has been made on his end showing more appreciation, love, and desire to spend time together. Please pray that no weapon formed against us will prosper, that both of our minds will remain strong and any negative influence will be cast out. I really appreciate your prayers!
09-07-2010 08:18 PM
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Father, let no weapon form against this relationship as you work things out between them...let no thing that is not of you prosper in their midst. Let Ashley hide your word in her heart so that when the enemy attacks her mind she may repel the enemy with the burning truth of your word. Let her boldly recite it aloud so the enemy may hear it and flee at the time of each and every attack! Father...thank you for the work you are doing with this couple...and thank you that she is sharing it for others to see. May you lead, guide and protect this man and this woman as individuals and collectively and bless their Godly way of working toward becoming a couple richly. In Jesus name...Amen!
09-07-2010 08:28 PM
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God, I want to thank you for all of the people who have prayed over my situation. I thank you for your encouragement by seeing prayers. I thank you for knwoing that there are people who will stand in the gap and interceed. I thank you for the great improvements in communication in our relationship, the moderate improvements in appreciation, and the slight increase in love & committment. God I speak life into this relationship and know that you have brought communication and appreciation this far, and those are part of the foundation of a solid relationship. I know that so many other relationships out there are needing prayer right now God, and I pray that we are able to encourage one another and be motivated to keep pressing by the blessing that we see your raining down in our relationship and the relationships of others that you are restoring. In Jesus name, Amen.
09-16-2010 04:38 PM
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Father, thank you for Ashley and her spirit of praise and thanksgiving. Father...if it be in your will, lead this couple to pray together about their lives as individuals and their walk as a couple...as it is Spiritual Oneness that is the adhesive in relationships long term. Be in their midst in every conversation and interaction and lead and guide them in a way that they can both perceive. In Jesus name...Amen!
09-16-2010 04:49 PM
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Dear Havenly Father Thy Kingdom come thy will be done on earth as it is in Heaven forgive us are sin as we for give are debtor and lead us not into temptiation but deliver us from evil Please answer this person prayer acord to your will and bless there life Lord and we give you all the priase honor and glory in all of this. IN JESUS NAME I PRAY AMEN

Sincerly: Steven Danielsen
John 14:14 If you ask Me anything in My name, I will do it.
09-16-2010 05:13 PM
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One thing that I have noticed lately is that God is working on me in the things that I am praying for other people for (some of which I am praying for myself for too). One is openness. For me, it's a bit different to post prayer requests here, but each time that I do, I know I am becoming more open and getting support from other who will pray for my need or struggle at the time. In my relationship, I have been praying for increases in communication, appreciation, love, and committment. I definitely see how God is working in communication & appreciation. The last few days, communication has seemed to begin to distance & slow. I called earlier today & haven't heard back when I normally would have heard something or got a text stating he would call soon. I am not willing to lose the ground that we have gained in communication and closeness. I pray that communication is restored, that I'm not putting my hand in there by trying to get ahead of God when I see things going well, and that God doesn't let his depression creep back in. In Jesus' name, Amen.
09-18-2010 05:15 PM
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Father...let Ashley keep her eyes on you...and not on the circumstances Father. Let her not worry and fret when she doesn't get a call back right away...but back off and let him do the initiating of communication. Let her focus on his needs through prayer...and on her own fears in the same way. Relationships have rough places...they do not just progress in a smooth way. We must prepare our hearts for some of the bumps along the road if we are going to make it in the long term. Let Agape love be our guide and let us pray for strength and wisdom to get past the rough places. In Jesus name...Amen!
09-18-2010 06:12 PM
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